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738 Skilled Jackinchatter

552 posts since 2018-02-17
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Life really is too short, do what makes you happy, cock, cunt, always veer all over here, just take care people, look after those you love, preaching over, (death has this effect) happy wanking
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1235 posts since 2012-02-03
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738 said:
Life really is too short, do what makes you happy, cock, cunt, always veer all over here, just take care people, look after those you love, preaching over, (death has this effect) happy wanking


Well said!
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In my mid to late 20s I had an older guy, gay, as a mentor/jack off buddy. I can't quite remember but I think he was at least 15 to 20 years older than me. It was quite the experience and we definitely talked about much much more than just jacking off. Lots of sharing about life and him helping me with my problems as best he could.
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ranger92 Amateur Jackinchatter

134 posts since 2013-11-10
43 year old bisexual from Canada
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I would have loved an older mentor to show me the ropes when I was younger. Too bad I was too naive, blind, and shy at the time. It would have been fun learning new techniques and showing what I already knew.
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That is a wish of mine too... An older bator to show me the way of self-happiness... wink

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I would have loved an older mentor to show me the ropes when I was younger. Too bad I was too naive, blind, and shy at the time. It would have been fun learning new techniques and showing what I already knew.
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uncut29uk Skilled Jackinchatter

672 posts since 2007-06-03
46 year old male from Buckinghamshire UK
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You're not alone in wanting this. There are a lot of men out there who appreciate this kind of male friendship and there are certainly a lot of older men who would love to have a younger friend to mentor and share that with, too.

I would recommend maybe seeking some masturbation groups, there's probably at least one in your area. Or you could just try to create one yourself. Once you have a few guys together enjoying their strokes it's easy to form friendships from that.

In my experience, while a quick no-strings fap with a stranger at the urinals is fun, it's more rewarding to have a long-term friendship where you can enjoy it together routinely.
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SublimeDreamer Novice Jackinchatter

69 posts since 2020-06-18
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I imagine that is where the true intimacy lies. Not in the quick stroke but in developing a friendship and trust where sharing the joy of masturbation becomes a replacement for the emotional rush you get when you sleep with a romantic partner. I find masturbating with regular partners online fosters a more intimate and deeper closeness that mirrors that of my own relationship with my wife.
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Garcia007 Skilled Jackinchatter

869 posts since 2011-03-15
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"As I wake up in the morning I notice my cock is swollen and drooling precum, almost pushing a hole through the mattress.
Jenkins enters the room. Me 48 yo math teacher was now only wearing a large t-shirt with crusty white stains around its base. A semi-erect penis swings around as he passes, hitting his thighs
- Oh, you are awake? Jenkins said. Come downstairs. The guys have already started.
Climbing down the stairs i can hear the moanings from the screen and manly grunts from the other guests. The old couch is squeaking steadily in rhythm with their fists furiously pumping at their cocks...."
I live to edge & goon
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ranger92 Amateur Jackinchatter

134 posts since 2013-11-10
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Denis55 said:
Same here, It's a stigma society put on all males. Perpetuated by parents with boys when they enter puberty. It's private and not to be talked about. We need to be more open.. Men just need to be more open with it like on here


Couldn't agree more.
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With a couple of friends it kinda bought us closer together just enjoying pleasuring our cocks together and discovering what turns us on. When you're already naturally curious about things like sex and porn, like we were, then it can be bonding delving into it together and enjoying our cocks.
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SublimeDreamer Novice Jackinchatter

69 posts since 2020-06-18
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"enjoying pleasuring our cocks together and discovering what turns us on. "

I believe ALL MEN enjoy those two things, its just a matter of being open about it and realizing "Hey, my best friend I grew up with ALSO enjoys blowjob porn!"
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batebro2019 Novice Jackinchatter

47 posts since 2019-01-05
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Agree. 50 mwm usa...fit...open to this sort of thing with like-minded buds. Such a great experience to mic, cam or do in person.
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sdmattfreeman Amateur Jackinchatter

426 posts since 2015-11-30
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I think anytime you are talking about very private and intimate issues such as porn and what turns you on, it will go to strengthen the friendship. Nevermind openly masturbating in front of one another or jerking / sucking one another. I know the friends with whom have done this I consider to be close friends.
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SublimeDreamer Novice Jackinchatter

69 posts since 2020-06-18
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I am glad to see that some men are able to break past the social norms and expectations and find such an intimate freindship with one another. Still in search of that. syntheticdreams2077 is my skype.
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Since reaching adulthood I have never been able to get up the courage to ask any of my friends about their masturbation habits. I have no idea why really, except that it STILL seems the one great taboo when it comes to sexual conversations. Thank goodness for places like JackinChat where it is possible to find like-minded people to chat and bond with while talking about my favourite occupation. Do feel free to message me here if you would like us to be able to link up to chat live on Skype.
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