Yes plush I am afraid your missing out on a very exciting time. It is very exciting and stimulating at the same time. Know that everyone is sharing in a common interest, called sexual excitement!

And there's the added thrill of watching and being watched at the same time.

Finding a jack off buddy is a hell of a lot easier then finding a jack off beauty. It's all about the cumming. Guys releasing their cum together is fun. We know what we want...no dating involved. When my buddies have cum over, we jack/suck until we cum then he leaves. That's it.

My personal experience is this:

I started jerking off with other guys online probably around the time I graduated from college, which was '07-ish. Before then I had found one or two girls online who indulged my fantasies and we had some fun chatting together about masturbating while we did it (well, I did -- not sure about the girls!).

I initially started because I was a single, already masturbated all the time, and finding a woman in a community like this is not impossible, but it's a very needle-in-a-haystack kind of proposition. So I started chatting with guys. I still considered myself straight, and we always chatted about women we wanted to fuck and things like that.

I found at first that I didn't mind it. Then I realized it was a pretty decent substitute. Then I actually started to like it. Now it's one of my favorite pastimes and my #1 favorite way to masturbate. I still consider myself mostly straight; I'm not really attracted to guys although I do like penises quite a bit. But there's a rush that I get, even after so many years, of meeting a stranger on here, chatting either online or on the phone, and going completely wild together.

It's SO much better than jerking off alone, and it's ALMOST as good as sex.

Snapchat- mj319913
Lets play and jerk it

wish I had a jerk off buddy

not for me but we all like different things.

I understand how some guys feel but it's like this, we all jack of right? So what's wrong with guys getting together and doing it? It's way more fun, you get to compare sizes, techniques, camaraderie and seeing other guys blowing their loads well, that's hot ! Then when you get used to it you may feel like touching each other and that's cool too. I don't see a thing wrong with it really and I don't think it's gay either. I've never found men attractive but I do like penis's. In modern society we've branded anything like this as taboo but labels aside what's wrong with guys getting together and doing what they do anyway?

I can understand the confusion plush. With the way most of the worlds societies view sex and sexuality in such a negative light. It does seem counter intuitive. However as you can see from the other posts, and I agree, most people have a wider range of sexual tastes and degrees in which we find women and men attractive. That's what makes these labels so narrow and ill defining.

I call myself bi. But it might be more accurate to you for me to call myself gay orientation wise. Most of my romantic and sexual thoughts are about men. But in the right circumstances and the right woman. I also find women attractive and have had romantic and sexual relationships with them as well.

In my mind masturbating with another guy isn't the same thing though. I don't really think you have to be oriented towards men sexually or romantically to enjoy and get aroused masturbating with other men. In fact I have first hand evidence of this as most of the jack off buds I have had in my life have been men who identify as straight.

Masturbation is the first sexual experience the vast majority of us have. Its the most common form of sexual expression period. Men tend to do it more then women.(though don't let the ladies fool you they are jilling themselves quite often as well.lol)

Jerking off is one of the most universal male experiences. And one that for a lot of us is, especially at an early age, covered in guilt and shame. Either by societal pressure, religion, parents etc. For me personally. As a man, and I think a lot of men feel this way, I crave close intimate relationships with other men. I'm not even talking about intimate in a sexual way. Just close good buds with strong bonds of friendship And trust . And a lot of men tend to deny themselves these friendships because they are afraid of being labeled as "gay". But its an incredibly liberating and validating experience to not only share that you masturbate with other men. But to actually do it together. It helps break down the taboos surrounding it and indeed our own feelings of guilt or shame we may experience about it.

To me masturbating with another guy and having sex with another guy are two different things. Depending on the men involved it doesn't have to be. But in my experience it usually is. The first time I masturbated with another man I had already had sex with other men and women. But this act was something that I considered even more intimate then those other sexual experiences. Allowing yourself to be vunlerable and trusting another man with that vulnerablity. Having another man trust you enough to be vulnerable with you. Is an incredibly intimate experience. It engenders a deep bond of trust and camaraderie to share your personal kinks and things that turn your crank and have another guy share those things with you. In a non judgemental atmosphere.

I mean our brains and bodies are hardwired to become aroused at most any sexual stimulation. Sharing these experiences with another man has created some of the best and closest male friendships I've ever had.

Anyway those are just some of my rambling thoughts on the matter. If I let myself I'm sure i could go on for quite some time. Yes I know what your thinking...you already have! Lol If anyone is interested I'm always happy to discuss the topic at length....obviously. sorry for the long post.

Well, doing something you are NOT supposed to do with someone you are NOT supposed to do it with is a TURN ON!
And, it's not new, even the Spartans did it! They would have been defined (today)as being bi-sexual but they didn't even had a word for it - it was a normal thing to them, back then.

I love this thread; would love to try this sometime, Have never tried it. But is it embarrassing if you come before the other guy? What do you do in that case? ;-)

Good manners dictate that you wait until he's shot his load too. It doesn't matter who cums first or even who shoots the most spunk. Stop thinking of it at a "contest" and then you might enjoy it.

Very well said woodside

I'm currently in a hotel with a straight buddy listening to the other rooms whilst stroking together. Gonna have a wank race

@Jay0143 , that was very well put. Thank you touching upon something not often discussed in society today and that is men's inability to trust and be personal friends , being vulnerable and openly displaying ourselves to each other and accepting it as both pleasing in an intimate way and satisfying physically. Many guys have found deep friendships through this highly pleasurable act and established long lasting bonds as a result.
In my life I've known many grown men who were ashamed to admit masturbation and swore they had never done it. Really I would rather know the man who readily admits it.
It's great more guys are seeing this for themselves though.