is it her or do you think bout cocks

Ive been a premature ejaculator ever since I can remember. Has become a real problem for my wife, Id cum within a minute in all positions but from behind positions just a few seconds.
Recently tired EMLA numbing cream for the first time fucked her hard for about 20 mins was amazing.
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As often as jackinchatters report that they masturbate, I'd have thought nobody here would be a premature ejaculator. JC is a place a man can teach himself how to exert stamina and staying power, or so I was thinking.

I pretty much have the opposite issue. sometimes it can take me ages to cum.

Hope to have one tonight.

It was a problem for me in my early 20s. My girlfriend and I went to uni so saw each other far less often so each time we would meet I'd always need to cum as soon as I was in her. At first it was just laughed off, then I started getting really bothered by it which made it so much worse. I started really over thinking it which just made it worse and it got to the point where I couldn't last for more than a minute or two no matter what. I started to dread sex and gf started getting clearly annoyed by it. It lasted until we separated and I was still worried about it when I started sleeping with others but it was never an issue again. Just shows it's all in your mind and your way of thinking.

I would like to think its all about mind control, I want to control that I can cum that fast if I would like.

This has happened to me too, but I just go with it and enjoy my ejaculation.

Same here. I'm jacking now and I can't get on the edge at all. Probably won't cum.

I cum fast. But with a condom I can last an hour

I'm a premature ejaculator so the prefect sex for me is for a man to fuck me. Then it doesn't matter how quickly I cum because usually it just excites him plus if he goes long enough I usually cum again.

I used to be until I made some lifestle changes.

Now I can cum on command, quick or long sessions, fucking or JO

My wife said something about having sex last night. We both smoked some weed had a drink and went to bed. She asked for a foot rub so I gladly obliged. She rubbed her foot in my cock a few times, every time I jumped. She said your pretty sensitive( I get like that when I smoke) she then rolled over and went to sleep.

As I laid there next to her I started thinking about things I would like to do to her and things I would like done to me. My cock gets harder and the pre cum is still flowing from earlier. I thought for sure I was going to cum from just thinking off. I do believe I very well could have cum if I continued to think off or my wife touched me.

Never been a problem for me apart from doggy, can go for hours in any other position but my wife from behind just has me spurting if I am not super controlled! Generally I have to fuck her on top for a long time first before I can go for doggy.

We make love all kinds of ways, but my wife has the best control of her orgasm if she squats on top. I have learned that I also have good control that way. Her movements are more predictable. I can thrust in very very deep and reduce movement if I am getting too close to orgasm. Then when her orgasm hits, I can increase friction with a few good thrusts and away we go!!!!!!