Bye far I feel men win hands down on give better blowjobs and even a hand job. Just do a better job both ways, I think it is because they want it to feel like they are getting one theirself. My g/f from years back would do both for me but she would get to the point her arms would get tired given me a handjob so she switched to doing a blowjob then. I never could find out from her if she liked doing either for me.

Women suck at sucking (no pun intended). Men are the best at it.

what really got mer extra hard and stayed hard was a FRIEND of mine one afternoon, i hd no idea he was the type caught me off guard but i damn sure didnt tell him to stop

I have never experienced a man sucking my cock. Thus I guess I cannot answer this question

men are better