Sex has never satisfied my urge to masturbate. When my wife and I first got together, we'd have sex 2x a day and I still needed to masturbate. Additionally, sex always puts me in the mood to masturbate

That's really hard to say; everyone is different and what works for one won't work for another. The general thought is that no there is no middle ground. I don't know if I was ever a full on addict, but I did have some behavior that would suggest I needed to make a change and I did. I have found some things that work for me and my situation. It has worked for couple years which is long enough I feel comfortable with it. So while I don't think giving up porn completely is a bad idea I just happened to find what works for me and allows me moderate PMO. Basically I did two things; I changed my approach to why I masturbate and I set some basic ground rules that I have generally been able to adhere to. I say it works for me because the issues I had in my own situation with excessive PMO have been alleviated so I consider that a success. Obviously YMMV

Not sure if this was the specific article frost was wanting to share but this gives the gist. porn sex marriage

In today's modern age, porn is pretty much an instantaneous endless supply. Along with the anonymity it's safe to say it's being used more often and by more people who might normally not including a higher percentage of women. There's no doubt porn can become addictive and have some bad consequences, particularly how it can affect sex with another person. Check out your brain on porn

But I agree with the other side of the article that it's hard to put porn at apex if what's killing society. I'm sure it's playing a part in the destruction of some marriages but I would presume there's greater causes. Kind of on the same line I've heard a growing number of divorces are women leaving their husbands because they've reconnected with an old flame on Facebook or have uses Facebook to start an online affair.

I'm sorry but do you really not see the difference between fantasizing about someone and going into their home and taking their personal belongings and using them to masturbate??? Then ejaculating on their items to boot? Harming them is gray but none the less it's an invasion which truly is wrong in this incident. They're trusting their home with this person which in turn means the elements inside it.

This never happens but I'm somehow finding myself with several hours at home alone today. 2 weekends in a row. Off to give myself a fresh shave then sit completely naked.

I believe what indie and myself are saying is the fetish isn't the issue. I get it and while not a fetish of mine I see the draw. I think the issue is the willingness to take people's properties unknowingly for your sexual pleasure. Would they not care? Unlikely. If they're having you watch their home there's a certain sense of trust. I suspect that with that trust is that you're willing to respect their personal property. You using their belongings for sexual pleasure without consent violates that. Can you honestly say they'd be OK if they knew? I don't know these people but feel safe in saying they would not. And certainly not their daughters belongings. Similar situation happened to a neighbor of mine and it was extremely disturbing to them. Does that make sense at all?

Interesting question. Personally never have nor do I have any particular desire to masturbate with another man in person. Have only done a little chatting bit that's different. Even masturbating with my wife is wonderful but there's also a slight uncomfortable feeling. I don't know, always felt it was my personal alone time that I enjoy.

Done this countless times with my wife and love it. Usually on her tit or stomach. Have also cum on her face, pussy, back, ass, and legs. Usually it's pulling put after Sex but several times from just masturbation

There are double standards between men and women. Always has been and always will be. I'll also say it's not intrinsically a bad thing. Regarding bulge versus cleavage there's a difference. Displaying your physique is not the same as displaying genitals. Men and women are wired differently; where we like to see their bodies while for women a well tailored suit is the equivalent to lingerie. I honestly don't see how the clothing issue is emasculating.