Mine is a prude as well and would be very freaked out if I told her my inner desires, from taking her to a porn shop and making her watch me play with others to sharing her with as many guys as I could find to her having lesbian sex with a big tit women. After kids she turned into a prude boring wife.

Glad to see i am not the only man who has a religious moral wife. Mine would kill me if she knew my fantasies. She saw me jerking one morning and haven't had sex since (4 years now).

I find class A drugs bring out a womans inner sexual desire....

That's so harsh. To prefer staying moral and afraid, instead of enjoying the life we have in these bodies, even with the promised-faithful "bonds" of husband-and-wife.

But they won't change for us. Only if a pastor (or another woman they trust) tells them it's normal, men masturbate, get over it ... but that's no guarantee. And if we walk out, or file for divorce, or cheat then we are the ones who get blamed.

My wife is an extreme prude as well. She's not particularly religious but after the kids were born, her interest in sex dropped way off. I still try to make subtle advances but she literally tells me to not touch her and "just get away"

Well, with a mate like that, I had no choice but to pursue the nasty life. She would be absolutely shocked to discover that I love porn, have a jacking buddy I meet up with to lovingly suck his cock, that I masturbate and cam online, have a secret email account for nasty correspondence, and that I eat my sperm!

If she knew all this she would either send me to counseling or divorce me. Hit me up if you'd like to cam with a lonely, sex starved older man!

Yes, my wife would freak if I told her I'd like to try sucking a cock to orgasm and swallow the cum. I'd like to meet with a guy and jerk off, jerk him off, and be jerked off by him! I'd love to go nude all day with a guy and see his cock and balls and have him see mine, and just enjoy being nude together!

Oh well!

whats with f*cking churches and sex. thats what f*cked up my marriage too. their advice on sex (and everything else) is just shit !

I struggle with a similar type of situation. However, my wife did find some of my on-line presence including my curiosity about wanting to suck cock and it did shake her up quite a bit.

I convinced her that I had never acted upon my desires, which I have not as an adult and she already knows about the one experience I had when I was 13 and the other guy was 12.

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I identify with a lot of the others writing here. No sex from wife for nearly 20 years and it started with a church view of marriage. She would be shocked at the fantasies and memories I have shared here in the chat room. I did used to visit a local single mum, to help out, a few years ago but lost contact when they moved away. I love masturbating and chatting and its good to know so many of us feel the same way.

Mine is prude too, never had much interest in sex and certainly not the things I enjoy! TBH I've always enjoy wanking and watching than actual sex so being a full time solo sexual perfect for me!
I've had affairs with dirty women in past and for several years was very active in the swinging community and went dogging lots and even visited a sleazy porn cinema in London several times with 2 of these ladies (I'm also very bi and love sucking cock)
She would freak out if she knew what a dirty pervert I am!
Love chatting about a wanker esp on Skype or by text or phone wank..

Looks like the moral of the story is...dont get married!!!.
By the way i am married and only just starting to get back in the saddle with her. 3 years without sex and now we have turned a corner..had amazing sex last weekend with plenty of hard pounding and cumming..week before thati was eating her pussy out as she came on my face
But i have had to suffer and beg to get here again..but we are here thank god

Same boat here. Wow I'm glad I'm not the only one here. My wife has no interest sexually. She has never let me go down on her and I could tell on our honeymoon cruise that I might have made a mistake. I do love her and that's why I stayed but I was always a very sexual person and I'm to the point where I would leave. 25 years of sexual neglect is bottled up inside of me. I did cheat a few times ahd the sex was incredible! 2 of the girls wanted me to leave her and be with them. I told them if i ever do leave i am not getting tied down again. I'm headed to nudist resort and making new friends!

As with everything else religion gets misused. A lot of good things come of it, but a lot of bad things come of it too.

Terrible attitudes towards sex and paedophile priests at one end of the spectrum, maniac fundamentalists warping peaceful religious dogma into hate-filled murder sprees at the other.

A lot of religious belief is very outdated and it doesn't take a genius to figure out that religions/gods change every 5 minutes (cosmically).

I mean the Internet (TechnoGod) gets misused for fuck's sake. There are people out there who don't use it as a masturbation aid. What's wrong with them?

Oh yeah and me too by the way...it's not her fault and I love her despite the differences.

I think many women just don't get into it because they have never had an orgasm. I have known some women that think Female Orgasms are a myth... go figure!