When I was a teenager. I was a house guest of a young married couple who lived in a neighboring city and were close family friends. I was there a little over a week. And it was obviously too long for them to do without sex. Several times, I heard an obviously old bed creaking rhythmically and the head board even hitting against the wall in time with his thrusts. I was 16, and it made me so horny I could shit.

Anyway, is anybody ever embarrassed by the sound they make with their wife or girlfriend or lover? Maybe parents with children in the house old enough to hear and understand. Or a guy whose lover is a screamer? Anybody who has to deliberately try to be quiet because they're in a family home, or an apartment with thin walls?

For me, I'm a quiet fucker and masturbator. My girlfriend makes more noise than I do when she appraoches climax, but is not a screamer. Apartment neighbors may sometimes hear us on a quiet night, but that kinda turns me on to think about it.

I'm not sure why, but I can barely make a sound when I'm masturbating or fucking even if I try. I don't know why, maybe it's because I'm concentrating too much or it's because I long ago conditioned myself to be quiet from the time I first began masturbating.

But sounds are an incredible turn on to me. I can't get enough noise and dirty talk in porn.

This is basically why I hate trying to watch straight porn. The girls have a tendency to go overboard with the moaning and it sounds very fake. Talk about a mood killer.

Great comment! Sometimes all the loud and phony moans and gasps....even screams.... from the women in porn videos is so annoying and distracting, I just turn off the sound. My girlfriend usually just moans quietly as she's getting close, and then the sounds are sharper, but not a lot louder as she's having her orgasm.

Totally agree. You can tell when the moaning is fake, but when it's good it really add to it.

A special favourite is a video by Private called Hot Property. The final scene features Angel Long being fucked to ribbons by three guys, and she keeps saying things like "you dirty cunt" while they fuck her and spunk over her. Brilliant stuff.

I have a few times heard noises through the wall, nothing ever very strong, but strong enough in the middle of the night to be audible. But when with a former gf, it seems we were too loud. As students living next door to a friend, after having sex we discovered his note under the door "you know, I can hear you", or something. Another time, at a new appartment, we received the visit of our downstairs neighbour, that our bed was creaking...

Man, except in a REALLY extreme situation, I can't imagine that I would ever complain to a neighbor about being able to hear their lovemaking. In the quiet of the night, sounds can really travel. And next door neighbors are sometimes going to be able to hear a couple playing in their bedroom.

It is hot to hear intense and gut wrenching moans that any couple makes when fucking. Str8 or gay, it's HOT. I agree with one poster, the sounds in some porn vids are overdramatized and fake. They are a real turnoff.

To each his own, but when two hot, horny masculine men get together fucking, get agressive, dominant and in a power struggle, combined with a little humiliation, it is one hell of a hot treat. Hot doesn't quite touch it. A pretty good good example of raunchy m/m behavior is the video clip "Dreaming of Sarge" on uknakedmen.com

I was just in a situation where I was over a friends house in their basement passed out with my gf. We woke up at like 5-6 am and started going at it. My friends son and his friend fell asleep upstairs with the tv on. My gf is usually very loud when she cums, so am I for that matter. We both had to fight to not scream, which made it even hotter!

Yeah when I was a student I could often hear my housemates having sex which was hot. Looking back, I wish I had a wank while listening to them.

I agree with most of these comment. Genuine sex or masturbation noises, where you can tell the individual or couple is just really into it, are quite a turn on; constant forced screaming is frankly just boring. I also agree that in the middle of the night, when its very quiet, if you live in an apartment then a certain amount of sex noise is bound to travel through walls. I sure can't ever imagine complaining about it though - even if i didn't enjoy listening to it, its not exactly a big chunk of time for most people!

As for me, I'm generally quite quiet (well depending upon the bed that is - I'm sure most guys have had sex or masturbated in an extra creaky bed!) until the moment of orgasm when i groan a little as i ejaculate, particularly if i'm extra horny.

Not sure how I found this thread. Anyway, I grew up in a very strict Catholic family. Sexual discussions were a Taboo. Yet, Hearing my Dad have sex with my stepmom was normal. I knew at a very young age what was going on. As I grew up, I was never embarassed about making noises, (Bed springs, headboard, moans growns, grunts etc.) It's part of life. You grow up with it and it's not a bad thing. I've helped raise 4 step kids in 2 relationships. I am open about sex and nothing was a big deal to anyone. Tho' one cheap Apt. I lived in with a girlfriend, the walls were thin. Our neighbor could hear us.... and often when we were done, we heard her masturbating.... which got me going again. She moved, told our Landlady all we did was have sex...... LOL!

I rented a spare room out to this really hot chick last year, the rooms were joining and there was a super thin patch of wall where an arch had been filled in.
I loved to hear her having sex, she made these beautiful high, and obviously genuine moans.
One time i had brought a girl back and she started going, so we started going.. the girls were having a major volume competiton! i had my girl up against the thin wall, so he did the same. the girls must have been 2 inches from each other, screaming so loud! man.. dont think i ever came that hard!