How many of you have always been a heterosexual but have developed a strong urge to suck a cock and swallow their cum? Even though you may never have thought in your wildest dreams that you would one day fantasize about doing it.

Many men. It just seems to be a natural progression of a man's sex life. As he gets older (mid 40s or so for me), he starts thinking about it and fanasizing about it. As time goes by, the fantasies become more and more erotic. Eventually you have to admit to yourself that is is not just fantasy and that you really do, deep down inside, have an undeniable and natural desire to taste cock, to suck and be sucked by another man. It is a natural rite of passage into our older golden years. If it were not for the internet and sites such as Jackinchat..... many of us would still be wondering if we are alone in our fanatasies and desires......... we are not alone......... there are many, many men with the same need and desire.

Am 51 and really thinking about it allot lately. Would really love to try it.

It is often discussed here. I would like to touch and suck cock, but don't think I can kiss a guy like I kiss females.

There does seem to be something of a progression from strictly heterosexual activity during our 20's, 30's and 40's to an increasing interest in more male oriented sexual activity. Like many, I did some guy stuff as a teen - then strictly women. Now I want to try more stuff with other guys again. Stroking together, stroking each other, and some oral exploration.

Whose asking you to kiss Karel - there must have been women you've screwed who you didn't want to kiss.

Well said, Jefe. It happened to me at 46 after my divorce, and now I enjoy every minute of it. Still a closet player but once I'm in there, I can be a real cupcake. lol

It seems to be a common desire among many middle-aged straight guys. For me the desire became really strong in my early 40's with a new access to gay porn on the computer. I've since had two real-life cockbuds , both married guys in their 40's. The first guy I was with was mostly a mutual jo bud, although we sucked each other occasionally but never to orgasm. With my second bud we both really let go and discovered that we both really got off on sucking each other, and when we got together ( 2 or 3 times a month) we always alternated on who would cum in who's mouth, then jerk the other guy off. I absolutely loved blowing him, and although we always alternated, I would have been perfectly happy to suck him off every time. Sure wish we were still together... what a time we had!

Why did you stop seeing these two men? If you both enjoyed it, what happened?

You mentioned sucking eachother but stopping at orgasm. Thats part of what I want. I want to suck to feel what its like in my mouth but I really want to experience the cum shooting in and then swallow. Everytime I think about it I really get excited. Every porno I watch where the guy pumps in and out and cums without taking his cock out and then showing the cum in her mouth or seeing a guy jerkoff with the womans tongue out and see him cum and her take it all and swallow, I used to think I wish I was that guy and I still do, but I also think how I wish I was also the woman in that video having all that happen to me.

Since the arrival of the net, I have discovered more and more men from the mid/late thirties up to the early fifties who are becoming bicurious. I get to talk to quite a few online who all have similar stories. Almost nothing m-m until those ages and some of it has been stimulated by what they see online and allows them to progress with their fantasies to actual activity. I am more than happy to help out - even if it is just conversation online. Telling people that their development is as "normal" (horrible word to use in conjunction with people anyway) as anyone else is a valuable gift! (As is good enjoyable mutual masturbation, oral or insertive sex!)
One factor seems to be fairly common - a lot of these men are in marriages where their wives have undergone menopause and their sex drive has vanished, leaving a man who will be still sexually active and desiring sex for the next 40 odd years of his life! This is not to say all women are like that - far from it, as I have talked with and met couples and women who have exciting and varied sex lives well into their seventies. Plus a good number of these men are divorced and often sex played an underlying point of tension leading to that breakdown.
My final point - sex is good. Sex is healthy. Sex is part of life and let's get on with living!
("Life's a banquet and some poor sons of bitches are starving to death!" Auntie Mame - "Mame"

As a PS to this thread, I've opened a thread in the Rainbow Room asking a similar question from the gay male perspective - are there gay men (like myself) who in our forties have curiosities about female sex when all our lives previously has been exclusively homosexual.

I too found this and other masturbation sites a revelation. There were other guys out there who felt some of the same urges and attractions, and I felt less alone.

Like a lot of guys, I had done some mutual stroking when in my teens, but have only had female sex partners since then. I certainly have fantasized and masturbated to those fantasies from time to time, even when involved in a relationship. As I grew older I found myself thinking about those experiences more and more.

I regret now not trying oral with my buddy back in the day. I remember how exciting it was to give another guy a mind blowing orgasm with my hands. I want to see what it feels like in my mouth, what it tastes like to get a mouthful of cum and swallow it. Would it be disgusting or a turn on? I don't know. I think getting the other guy off would be amazing. Whether I would like a guy cumming in my mouth... Probably only one way to find out.

well some women like to suck cock, so if men have that desire to try it, why not. so if you think to yourself
i wouldn't mind giving him a head job, you might as well,
you only live once.

I wish I could start comunicating with someone in my area south jersey so one day we could get down to business. i'm to the point that its not so important for me to have my cock sucked as it is for me to suck someone. I fantasize a lot of feeling the head of a cock and cum shooting in my mouth. I watched a porn the other day with a woman lying on a bed with her head hanging off the edge and the guy standing behind her. She licked his balls and then he jerked off in her mouth. the whole time while I jerked off all I could think about was that I wish I was her. I want to lick the balls too, but the cum really makes me want all of this.