And honestly I don't understand why because there are plenty of men here willing to chat and share their sexuality with other men.

So I really don't see the point in lying. Just makes everything more difficult imo.

I'm a female too

I'm here
I'm a woman

Pardon my cynicism but, if what you say is correct, you may well be the only real woman on here.

Nope,however I do share it with hubby!

I'm an 18yo female masquerading as a 55yo paunchy bloke. Its a real thrill.

I for one am sick and tired of all this "Are you really a female" crap! What the hell difference does it make? This is, as it says on the banner, a "Masturbation Online Community for Adults" So use it as such. Chat, masturbate or just read the posts. If some guy wants to pretend he is a Sheila (Or as someone suggested, some Sheila wants to pretend she is a guy) so what? If your chatting to him, and you really think he is a her, great. He got off on pretending to be female and you got off thinking he was one. Wheres the harm done, and to whom? You got off, He/She got off, a win/win! If,on the other hand you discover that she really is a he (And this upsets you) then just stop chatting/wanking with him and move on. There are women on here and, with the correct attitude and a little good old fashioned courtesy (Alas 2 things that are in very limited supply on here!) you can chat with them. I personally have chatted with quite a few women on a number of different sites and, as the Ladies on here are saying, they are fed up with the barrage of childish and downright offensive messages that they get from these Morons. Little wonder so many females don't chat on here!

I do believe there are a few females here that are just curious. Most are posers though. I am a exhibitionist, athletic, 37m. I much prefer to be watched by females who tell me what to do and what they like. I am very "oral" back to them. Feel free to add me on skype imbad35

The problem is that this site mainly centered around perving. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's a bit silly to believe that folks who are somewhat fanatical pervs are also going to be courteous in many respects. Just think, what you are saying up here is something that, for a straight guy like me, is absolutely bogus and lacking in courtesy. But you think that, even if it's a guy posing as a woman, it's ok to approach a straight man in any sexual capacity where you are trying to be sexually enticing to that guy. For me, that's bogus.

I don't know how many times I have posted in the skype cam group saying that I am straight, only for someone to add me and start telling me they want to suck my cock, eat my jizz, play with my balls... it happened all the time. It came to a point where I have to specifically point out that anything that could be remotely homosexual, other than saying something like "nice cock", was completely off-limits. It's to a point where I gotta sound like an asshole because apparently saying that I'm straight is not enough.

So I have experienced a lack a courtesy and respect for my personal proclivities as well, but I do understand why they happen. This is a masturbation site, and many people here are fanatical masturbators. In much of the same way, they are also going to be fanatic pervs with fanatic fetishes. I personally don't know anyone who edges for 5+ hours a day even on a weekly basis, let alone daily. It might not strike many people here as being fanatical, but that's pretty damn intense for any one singular activity to have that much dedication to it. Though it was, and still is, annoying as hell having someone try and chat to me about having my cock in their mouth, I wasn't surprised because fanaticism doesn't lend to enough reflection to think, "Hey, if he said he's straight 5 times in a message, maybe he DOESN'T want me talking like that to him?"

As such, when the perving is fanatical, it's not likely to lend to being courteous to many others because certain things that are respectful in one light are not respectful in another. My standard of being straight may not be another person's standard; they may be ok with having some guy pose as a woman to get them off. That's a huge no for me though, and I don't think it's respectful to assume that people would appreciate that kind of thing.

So with women, I can only imagine that it's going to naturally be WAY worse. I mean, sometimes I cannot even chat with guys about women because the fetishes are just like, "bro, are you... sane?" There should be more women on here, but that would require guys to have some self-control which doesn't seem to be a huge quality demonstrated here due to the fanaticism.

I'm a woman...I just have a cock that's all...

That's cool, but realize that many men would not appreciate being approached by you if you were not biologically a "woman".

Personally I do not believe there is even one woman on this board. Lots of men pretending to be women though. To prove my point, I have issued challenges to those claiming to be women. Just take a pic of yourself (no face needed) holding a paper or sign of some sort that says your profile name and jackinchat. That's it. That's all you have to do and the entire website will believe you're a woman. You already have a camera phone and pic hosting websites are free. Should take you less than 5 minutes.

But guess what... not one "woman" has ever accepted the challenge. They just expect everyone to believe a woman hangs out on a mens whackoff website.

I agree with AnnArbor3030 100%

Any female visitors to this site are probably afraid to admit it considering the disrespecting that goes on here.