Hi - i've been reading about prostate massage during masturbation. You get amazing orgasms by all accounts and it is therefore something I want to try.

One problem. I don't want to buy a prostate massager. It's not because I am tight - it's because I wouldn't want my wife to find it!

Can anyone point me to any good guides on how to massage your own prostrate please? Is it possible to do it with your fingers? Mine are not particularly long - can anyone recommend any household item that I could use for this purpose?

Cheers,
Gatwick71

I've actually bought a smaller cucumber to use...worked pretty good!

If you're going to use your fingers, be careful not to hurt yourself. Trim your nails, use lube, etc. I made the mistake of being, shall we say, overzealous with prostate experimentation when I was younger and I ended up rubbing my asshole raw. On the other hand, though, the orgasms were fantastic

I so want to try this, but I dont think I would be able to pull it off by myself. I am going to ask my DR about it (female doctor) next time she checks my prostate....lol

would also love to try this

I have used a the handle of a screwdriver to stroke my prostrate from behind. A screwdriver is a simple household implement that most guys can get their hands on. Grease it up and pop it into your bum. Then gently press it so that the handle pushes forward (into you) thereby rubbing your prostrate. It can enhance your jacking experience no end.

Whatever you do don't get tempted to sit down while you are doing this!

Another implement that I have used while travelling is my toothbrush holder. You can buy one which is oval cylindrical. Once again it is an innocent object that can be put to good use when you need extra stimulation.

Happy stroking!

be careful when using household implements.I used to use all kinda weird stuff from around the house and almost got some thing STUCK.I bought an Aneros prostate massager. Designed by a Dr. so it's made for jacking or fucking or whatever. I used to have my wife fuck my ass with her fingers when i fucked her...wow..incredible. My current girlfriend won't do it, so i use my Aneros. Does the job well. I think I'll use it today when I jerkoff.

While massaging the prostate does feel fantastic, be careful to use something very smooth, as well as plenty of lube. It's also very important to completely clean whatever you use before using it again. I work with massage therapy and often give prostate massages but I clip my fingernails and use a latex glove with plenty of lube. Guys gush farther and more cum that way.

I first enjoyed prostate stimulation while getting a bj... fingers being used by the gf, and damn I exploded! It was great. There are all kinds of things to use, but finding other people to help you out is still the most fun.

I love my Aneros. Wife has seen it, didn't really comment, is not particularly interested in sex, so we have an agreement about my masturbation. I really wish she would ask to watch me jack with the Aneros in.

I sometimes use a butt plug, or several of different sizes. The smallest is "boy cock size" while the largest is man size and all I can take. It takes a lot of lube for the big one but it is worth it. My cock gets juicy with a lot of precum and I'm ready to jackoff hard then. Lube for my cock becomes unnecessary as my dick is slippery with the juicy precum.

Guys if you use a cucumber or whatever how do know how far to go in?

I use an end of a fishing rod. Wife does not know.

I find the best way to massage my prostate is with my fingers and you don't need very long fingers to do it. Empty your bowels first or use an enema otherwise things get pretty messy and unpleasant.

Lube your middle finger and while lying back gently slip it in your asshole with your palm upwards. As you push your finger in feel forwards with the tip of your finger until you come across something firm, about the size of a walnut not too far up. That's your prostate which you can now massage with your finger.

I like to wank with one hand and rub my prostate with the other at the same time. When you cum it'll be really intense and you'll probably shoot more than usual.

A Nexus, they really are fantastic little toys.