I dont understand this, why do straight guys want to j/o with other guys? Im not a prude or anything, but what is the attraction??

I have to admit, as a woman, I wonder this as well. Would love to hear some comments on this. But I also think it's hot as hell....and would love to watch....hehe

Im straight, but I'd rather get sucked off than j/o with a guy. Thats just me.

I may be speaking out of turn as I've never actually had a JO buddy, but...

When I first discovered masturbation, it was such a mind-blowing activity that it transcended being a sexual activity. As a result, the idea of other guys masturbating or participating in a circle jerk has been a regular and recurring fantasy. It has less to do with being involved in a sex act with another man than it does having a shared personal experience, if that makes any sense.

Ultimately, though, masturbation is a sex act, so straight guys that claim that beating off with another guy isn't at all homosexual or homoerotic are, in my opinion, being a little delusional.

I have found that there is a definite disconnect between my fantasy and reality. The (very) few times I've been in a situation that could have turned into a JO buddy session, I've not had the nerve to follow through or test the waters. And while I do find the idea of an imagined guy masturbating erotic, sometimes if I look at a guy (friend or stranger) and think about actually masturbating with him in real life, the idea doesn't get me going.

having a masturbation buddy, in my opinion, i never had one of my own but interested in the idea of one , is more about male bonding then exploring hidden homosexual fantasies.

Speacking from personal experiance it is a very special bonding experiance and a very sexually fullfilling act. I am an avowed heterosexual, but I enjoyed the experiance of jo with my best friend. It is simply a very exciting and varied dimension of human sexuality in my and many others opinion.If you can relax enough and trust someone enough I would say try it if you feel comfortable.

I just want to try it and see what it's like. Different "strokes" for different folks I guess.

Having a jack off partner is a good way to casually relieve sexual tension. Some guys are disgusted by the act, but others don't mind it. I found it as a good way to experiment with masturbation, and also as a great stress and sexual tension relief between having proper sex partners.

I have a j/o budd. I love to jerk with other guys not because I want to be with them but because it makes it seem like you somehow have a better bond with that friend like you can tell them and talk to them about anything like nothing has to be a secret. It's just like there is a huge level of trust there. And it's also nice cause you don't have to w8 for them to go home if u really need to take care of a hardon.

You can learn a lot more cool JO techniques by actually jerking off with another guy than you can just by talking about it. Many of the things I do to myself are things I learned by watching others!

My first masturbation experience was with my best friend at the time when I was 11. So for me, it was never a big deal. I've had a few friends over the years that'd I'd become close friends with and we have jerked off together. I've never had any desire to have sex with, or even touch any of my jerk buddies. I agree with the previous comments about it being a bonding experience with a friend that you trust. When you can share a very personal experience like that with someone, it makes you closer as friends. It really isn't about the sexuality of it. It's like saying, I trust you, and we both know that we both masturbate and watch porn (usually) and enjoy it, so why hide it from eachother. We can bond over this, like we bond over a beer.

Especially if you're in a situation where you are roommates (actually having to share a bedroom)... it's good to live with a friend that doesn't care if I really need to care of a hard-on.

Does that make sense?

Stewie kinda hit the nail on the head (no pun intended ).

When I had a jackin bud, it cemented the trust we'd established with one another and also served to heighten the JO experience, seeing how much whatever jackin material we were using - videos, magazines, whatever - had both of us turned on. It also didn't hurt that, shortly after we started jackin together, the new semester of college started, and we were roommates in a tiny apartment. By jackin together frequently, we knew we didn't have to try to hide our solo sessions from one another. As a side benefit, it eliminated any uncomfortable feelings about nudity around one another. Which was good, seeing as how we both preferred to sleep in the buff. Hell, there were even a few days in there when we didn't have any classes that we never got dressed at all. Even if we didn't JO those days, it was quite refreshing to be able to relax around the apartment like that all day.

It depends on the age of the males involved to some extent. The younger they are, the less unusual it is for them to jack off together. When I was 12, another boy and I masturbated together after school at his house because he was alone for several hours. It was really a matter of having a place where we could strip and get in a couple of sessions without interruption. We both were straight and married when we grew up.

My story is similar to others that I am reading in this post; my first j/o experience was with another guy and when we had sleepovers we would j/o together.

As I have gotten older I have become curious about j/o with other guys again. I am straight and happily married with a very willing wife, but the curiousity is still there. Now the only issue is finding the time and discretion for it all to happen.

Myself and a close friend started masturbating together back in highschool. We'd been friends for years already, and we'd shared that whole incredibly horny period of time from about age 11 to 16 together so it was sort of a natural progression. We'd just always had lots of sleepovers and when it's 2 or 3 am and you're alone together and you happen to have access to virtually every issue of penthouse and playboy from 1960 to the present (this being back in 1980 or thereabouts), well, things just sorta pop up, lol.

I still really enjoy jacking off with him. The "why's" are many. For one thing, it sorta transports me back to that time when sexuality was a whole new world. I've had a fair bit of sex in my life (been married for over a decade now) but none of my experiences with women have been as horny, intense, or sexually charged as some of those long jerk off sessions with my friend were. When we manage to get together now for a session I still get a bit of that charge. I've thought about trying to meet up with other guys to do it but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be the same since I wouldn't have all that history.

Then, theres the simple "kinkiness factor" of doing something so private in a public way. I guess I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. Getting naked with someone (male or female really) and then "putting on a show" for them kinda turns me on.

Theres a bit of a "buddy factor" too. It is sort of a cool bonding experience to be able to be so open and uninhibited with a friend. I find that I can be more "real" with him than I can with women (even my wife) in the sense that I don't have to worry about what I say, what terms I use. I can just be "a guy." Sometimes theres even some sporty gamesmanship.