so. i am looking for help... i was with a women for 10 years, and i could not give her a orgasm. she didn,t like my oral sex. even when i was ready to go for a bit, she would ask for me to stop.. she said she had enough, and was happy.. is this normAL, do some females not orgasm?

Yes, but they are few. If she can orgasm when masturbating solo, tell her it would really arouse you to see her do that while you watch. Also, ask her how she likes to be eaten, then start doing that as she is close to orgasm when she masturbates. Then start eating her earlier and earlier in this process each session. Eventually she won't have to masturbate at all when she is having sex with you.

Opposite of my prob, my guy never likes going down on me at all. Have lots of fantasies about that, any takers? lol

Any takers?...how many members in this group?...haha

have you asked him to go down on you.. or told him thats what ya want??

yes, he just doesn't like it, never had a guy do it for very long, but him only once and never again.

cupcake ill make you cum with my tounge while your tied up with nipple clamps on and im spanking your ass sent me a pm

Does she not ever tell you what she wants? What she likes? Provide a little direction?

she woul never let me know what she wanted.. she must have a hiiden secret, i could never get from her..(too embarressed to tell maybe)