I just bought my first but plug. Actually it's the first time i ventured in a sex shop (!). Sitting with it up my ass, super nervous waiting for my wife to return, she has promised sex today. Every movement tickles me up there. My dick hard and drooling but i mustn't jerk off. The plug s too small for keeping it in place while doing chores, but now i know...

Was never flexible enough for this stunt, but over the years this idea has given me some of the hottest erotic dreams.

I have stopped using porn, because it made me need bigger doses of stimulation to get off, stiffled my fantasy and gave me a hard time finishing in my wife without exhausting her and myself too. And when looking at porn I would get off too quickly. I do miss porn but in the long run it becomes too much of a need.

It's like the No Fap movement. A constant battle against nature. Not masturbating IS perverse, unless there is some health issue involved.

Every time a different fantasy. The other day I was thinking I'm pants down in a corner of my underground train wanking while a stranger, one of those handsome beautiful young men, is looking at me from across.

Constantly. It is my default state of mind. Unless i am distracted by work or my other businesses. And even then, I sometimes feel unable to switch to anything else

It is quite different and I need both. So we have sex all the way, then sometimes she will masturbate me or watch me or let me hump her thigh. I also never quit jerking off by myself. BUT, cumming inside gives such a feeling of complicity, of fulfillment, it will always be my no 1 choice

It's all in the mind. I used like many to fantasise of licking it then when cumming lost all urge and felt it was disgusting. Then I found myself in a very upsetting sexually hyperdrive period and just tried it. I've been doing it since and guess what? It s nice but not a fantasy any more.

I asked that question too, some time ago. For me it is absurd. Although restraining yourself for a while may make for better orgasms later, doing it for longer periods goes against nature. It is self-maltreatment.

Well, I like sniffing my own underwear. Does that count;

One of those few days when I'm alone at work, due to a strike. I have been surfing here on JC all morning, I'm hard and horny. I think I'll end up cumming in my pants, as I haven't since years now.

I masturbate lets say 30 times a month. At least daily, often 2 times, sometimes 3. I back down when WE approaches, to build up, because we have sex once a week. In between she may give me a handjob or two. No blow jobs unfortunately.
These are our current stats. Until a few months ago it was 0 everywhere, except for wanking, which was also less frequent, but these were bad years and I prefer to forget them. So you may say that today I'm a happy man again.

I also sometimes take too long to cum and my wife gets tired, so then we finish it with a handjob or frot. What I dont get is how on earth a guy who fakes orgasm can then feel satisfied and relieved. I can be terribly tired, to the point of losing my erection after one hour of trying to cum, and still not wanting to stop. The frustration of not cumming is terrible and can keep me awake for the night. The cock may seem relaxed but my underbelly inside remains on fire. So, how on earth does it make a man feel good to fake an orgasm?

Blowing a twink, kissing him while he's fingering my cock and ass, fucking him while jerking him to ecstasy.