I find it one of the hottest things to do too. I started in highschool with a bud one night drinking and watching porn both feeling frustrated unable to relieve the feeling. He said 'he would do anything right now' and i knew what he meant and we both jacked off as well as fooled around. started doing it most weekends and for whatever reason its my biggest turn on now
being able to talk to each other and share fantasties while doing it as well really fuels the energy too

I've done it on cam so many times I can't remember.

I've also jacked off with a gay friend of mine a few times. He was actually a "friend-of-a-friend". I found out he liked my body so I decided to let him "see" me only. We hung out one afternoon and were watching str8 porn. He asked if I wanted to jack off and that was when I decided "Why Not?" and gave him a show. Even though I am str8 I enjoy the science of male(and female) sexual arousal and thought it was awesome to see, in person, another male masturbating to orgasm. It was even more incredible to watch my friend get extremely aroused at the sight of my hard dick and balls and my cum.
We did this a couple more times over the next couple years. I even let him, with the help of some alcohol, finish me off with a handjob after I bought myself to the brink of orgasm. (He had always asked if he could do that for me and I always resisted until that one time.)
This was all over a decade ago and I haven't seen him for nearly that long.

Believe what you want to... but, man, you are SO wrong on this one... Most of my repeat JO buds have totally identified as straight, and we have had a lot of fun just jackin to porn together.

Back to square one. How do you define 'straight'? Do you have an impirical test or do you simply accept your JO buddies' self-assessment.

Just to add my .02. Reading the various posts reminds me of the fight or flight syndrome. Whenever you are in a situation and you listen to your inner voice..do you stay or do you choose to leave? I think perhaps alot of people talk about it like it's something cool but when you are offline and with someone either a friend or maybe someone you met on the net it's a whole different ball game. The REAL reality sets in. Based on what was said before about crticizing or questioning people's straightness...when you are online and that is really all you know about a person past from where he is from and things...ie: he had oral sex with someone of the same sex, etc, but the person still feels he is straight I've accepted that you don't know all the facts of his life. There is a reasoning behind what he did that I'm not aware of. Just like there'd be a reasoning to have the desire to jo with someone else. Everyone is different and what isn't normal to you would be okay with others.

I define straight as being someone is isn't physically attracted to other men. They don't yearn to kiss, fondle, suck or fuck other guys. A JO buddy is just another guy like you who is addicted to masturbation and has an exhibitionist streak as well. Like most activities, jerking off is more fun when you do it with a friend.

Good thread!
Uncut29UK, Strider, and Str8Male74 -- good insights!
I enjoyed reading your posts.
Too many people like to put others in a box and label it.
I hate labels. We should realize that we are just sexual beings, period!
Each of us is an individual, worthy of respect.
Labels are for things, not humans.
I regret that growing up, I was not exposed to more open-minded people who were tolerant to different points of view.
"The highest result of education is tolerance." - H. Keller

I see nothing wrong with having a buddy.

I agree. It's great being a guy!

Jerking off with other guys is just another uncharted way point in the sexual continuum.

I agree, something that's got to be tried. At school I wanked along with my mates, at sleepovers etc. Nobody thought that it was "gay", just that it was enjoyable. Still wank with some mates occassionally, although not often enough, want to be doing it more

Masturbation is a normal and natural activity - most likely beneficial. If two or more guys get together to do it, I believe the success of the encounter depends upon the participants respecting the dignity of the other or others. The various labels are basically approximate; I see no reason why two "str8" guys can't enjoy a JO session together.

Makes perfect sense to me.

The labels "gay" "staight" and "bi" are incredibly arbitrary. Who cares what the label is, what do you prefer? I had a college professor explain it like this: Imagine a continuum from 1 to 10 with 1 being absolutely straight and 10 being absolutely gay. There are very few, if any, "Ones" and "Tens" in the world. Most people fell somewhere between a 2 and a 9. That makes a lot of sense to me. I would rate myself somewhere between a 2 and a 3 possibly approaching a 4 if I've had enough alcohol in me. I could never imagine a romantic relationship with a guy, but love jerking off with guys. I think as long as both parties are consenting adults, then "Lassaiz les bon temps roller" as they say in New Orleans.

I do it every chance I get.. I've jacked off with 2 guys before. We don't touch each other...so there for I don't think it's gay.It's actually pretty exciting & I promise you that you'll cum more than you ever have in your life.

I would love to JO with another guy! I want to eat another guys cum, but I realy don't care about labels. I eat my sperm and I like it, I also like to fuck my GF's cunt. So what am I? I don;t think I am gay. I just like the thought of eating another guys sperm! If any of you want to jack off and have me eat your sperm, let me know, I could travel, it would be worth it to me to travel to a new place.