Love an understanding gf

My wife knows I JO because she caught me about 12 times and was pissed each time. She now suspects I JO every time I am alone which is is about right. I few times when I suggested sex and she did not want to, she said go take care of it by yourself. Which I did a few times. It would be a big turn on if she wanted to watch. We have sex 2/3 times a mouth which is me getting her off with a vibrator for many orgasms and her giving me a great BJ. I JO about 2/3 times a week, I probably would do It 5/6 times a week if I had the opportunity .

My wife not only knows, she is sometimes in the room when I'm stroking and watching porn. She has no sex drive so she figures if I'm masturbating regularly I won't cheat on her. If I ever don't masturbate in a day she will ask why. She likes knowing that I'm satisfying myself so she doesn't have to. She see's "allowing" me to masturbate the same as fucking me. Her logic..."you cum either way".

My partner knows I have some kind of problem but she cant be sure.

She has mentioned Nina Mercedez in the past so must have seen something Maybe one of my older profiles on here where I say she is my favourite pornstar.

She knows I look at porn and jack off, but not that I chat and cam.
She doesn't want sex so she's happy I don't pester her for since I'm stroking.

She doesn't know about all my jacking habits but knows I do because if she isn't in the mood to fuck she is ok with me lying or sitting next to her and getting off on my own

For sure! We send each other porn links, watch porn together, browse various sites and cam together occasionally - it's fun to have hobbies

Fortunately my wife is happy to jerk me off. She used to do it rather unwillingly after a lot of asking, now she comes running whenever I message her and ask her - genuinely seems to enjoy it

She knows that I jackoff, but she has no idea of the frequency or that at least half the time I am jacking to gay/bi/CD porn

Absolutely not! No way in fact

I suspect she knows I jerk off but has no idea of how often.

My GF has caught me masturbating to porn, hundreds of times. She doesn't know I cam with other men and jack off together. She also doesn't know I pay $1000s for porn. She doesn't know I meet up with other guys to jack off and suck cock. She sees all of the hard drives and storage devices, computers, Laptops and tablets I have for watching porn. She calls it "Your perversion", with great distain.

I think they all *know* on some level. But not necessarily frequency or *likes*, neither of which they may like.

Definitely knows I do it (I drop plenty of not-very-subtle hints as a way of telling her I'm not getting enough sex), but she would be astonished if she realised the frequency/amount of time I spend. Not to mention the fantasies and people I wank over!

I have suggested we could masturbate together side-by-side, or give each other a helping hand. As with many other suggestions though, she dismissed that out of hand, as if I'd proposed a joint skydive from the moon.

As a gay man,I never married nor had a wife to know about my masturbation addiction I've enjoyed since a boy. My dad gave me the 'masturbation talk' and had me confirm what he had suspected...that I was a masturbator. Then he later admitted he was one, too, two masturbators under the same roof. We respected the other's privacy. We knew the other's secret but my mom had no idea I'm sure, that me and my dad were both masturbators in the family, well hidden from other family members including my sister. My dad and I never discussed it between ourselves but we knew the other did it.