Does anyone else get completely tense and almost rigid a while before cumming? Recently, I have not been able to fully relax before orgasm, for some reason I;m tensing up and my whole body stiffens up. I used to be able to casually fuck, or stroke, and blow a load completely relaxed and chill.... recently its required more , .. , concentration?? Can anyone relate?

the only thing I can say is that you try to hold on and not ejaculate whether you're masturbating or fucking.you can try not to cum,but we both know that extra stroke does the trick!