I think this is more common than you'd think, its just not commonly discussed. I wish it were more common, and easier to find buds to do it with. Its SO fun, but considered wrong or somehow "gay." Most guys I have stroked with have been married. Its a natural outlet for them. A lot of uptight guys are really missing out. We all love masturbating and porn--why not share the fun and excitement? Its just JO...its recreational, not sexual. Its like watching a sports game or race except you are getting into your favorite girls.

while i agree with you Frooner1, most women see it as sexual and cheating, and downright homosexual. Most women feel the same about men visiting strip clubs too. Whereas men are ok and most times encourage women to be intimate with other women.

Who cares what the women think? The world is full of these male/female double standards. Humans were not meant to be monogamous. That's why some married guys want JO buds. Enjoying porn hotties with a bud occasionally is better than outright cheating.

go slow. maybe try it out on a guy who's not your best friend so if he gets mad, nothing lost.

I like to find a good regular JO bud, ideally. I personally don't mix my JO with people I know from any other aspect of my life. I need to keep safe boundaries. Craigslist was a huge waste of time and now so is Doublelist. I have had the best luck finding really good buds by hanging out on Jackinchat, being patient, putting myself out there by chatting, registering, using the boards, searching profiles geographically, etc. It helps to use a nickname that includes reference to your location, activity interest, etc.
And more recently, I seem to be meeting more local people on Rabbit porn chats.

I find friends who travel in similar circles to you are equally protective of themselves and of you. I have jerked off with friends from work, and nothing is ever said about it to others.

I prefer other married guys to single ones simply because they have a greater need to protect themselves, especially when they are straight. I love to jerk off with them and we both can indulge our interests and fantasies with each other. I've never met anyone IRL from meeting on this site, but it is possible. I masturbate a lot both online and off.

Hey guys
Really is very common I think, I have been doing it with my best mate for years, we relax switch on the porn, anything from DP MFM to BBC porn, we chat about our wives, he wants to fuck my wife and that really turns me on... so much. Time is limited, so love to make it happen when we can.
Anyone want to chat more drop me a line :-)

Seems like there are lots of us married, horny guys out there. Would be ideal to have a trusting group to blow off some steam.

I'm not married, but I belong to an informal group called the "J Club." There are five of us and we get together 2 or 3 times a month to watch porn and jack off together. Porn vids and tissues are provided by the host. A large towel is placed on the floor and all cum must be squirted on it.

Sadly not, but as long as I've got a cock in my mouth - I'm happy!

I did but unfortunately he moved and I havent found a new bud in a long time. I really miss it.

Frooner1, I could not agree with you more. Over the years, I have been lucky enough to have a few, one on one, married stroke buds. There's something pretty amazing about watching another guy get hard and stroke, while he watches you do the same. And if you happen to give each other a helping hand, or get your cocks rubbing together, even better. Feeling another guy cumming while you are stroking his cock is an incredible feeling.

I would love to start something with some on my other married friends (the single ones too, I am not picky) but it is how to approach it. I do not think simply asking them if they fancy a wank together would be a safe option.

Such a hot thought to have a regular buddy that I can wank and chat with, especially to explore naughty fantasies with.

Agreed .....

What? You think that gay or bi guys are not hygienic nor horny ? I can assure that gay men in quite a few cases are more hygienic some of their hetero counterparts. And besides, last I checked, there was about 99.99% certainty that STDs cannot be transmitted via masturbation. Loosen up and try not to be so pejorative. And as far as discretion. Ive bated and fucked around with numerous straight men whose wives are none the wiser. Its not a matter of sexual identity that determines discretion. Its personal integrity and respect for others involved that determine that.