Hey all,

I'm interested to hear from those of you who have, or have had jo buds... How did you find each other? Are there sites (besides this one) that have a good success rate? Discretion is a big deal to me so I find its tricky to find someone married and in the same situation as me, with the same interests and pitfalls.

I'm looking for a porn watching jo bud. We get together, play porn DJ for each other and stroke and edge our cocks. Mutual jo for sure and maybe oral.

Thanks for any advice!

Many of us are in same boat. I have been looking for a time to find a JO friend and seems most that respond are like me with no place to meet or play or want you to come over and bend over or suck dick on first play. I for one love to jack off and see guys do same and see cum. But most seem to need more
So good luck!!

I posted this a while back to someone else's similar question...

Thankfully, all my buddies in the past have also asked me. I never had the nerve. They just came out and asked..."So, you wanna try giving me a blowjob?" Or "You ever suck another guy off?" We were either looking at porn magazines or watching porn videos at the time. Perhaps they knew the best time to ask was when we were both horny, I don't know. Whatever, over the years, I sucked those two guys off almost 150 times (between the 2 of them), so it all worked out for both of us! But, that was 30 years ago.

Today...the problem with asking guys in real life (current friends, co-workers, acquaintances, etc) is that you could end up ruining a lot of things if they aren't into it. Perhaps your friendship, your job, your relationship with your GF, or your marriage. You're taking a really big chance when you bring it up, so many men never do it.

The alternative is to try to meet someone online. That's what I recommend. Use an online name and join some sites that cater to this.
silverdaddies, adam4adam, daddy dater, doublelist, maybe even wifelovers. Search online for bi dating sites and you'll find more. Sites like this one allow you to send PMs.

Since your identify is kept private by a fake name/handle, you eliminate the "what if my friend turns me down" situation. You contact the person thru whatever site, then email/message some conversation on what each of you are into. During this conversation, I try to get a feeling for the person's past sexual experience. If they're sucking cock at the adult book store every weekend, then they're not for me. I can't be bringing something home. I also try to figure out what kind of person they are. We share pics, stories, experiences, all through email. No phone number. Period. (Get a free email account for your escapades through yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc.) If I get an uneasy feeling for any reason, then I move on. We never meet and we never end up knowing who each other is. No harm, no foul.

Eventually, you'll have to meet up in person, whether it's for some fun or just for a meet and great at a public place. In the bizarre coincidence that you happen to know the person when you see them, well, you already know what each other likes. You both have the goods on each other. That pretty much guarantees secrecy between you.

When it's time to meet, you just have to man up and go do it. No doubt, it's still a nervous situation, but if you want to do it, then you just have to do it. There's really no getting around that one. If you meet at a coffee house first, just to say hi, it will probably lighten the stress of meeting later for some fun.

Would love to find one similar to myself in central ny state

where in cny are you? I'm looking too.

Still looking here in New Hampshire, USA!!

Still looking. Seems everyone wants a jo bud, but none ever come through in real life. oh well.

While the virus is around its c2c for me on Skype.
In the UK but my jo buds are everywhere.
Most come through Bateworld.com or silverdaddies.com
I do not put my Skype on here because it attracts time wasters or worse.
Anyone who want to jerk close up on cam pm me with your Skype ID.
Take care!

still looking