Hello,
I am very often a premature ejaculator, both with my wife and when masturbating. Have always been the same and we are used to it now. I can cum in under one minute and often not even fully hard. Anyone else similar or interested in a chat then send me a message.

I dont think Im a premature ejaculator, but I feel like Im able to control when I want to cum. There are times with the wife that I make myself cum almost instantly when trying to enter her, sometimes before I fully penetrate her. In someways I think she likes it. She feels like Im so turned on by her I cant hold it back any longer. She even makes comments about how shes gonna make me cream my pants. That hasnt happen yet but I want it to.

You are lucky having such control. After a minute of stimulation I am usually done. My wife did find it a compliment at first, less so now. She usually laughs.

Well seeing that I have control over it, I wouldnt mind if my wife laughed or teased me about it, hell I wouldnt even mind if she shared it with her friends.

I can see and understand the frustration and problems this could bring in a relationship. I do feel for men that have to deal with this inconvenience.

When my first wife was still my gf, I used to be embarrassingly premature. As mentioned, just the sensation of penetration (with a condom) got my spunk flowing. She was not pleased and at first used to burst into tears.
Later, things did not get a lot better. By the time I was 50 and with my third, I could last forever. Now, I am at the other end and getting a full erection needs patience.

It is good fun to find the guy you are wanking is a premature ejaculator; especially if he recovers quickly.

I am not sure what premature ejaculation actually is, but I typically come very soon, often much sooner than I'd like. Thinking about it, I suppose that I am a premature ejaculator, but I never thought it needs to be a marathon event either. I spent more time playing with my wife, eating her out, etc. Like Ohmy66, I am now just happy that I can get it up. It still gets hard, but harder than hell to get it back up until the next day. I guess in short, we all have different issues, just be sure to give pleasure to your partner in as many ways as you can, and enjoy your own ride.

When guys call me for a phone wank, a lot cum quicker than they expect. I don't know if they're premature ejaculators or just really turned on by what I say to them.

As long as they make plenty of noise, I don't mind. It leaves me free to get the next guy off.

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The naughtiness of it all gets me turned on so much that I'm spurting before I can stop myself

Premature ejaculations cab be an embarrassment if you are with a female. Other than that, they allow you to keep your prostate healthy. Medical advice is to have at least 21 orgasms a month. Just concentrate on the pleasure and do plenty of wanking before your wife/gf needs you.

Then why try to stop yourself? Men masturbate and get pleasure from it. Do it and enjoy it no matter how long it takes to cum.

Oh I do!!!! Love moaning on the phone as I empty my balls over some big tits.... so horny

I suspect that like me, they've been playing for quite some time and then your words quickly take them to the point of no return.

Absolutely correct!!!!