I've tried edging, and while it does feel good, I can rarely be bothered. More often, I've been winding myself up all day with porn, daydreaming, and chatrooms, and then just have to have a furious session that lasts about 3 minutes at the very most!

Anyone else like this?

How long have you managed to edge for? I need to go for about 45 mins-1h til I really start feeling the "goon" state. That's where edging really starts getting worthwhile.

I totally get what you mean, after a long day of horning yourself up it's so tempting to just bust a nut as quickly as possible but edging really is so much better. If I'm wound up like that sometimes I'll try to bust a nut as quickly as possible to release the pressure then come back for a longer edging session afterwards.

The issue I have is actually getting the time to myself to do it as the wife is always around. I usually have to wait until she has an early night and then I take a viagra and can slowly jerk off for ages until the early hour of the next morning. Lubed up with coconut oil and rock hard I get to have a fucking great time.

Same here, it's always the struggle. I live for the nights that she goes out with her friends and I can stay up late in my porn cave, stoned and edged out of my mind. You really do need a long block of alone time to properly enjoy an edging session. If the wife's out for just a couple hours I can still have fun but there's always the pressure to "make the most" of the time. I love having a whole night alone with no plans or interruptions, just laying back on the couch with multiple screens (and a projector) of porn in front of me, relaxed and slowly playing with my cock (with toys of course)... Having that relaxed attitude makes the jerking session feel so luxurious and removes that pressure to cum asap... you can just melt into the goonstate and completely lose all track of time and reality... ahh it's such bliss and i'm hard just thinking about it

It's hard for me edge for very long. When I feel myself getting to cum I have to keep going. Cummin just feel too good to wait.

If I don't have time to edge, I don't stroke. Cumming isnt the goal for me anyway, most times I quit without finishing. I'm into self-control. I feel down after cumming, energized when I don't.

I've edged before and while it's very hot to hold off My usual jack session is about 30 minutes to an hour long. I don't have much alone time but even when I do I still only jack for about an hour at a time. My longest session was about 5 hours long but for me, even though I cum a lot at the end my shorter sessions are far more powerful.

Ahhhh have to learn patience grasshopper! Though "me times" during this pandemic era is becoming harder to do with a housefull!

For me, a good edge doesn't start for about an hour. You get past that "I need to get off" mode and you move into a mental state where maintaining your current state of arousal is better than the actual orgasm. I guess that's what some call "gooning" but to me it's just a blissful state where nothing else matters but your cock.

Unregistered, yes of course there's more like yourself.

Being married I find it difficult to find enough alone time to edge.

That being said, all my life I've been like yourself from hiding my jacking as a teenager because I was berated severely for playing with my cock.

Best I ever did was with an efried that I developed an online relationship with. That took years with many many emails.

I went away for a weekend alone once or twice a year, and we'd enjoy phone sex. One night we jacked for almost two hours without cuming. I can still hear him in my ear telling me "not yet Jay, not yet.

I bet we chatted for almost ten years, and one day he ghosted me. I miss him, I wished him well but it's a terrible thing to ghost someone.

We did have the conversation once that since I was older, that one day it's possible that he'd never hear from me again if something happened like a heart attack.

Sadly it happened the other way around.

Miss you Jack!

I agree with ShortFuse completely. I've been averaging 6 hours of masturbation a day for a few years now and prefer to go 3-4 days, even longer if possible, between orgasms. For me it's all about getting into that wonderful goon state and staying there for as long as possible. I've found that the longer I go denying my orgasm the quicker I slip into that state and my sessions get longer and longer until I finally give in and have an earth-shattering orgasm which sort of re-sets my mind & body and the cycle starts all over again. Orgasms are wonderful but they're no longer the goal of my masturbation. I just want to wallow in that goon state for forever!

It all depends upon your age. I started wanking as a young boy and it was always to get an immediate orgasm. It took me about 30 seconds at most. That state lasted until I became aware of the Internet and being able to see photos and watch videos. Then it was pleasurable to delay orgasm and enjoy the build-up for as long as I had the time; or even stop without having an orgasm with the thought of starting again at a later time.

I love to edge for 3 or 4 hours, just relaxing totally naked and getting my cock to feeling so damn good!