To be naked in front of other men without fear. To be able to touch another guy and see him be aroused. These are the things that I idolize in hot gay or bi men.

However, I'm a virgin. And I use fantasy to drain my cock during hours of edging and fantasy play. It just would be awesome to actually experience sex or a nice jerkoff session with a another guy.

Rob .... I think you need to find a way to take your thoughts and feelings about this from fantacy to reality. Life is too short.

Agreed, Tim. If he were my next-door neighbor I'd invite him over for coffee.

Thanks guys

We need to get a mentoring program going. Would solve a lot of these types of problems.

I've read a few of Rob's posts on here and I wonder - is Rob in a situation where being a virgin is a result of a career choice/life vocation?
Not trying to be smart or offensive, it has crossed my mind that Rob might be a "40 yo Virgin" for a very good reason...

I'd be glad to invite Rob over for coffee, too.