I gave up being ashamed of my activities quite a while ago. Being that Ive been out of the closet for 20+ years, I just shrug and say "deal with it". Now I dont go advertising that I JO with guys online (or bookstores, or beaches, or parks, theaters, etc.) BUT if someone asks me a direct question I am certainly not going to lie about it. Why should I? I pay my own rent, bills, and expenses and am free to do as I choose within the confines of the law. OK...The nude beaches are a bit outside the law in TX but nobody is getting hurt! =D The honest truth is if any of my friend (besides those that know) found out I JO online to other guys, they wouldnt even give it a second thought. They would say "Well at least he's have safe sex and enjoying it!" Yeah, I have that type of relationship with the majority of my friends and its pretty cool =D Thats just how I view life and operate.

I like this thread. I am the same as most of the people on here. My partner knows nothing about this - she doesn't have any idea about how often I masturbate, and from the discussions we've had about masturbation in general she wouldn't understand even if she did know. Ditto with my friends. No-one in my 'real' life knows that I have such a fetish for big tits, or that I jerk off so often. Telling them would be so hard. So I need this little secret - but I also get aroused by this alter ego life I have in which body objectification is the most important thing there is!

Overall I'm not proud of it: but I don't feel that being ok/guilty about this secret wanking life is what this is all about. It just is, my partner can't satisfy me the way these things do, they are different worlds. I love sharing that sentiment with others who feel the same way as me - who like the same things and who are in the same position.

But... I have to admit, it's extremely rare you find a guy to talk to on here who is really in precisely the same position as you AND likes jacking to exactly the same things as you AND reacts to all this in exactly the same way you do!! I've met many many good people on here, but only a few of those are perfect matches...

A good question: but I think yes, it conceivably could be only men who feel like this!

You could easily be right, especially if we knew the number of women who might enjoy masturbating with other women. That seems to be more of a male thing, though we all know that masturbation isn't just a male thing.

I like the fact this is a site where you can remain anonymous, not cheat on anybody, and enjoy/discuss your jacking-related fantasies at the level you choose. And when the reality is that a lot of men, regardless of sexual orientation, enjoy sharing a jack session with another man, then that sounds like a harmless (and fun) way to get some physical needs met.

I'm thankful for this site, including the anonymity. Also, I've chatted with some really nice people from here too.

There's probably quite a few of us out there My online life and my jackinchat connection are completely anonymous

"A Private sexual world all to myself! Is anyone else like that? Similar? Lemme know"

yes totally private!
loads of pics of me and mine, talk about wanking etc. and toys but all anonymous.

I use this site to play out my curious side. I'm straight but I love getting guys off on emails and yahoo messenger. We'll I get off to. If my family and current and past girl friends knew I was chatting with guys about fucking nthem or getting fucked and sending them my picture collection of my cock and ass I would be in trouble. Plus I send out pictures of my old gf's, current gf's and female fuck buddies. I am starting to really get off on talking up some male on male sex with guys. I also like to jack off looking at cocks, guys cumming and guys fucking and sucking.

I agree. No one knows that i love to see a big cock cum. No one i know knows i chat with guys and help get them off showing them pics of my cock and me jerking off. I like it and no one knows. I wish i had someone close by to suck me or jerk me off. and let me jerk them off or try to suck them. Id like to try. i also have an anal fixation no one know about. today at work in the bathroom i fucked myself with a screwdriver handle and it was awesome.

same here too! I love this site! I get to chat with other guys about jackin', what gets me going, and what I love to jack-off to! I think it's great and no way in hell i'd tell my wife or any of my friends that i like to jack with guys..they just wouldn't understand.

My wife knows (and is perfectly ok with it) I masturbate and surf the Internet. She also knows how important I think masturbation is and knows I I enjoy the subject with books I've gotten. So I don't think she would be overly surprised to find me on a site like this. Surprised or not I don't believe she'd be appalled to find me here.

That being said I don't feel the need to tell her. Although we have masturbated together, have had some in depth talk about it, we both feel masturbation is our own personal time. Being able to fantasize about what we want and being able to focus soley on our own sex. I like having being here a private issue.

I've written this many times before in other threads. This is definitely my alter ego but a hugely important one. No one in my life knows what a voracious masturbator I am and the enormous amount of time, energy and effort I devote to my own pleasure.

Once I became completely liberated from any sense of shame or guilt I actually went the other direction - I am proud of my devotion to my dick.

Well said! My dick spends time with women, and occasionally with other men. But it's when I'm alone that it's the center of attention and gives me the greatest pleasure.

That is fucking intense. I just blew a nice, fat load just reading that. Where are all the girls like that where I live!? lol

That said, I keep my masturbation obsession pretty private, too. A few of my friends know about my libido, and the fact that I *DO* masturbate, but not nearly the extent of it. Knowing a guy jerks off once in a while is a far cry from understanding the fact that I spend hours greased up and gooning in front of multiple screens of porn. And that just makes it hotter!

To my way of thinking, the best aspect of Jackinchat is that it provides the freedom to talk about things that you would not normally (In most cases) discuss with family or friends. I remember reading something....at least 20 years ago that has stayed with me ever since.....it was to the effect that everybody has 3 "Personalities" within them. One they show to everyday acquaintances......One they show to their most trusted friends.....and one they never reveal to anyone. So perhaps the personality that we use on Jackinchat could be called "2 and one half"? lol But it really doesn't matter.....the main thing is that anyone can talk freely and openly on here without being judged, etc.....and what a damn shame the same can't be said of everyday life.

this site has been very good for my pleasure for sure. i have always been very secretive about it until the ex caught me online masterbating with another guy and she really got into it. she was the only female to know until recently and she loved both of us masterbating while watching porn of all types. life can be pretty good in some circumstances.