I here ya bud. 32 straight guy with gf, just enjoy a bud to jack with now and then. think it's wild seeing a buddy cum!

I've tried a few (aka many) techniques to slow down, speed up, intensity, prolong etc. a good cum. For me, I get the greatest load with the most intensity from common stroking styles, but slowing down a bit as I get closer. From there, I alternate between the common full-shaft stroke, speeding up or slowing down as the mood fits, with a lose wrap around my crown creating a bit of friction. I close my thumb to the tip of my first finger and work ONLY the the ring of my crown. For me, that wrap fits perfectly. When I feel my body starting to want to tense up, I stop for about 10 seconds, stretch --and yes, I'm in bed flat on my back -- then work the crown until I start to tense up again. I do that a few ( or more ) times, and when my dick starts to twitch with a bit more energy, I stop. That's VERY important. Now, with 2 fingers, I massage my glans, that magic spot, in a slow circular movement without stopping, but as I get closer and my body keeps tensing up, I intentionally try to relax but without stopping the slow massage on my glans. The closer I get to busting a nut, the more I try to relax. The dynamic tension makes me crazy! (that's a timing and speed you'll want to play with!!). When I want to blow, I tell myself, "ease into it, just let it fly", then my body completely tenses and I let it. My toes curl,shoulder blades pull together, butt clenches, back arches.....BUT I never stop the slow, circular massage on my glans until after I shoot a huge fucking load -- on a good night, maybe 5 ropes -- and my dick starts to get pretty limp.