but I have a question for you "older" guys. I am a married 32 year old active female with a very healthy appetite for most manners of sex. Hubby is 33 and is very good in bed but... recently I had(and took!) the opportunity to sleep with a 58 year old guy. It was fabulous! It took a while for him to get erect so it left lots of time for other play and I came from oral before he was hard enough to penetrate. I came again during intercourse. I'm thinking older guys are better now because they are a little slower to react, or are they? I know it's generalizing, but what do some of you older gents think? Does it take considerably longer to get hard. Most of my experience has been with 30 and younger but I have a new appreciation for what may be the best kept secret or at least a secret from me!

i guess that its always good that a young sleep with an old one

i am 22 and i slept with a 34 women and i cant get that good sensation out of my mind it was just fabulous cuz we kept like 2 days doing it non stop

so i guess its the same here

I don't know if 47 qualifies me, because my stuff still works about the same as it ever did. Maybe by the time I'm 58 that will have changed. But from my own personal experience, and what little I know about erectile dysfunction, I'm guessing it's not as common as the Viagra commercials make it seem. Just ask anyone that works in a nursing home!

I am in the age range you describe and have no problem with my boy parts. Sure am aroused faster and harder with someone new, especially unplanned. It's beyond exciting. But I've also had those moments went I rise up slowly and it's only because of guilt, maybe, or something on my mind that's bothering me already. I do have a supply of Levitra which overwhelms me. Makes me rock hard during those awkward times, and longer than ever. Don't need it often, but when I do, wow oh wow.

49 here; wife and I still have GREAT sex; in fact much more erotic and ambitious than when we were in our 20s and 30s. She just started masturbating about 5 years ago. I do have some issues maintaining erection long enough to cum in her sometimes, but we tend to do more mutual masturbation/oral than fucking. I think my shortcomings in the erection department are generally directly proportional to the amount of alcohol i've consumed. But to answer your question KarenS, yes, it does sometimes take me longer to get hard and harder to stay hard for extended period of time

47 here so maybe not as old as you're asking about but I get it up just a quickly as when I was much younger, it's just as hard as it ever was but I can last longer during fucking than I used to which is an advantage

I'm a 62 yo man and still sexually active. What you describe is true for me as well. The old joke about "it takes me all night long to do what I used to do all night long" is true. I have had sex with women almost 30 years my junior and many more than 15 years younger. The experience is usually similar to the one you describe. It takes a long time and a lot of stimulation for me to get a satisfactory erection. During that time my partners usually have several orgasims. And mine, when it finally does happen, seem to get better each time. And God bless you for helping an old man smile.

Forgive me, just had to interject... When I first read this, I thought you said: "organisms"! LOL!

Justoldbill,
Thanks for the validation! I have a new , deep appreciation for the older man and will certainly give them more consideration when I'm prowling!

Pushing 60 and no problem at all here KarenS. I find I have a much deeper appreciation of women as the years have gone by. Occasionally finding a lady with a libido to match mine has been a great joy in life. Love taking my time in bed, and have found my partners love that too. It's all about savoring the experience and making it the best it can be for both of us.

I'm 50 and very much like your friend. Takes me a while to get up to full power. It's nice to meet a young lady who appreciates an older more experienced guy. God Love Ya, Darlin'.