I am a married guy with a best friend who is also recently married. Ever since getting married my friend is constantly complaining about never getting any from his wife and how he has to jerk off to porn all the time. He has NO idea that I would be quite eager to suck him dry. Is there any way anyone can think of me for me to present this to him? I'm not so worried about the rejection but what might come along with the rejection...awkwardness, him telling others, etc. Thoughts?

perhaps you could do a stroke session, where you both stroke your own while watching porn. Sort of a buddy jerk thing. Then, see if he's watching the porn, or you. If it looks good, suggest you stroke each other. Then... it's up to you.

I'd love to be able to post here and say to you that I have a full proof plan that will have him presenting his hard cock to your lips but I can't, and nobody else here will either.

 Situations like this are hard to comment on because we know nothing about the individuals involved, and then to add weight to the matter, you're both married. As far as we know, it's only you that has this desire so I have to work off that assumption.

 Do you have a porn collection? Your friend obviously feels comfortable enough to share that he enjoys porn and jacks off. You should turn the focal point to porn in your conversation, chat about it, what sort you're both into. Find common ground. Once you're past that hurdle try chatting about specific women, name drop and see if he knows or doesn't know the girl. If he doesn't, it's all the better for you. Get him curious and maybe say things like I should show you sometime or talk about this video he has to check out. See how he takes to this. It opens up the possibility without throwing it in his face. If he's ever around at yours and the wives are away and you chat, there's an opportunity to at least look at porn together IF porn comes up in conversation - obviously you can tempt it by chatting about relationships, sex life etc yourself.

 It's never going to be quick, it will happen over time. My advise would be to consider what I've said along with any other advice. But DON'T just approach him and try anything that could lead to the breakdown of marriage. Remember he could misinterpret your actions if you're not careful. My recommendation would be to delve further into the porn conversations, it COULD lead to one day showing him a porn star you like or pics / vids and then things might feel a bit more natural, it'll give him a small taster for it. Naturally from there it COULD lead to mutual masturbation and then from there to being more open with each other.

There are no promises and i can't say it'll work but this is how I'd try it.

 Good luck!

Thanks for the suggestions, hornyolder51 and Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r. I do appreciate the feedback!

No problem :-)

I see....but does he like guys? Cause if he doesn't, he's not gonna want your mouth on his dick! I'd suggest getting him a fleshlight for the holidays or his birthday, what ever is sooner. You get one and have fun. Maybe he'll sit back and let you twist the thing on his pole.
(Actually I'm such a perv, I'd might do that with my friend if I could)

I also suggest you use porn to nab him. It's been my experience that alcohol is the great social lubricator and that the saying, "The difference between a straight man and a gay man is a six pack." So, get your friend drunk, maybe not drunk but toasty.

Talk sex as much as you can. Take him to your house, his house, wherever one of the wives isn't around and put some porn on. You should find out what he really likes in porn and let him watch some.

Casually mention that you could suck a better dick than the girl in the porno. Even the worst male cocksucker can say this. If he doesn't take the bait, tell him about some time that you sucked a dick (even if it's a lie and he'll be your first) and how much you enjoyed sucking that dick. I won't guarantee it will work that night, but it'll be stuck in his brain.

You could also say that the video's making you horny and reach down and grab yourself, repeatedly. Even stick a hand down your pants and stroke yourself. If he sits there, not saying anything and not doing anything, the likelihood is that nothing is going to happen.

If he starts grabbing himself and rubbing his crotch, kill the lights and at some point, take your own hard dick out. If he doesn't do the same, you can always say, "Hey, we're both guys here." Once his dick is out in the open, the chances of you sucking his dick increase. Alcohol+hardon=score.

Have fun and I hope it works.

Wow, some hot posts in here.

I don't want to suck a guy off, but wouldn't mind a wank bud - esp as my girlfriend works away a lot. My worry is that it would always be misunderstood. I just want to watch porn, drink a few beers and share a bit of j/o fun with a mate.

I've never really known how to approach the subject so I like the 'take it slow, work it out' approach a few others mention in here. I've never really known if it actually works, but sounds like it has for some guys in here??

I'd all but given up, but might try and see if I *can* have a good mate also be wank bud one of these days.

G'day bi_m_pgh,
That post from Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r, has to be one of the best I've ever seen on J/C. I don't think you'll find any better advice than this....well thought out, sensible and offers a low risk way to try and broach the subject with you mate, in a easy and slow approach. Good to know that there are people like Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r, on here who are prepared to offer sound advice!

Thanks for the ego boost :-)

I agree, but has that strategy brought good results for you then Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r??

C'mon, that as good as a proven strategy in your experience? Would love to hear a bit more as to why you reached these conclusions.

Thanks!

I agree. A few drinks a lot of porn and hard cocks will lead to lots of fun! Actually did this once and was glad and had more fun as a result.

I have to agree with the guys, particularly Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r, who are saying that the best approach is slow and non-aggressive. If your friend is watching porn, I'd be surprised if he would be offended if you invited him to watch with you. It's not too much of a stretch then to, over time, be jacking buddies, only rubbing your dick through your pants during the vid is obviously a better start than immediately whipping it out. Also, it could be a lot easier to go from jacking each other to a blow job than offering a blow job early on. And you may or may not get to that level. From the sound of things, you could have a lot of fun just with a new jacking buddy, mutual or not.

The other suggestion I would have is that you could try approaching things with some "I have a friend who..." statements, instead of going right to "Would you", "Have you ever", or "Do you want to" kinds of questions. After all, it's not a lie to say that you have friends who do whatever, because a lot of your online friends on this site probably have tried what you're wanting to do. I could imagine saying something like, "I have a friend who invited a neighbor friend over to kick back and watch porn together, and they got so horned up by the vids that they jacked together and then his neighbor sucked him off. Crazy, huh!" The reaction you get from that could be pretty telling, 'cause it could be anything from disgust to a bulge cropping up in his pants.

Ha I've honestly never tried that strategy or any other to be perfectly honest with you. I can't speak from experience in this situation, I've never even been on cam with a guy let alone in the same room as one jacking off

What I said is just what I'd do if I were the OP, won't necessarily work but I reckon it was pretty straight advice without taking too many risks

I don't have a guy in my life that I'd love to suck, or even have as a wank buddy but I have thought about it before. Wouldn't pass down the opportunity if it arose!

If i ever find myself in a position to try this out, I'll post it here lol

I concur with spunkdrunk... sage advice! Coulnd't have put it better myself!