I'm also about 15 mins south of wis border. just west of gurnee mills. I'm in my 60's and married.

I got to look at mags of a friend of mine. They belonged to his older brother and we would go into his room and look at the mags till his mother came home. We had free reign of his house from 3:30 till 6 pm when she got home. Learned a lot during the 3 years we did that. I was 11 when we started.

Where in lake county do you meet. How do I get in touch with you. I live in the area near Gurnee mills.

It hard to get women to chat let alone cam here. They all want young guys in great shape. I really can't blame them. I would just like to chat with a real woman and if it leads to cam great.But if not then a good sexy conversation is always fun. What bothers me is the ones that get off fast and then log out leaving you hanging. To be honest I want to know more that the size of the breasts. A long term chat/cam relationship can be very sexy and intresting.

my wife has used hers on me a few times. it is great

There are actual real live women on jackinchat. I have cammed with two so far.

I was lucky enough to have a friend that due to medical difficulties can no longer perform sexually. That sounds kind of cold but he has no problems with it and says he doesn't miss it at all.

He has a very sexy wife who doesn't look her age, she is 56. She still wants a regular sex life but doesn't want intercourse or oral as she feels it would be wrong. I know her husband doesn't care if she does but she sill won't. We have gotten together a few times for dinner when he is out of town and it finally ended up at her place when we got a bit drunk. I thought I was gonna talk her into sex but she was adamant about it so said jokingly lets just masturbate then.

She loved the idea and we both took off our clothes sat in front of each other and masturbated. She said later that was the ideal solution for her. She enjoyed watching me and me watching her. We have done this several times, usually when she gets horny. She told me she doesn't like to masturbate alone and being with me was like a sexual encounter without the touching sex stuff. I have really enjoyed it and am still hoping to get her to have intercourse with me. I'll just keep on trying.

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I'm in the north burbs but most likely too old for you.

would be glad to give it a try.

I also am looking for online buddy. I think I am way to old for you but maybe there is someone out there looking for a 50+ buddy.
Good luck on your search.

Have stripped off pants and undershorts while driving at night with wife. I masturbate and she drives. turns us both on.

When I was 11 two friends and I were camping out in my buddies back yard. He told us he wanted to show us something neat and proceeded to show us how he masturbated. I had never seen or heard about this before. This was way before the internet and porn videos. After he climaxed he told us how to do it and we both tried as he instructed us. It felt great but I didn't climax the first time. In the morning after we had slept I woke up and started to play with myself again and as before it felt great. He woke up and saw what I was doing and told me to hold it less tight and to do it slowly. I did and It was the most fantastic feeling I had ever had. I came and my body shook for 10 mins. The week after I think I wore 2 or 3 layers of skin off my dick masturbating so much.

My wife enjoys giving long slow hand jobs, at least she tells me she does. I will finish about half the time and the rest I let her finish. Either way it's very pleasurable. Hand jobs have been part of our sex life from the beginning. When we first went out I took her home and we parked in her parents driveway and started to make out and she surprised the hell out of me my opening my pants and jacking me off. To say the least I was very happy. It's been something we do pretty regularly.

Have tried it when I was younger but I would only go a few days and end up having a wet dream. I always woke up just as I was cumming and would stroke till I was finished. Now I could go a lot longer, but why?

It's true, it is not going to get any better, barring a miracle. You sound like your not compatible, do both of you a favor and look elsewhere because she is going to come to resent your constant attempts at sex. Find a woman who thinks like you do and allow her to find someone who thinks like she dose. Sex in a relationship isn't everything but it's big part of a relationship, specially at the beginning.