More like she's heard my "complaints" for all these years and never changed her ways.
People are who they are, and very hard to change when you have it in your brain that sex is dirty and unhealthy, so she always reverts back into the same pattern and lack of frequency, blaming it on having a busy house and busy life, most of the time.
Same story here, March will be 30. Wife has no clue never had any clue what a man wants from sex, or how often it would be nice to have sex. So the next best thing is to take it into our own hands. Jacking is just a form of self pleasure since the wife is totally in her own world and nothing to feel bad about, i'm with you 101%