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If you're not that into her why stay together?

Funny thing about certain girls. They're maybe not very good at sex, and don't seem to be that excited about it. But you give them a kiss, maybe squeeze their tits a little, and their legs spring open for you. The girls with easily spread legs were always very popular with me, even if they were not very "good" at sex. If the legs are spread, my dick and hips can provide the necessary action.

Wife claims to want sex, but will not indicate her willingness in anyway. Doesn't say or do anything. Very still, almost corpse like. Frustrating as hell so I jo a lot rather than trying to be a mind reader.

My wife is definitely NOT a prude. Then again we are into the same things sexually, and not interested in the same things sexually. She doesn't mind giving me a blowjob and I go down on her. She also gives me a handjob when it's that time of the month or she's not up for full sex. With that being said, I have never been interested in ANYTHING anal, and find the entire concept disgusting. As far as I'm concerned that is an area of the body that is very unsexual for me. She feels the same way. So maybe the reason that I think she's not a prude is because we are VERY compatible sexually. Our sex drives are the same and our sexual interests are the same. Maybe those of you who think your wife is a "prude," might just be with someone that you are not compatible with sexually, or your sexual interests and/or sex drives are different. Before I got married I had a couple of girlfriends where that was the case. There is a reason that I'm not married to any of them and am married to my wife. (Sex isn't the ONLY factor, but it is A factor that can't be overlooked.)

You are a very lucky guy. It is not an uncommon scenario where the wife changes after marriage - and not in the right direction. Frankly, this could happen with guys too but it seems to be more typical with women, especially after kids.

I was just about to say samlee, that if it's bad for these guys now to wait until the kids come along because then it gets even worse.
Thankfully there are places like this where we can air our grievances without being made out to be pariahs!

my wife says she could do without sex,but when we have it on average twice a week she loves it,likes me licking her but does not suck me at all, did when we first met both like a good wank,but she could live without sex,me nooooooooooo

You're right safehandskeeper but I wouldn't have joined this site if there weren't women involved also. Unfortunately, I can't figure out the ones that are on here. Because there are so few, I expect they are inundated with emails from us horny guys but still...

same boat, that's why I'm here..lol

YES

My wife has never been a prude, when we first started dating, in that loved up phase, we were fucking like there was no tommorrow, trying everything. Then after we got married and had kids, we had a lot less time to experiment and sex became a straight forward thing that we both enjoyed but didn't really experiment with. Now the kids are older, we have a lot more time on our hands and are having the time of our lives trying all kinds of things, my wife has discovered her love of anal, sex toys, a little light bondage and role play. I think it's hard though if both partners have differing sex drives and time together is hard to find or communication between partners isn't great.

Never mind a woman being a prude; a woman who has an aversion to male genitalia is worse. My wife was sexually abused at age 11 (forced to suck the cock of her best friend's father), and has never once touched my cock--or even looked at it for that matter. She used to let me suck her when she was drunk--and sometimes I even got to insert my penis into her when she was close to passing out. But now it has been 10 years since we have had anything resembling sex. In fact, I cannot even remember what she looks like naked: she always covers up if I happen to see her disrobing. And I am someone who needs to cum every day! Sigh. Thank God the Internet came along.

I'm with you, iBalls and rogerrubs. It's been years, and I don't think it will ever happen again. There's always been porn, but thank god for the internet, now I can jerk off as many times as I want to. I think it's better than if she had any interest.

Well gee I don't know there buddy...In my case I have children with the BITCH..number 1 and I don't have a fucking job and my car got frigging repo'd so damn I don't know so maybe you can help me the FUCK out...

NEXT FUCKING QUESTION...Gee Alex I will take Get A MOTHER FUCKING CLUE for 200 please