Not married or in a relationship with a woman but I know several men who are and they report the same kind of thing.

It's not all women of course, there are plenty who are very open and respectful of their male partners and don't impose and make demands, but there is definitely a cultural problem with regard to male sexuality in the minds of a lot of women.

Does no one find it bizarre how women are considered "empowered" for going to strip shows and attending sex toy parties, but men are "perverts" if we dare to want the same things?

I've met married guys who can't keep a stroker toy at home because their wife would freak out, all the while she's got two or three vibrators in her bedside drawer.

Look at the examples of it in modern culture. Ellen Degeneres was bringing out a shirtless hunk every week and the female audience would go crazy, but imagine if Doctor Phil (not a doctor lol) brought out a bikini-clad woman for the male audience to holler at.

We all know how that would go, right?

It's no wonder so many married men look for masturbation buddies and never tell their wives, so many women act like the Taliban with their hypocrisy and misandry. They seem to think their man's cock is their property.

Sometimes just being around another proud cock is enough. I've met all kinds of bators over the years, it's fun whether the guy is into frotting and hand jobs or just stroking our own and comparing/watching.

I'm British and I don't think most guys in the UK use lube to jack off. I don't need to but it's good for long edging sessions and frotting with a buddy.
I definitely think it's more of a cut/uncut thing.

I don't know if you consider books to be porn, but I've really got into jack off fiction lately. There's so little of it out there but the Book of Bate anthologies at Amazon are awesome.

I'm not married but I've met a lot of married guys who are in a similar situation. Most of them just have an interest in cock and masturbation, which I think is pretty logical. Didn't all guys kind of develop a fetish for wanking before sex?

It doesn't really mean anything about your sexuality, it's not so different to any other specific interest when it comes to sex, but I do think it's the most common of fetishes.

When you think about it almost all straight porn focuses a lot on the man and his dick. If most guys didn't have an interest in cock wouldn't most "straight" porn be lesbian porn?

There are a lot of men out there interested in exploring cock play with other guys. No one can make you find the motivation to look for them, though. You need to do that yourself. Once you have I think you'll probably find it easier and easier to explore that side of your sexuality.

Life is short, so jump in. What's the worst that could happen?

Maybe look for cruising locations near you. There are a few sites out there that list places. I personally think BuddyBate is a good one for looking for local guys seeking cock play specifically, so maybe starting out with masturbation would be the easiest way.

Good luck and enjoy the adventure

Definitely miss the days of porn mags, and sharing them with mates and having wank sessions showing each other the best pics you find, picking one to jizz over and just letting your cocks squirt it everywhere

Guys these days don't know what they're missing out on. You don't get the same bater bro experience with internet porn.

I've wanked with all kinds of guys from 19 to about 65. A cock is a cock, as long as a guy is happy to share it in a good stroking session I'm down

I like to keep mine moving most of the time, but there are occasions where I'll focus on the head and really work it with a lot of lube/pre.

Just met up with a new wank mate on Tuesday, he's a novice so it's been fun getting him started. Most he'd done was wank to porn with a friend a few years ago but he's been curious about swapping cocks and frotting. We had a good first meet. Rubbed dicks, enjoyed a little sword fighting and made each other cum.

We're planning another meet for Sunday.

He's got a nice cock too. 7 inches and uncut, low hangers. Cums a lot. He got me off no trouble

Still have other regular buddies but it's nice to meet a new one now and then.

I love reading erotic stories but so many of them are the same. A lot of it is poorly written and not in the kinds of themes I like.

The only stories I've really got into are the BuddyBate stories. They've just released their first Book Of Bate anthology and I'm half way through it already. Wanked off ten times so far lol

And none of this will work, just like none of the last proposed bill would work. It's being concocted by illiberal pressure groups and old politicians who don't know the difference between an ISP and a VPN.

They cannot physically force companies like Twitter, Google, Bing and Reddit to comply with backward, draconian rules (which will also fall foul of EU privacy and liberal freedom laws, as well as US laws), so the only option they will have is to block them, which they're not going to do.

And as others have said, all of this will be made redundant by VPN.

We need laws to hold companies accountable for allowing criminal content to be shared via their platforms, no doubt, but they're using this genuine problem as a wedge to inflict their moralistic bs on the rest of society.

We already have laws to hold ADULTS (parents) accountable for allowing their kids to view adult content. You can already be arrested and charged for giving anyone underage access to pornography.

Instead of actually enforcing these laws and holding the parents accountable for their terrible parenting, they want to shift all responsibility onto everyone else.

It should be down to PARENTS to actually be parents and use all the many tools already available to them to prevent their child from accessing such content.

But, they're lazy, incapable, incompetent and irresponsible, so they command that the entire world do their job for them.