I jerk off all the time. At least once every other day for the last 3o+ years. More when I am single, less when in a sexual relationship. I've never kept it secret. My last girlfriend, who didn't want much sex would go to bed and I would jack off next to her whether she was asleep on not. My current girlfriend who is always ready for sex even to the point of " if I'm I'm asleep and you want to jerk off, just roll me over and stink it in me instead babe". I tell her when I've done it or If I'm about to although when she asks me how much I jerk off. I probably downplay the actual number. One girlfriend asked me to and loved to watch me get off while she fingered herself.
As society reduces whatever stigma there was, it gets easier to let everyone know, hey , I jerk off and love it!

Not much changed since I did the last post. My wife caught me JO a couple of more times and still has no interest in watching me JO.

How often did you masturbat before you met your wife?
At least once a day, normally twice
While dating your wife
How often did you JO?
Same but not on the days I was seeing her.
Did she know you were JO?
Oh , yes. Wanked in front of her early on
If so how did she find out?
See above
Was she Ok with it?
yes
Did she know how often you JO?
no
How often did you have sex with her?
Every time we met up, we didn't really "go out", more stayed in.
In the first year you were married
4-5 times a week
How often did you JO?
3-4 times a week
Did she know you were JO?
yes
If so how did she find out?
Found a itemised phone bill with sex lines on it.
Was she ok with it?
Yes, she said it was her turn and phoned the sex line.
Did she know how often you JO?
not really.
How often did you have sex with your wife?
as above
How many years have you been married?
25
Now
How often do you JO?
2-3 times a day
Does she know you JO?
yes
If so how did she find out?
she asks me
Is she ok with it?
yes
Does she know how often you JO?
Watching Porn
yes but not what kind. She doesn't know I like granny porn, shemales and gay porn as well as other sorts.
How often do you JO watching porn?
2-3 times a day
Does your wife know you watch porn?
yes
If so how did she find out?
we often watch together
Is she ok with it?
yes
Does she know how often you watch porn?
probably not
Watching you masturbate
Has your wife ever watched you JO?
oh yes most w/e she makle sme dress up and wank for her. usually with a dildo up my ass.
Do you like it if she had?
If she hadn't would it be a turn on for?
Have you ever watched your wife masturbate?
Many times
If not would it be a turn on for you?
Final Question
How often do you now have sex with wife?
Penetrative sex not often but lots of mutual masturbation and sex toys.