I have been cruising masturbation sites, jacking on cam and phone for years now, and I confess I used to stop into the odd video arcade or porn theater as well, but I find few people who are truly just into masturbation.

Maybe I'm a bit weird, but I'm really not interested in fucking anyone, male or female, or getting or giving blow jobs - I want to masturbate openly with other people. I get off on being watched, on watching others masturbate, even my favorite porn is watching people of both sexes masturbate and cum. I rarely meet anyone in person because those situations usually result in the other person wanting to suck and fuck while I only want us to masturbate ourselves and each other.

I have found at least one person on jackinchat who shares my interests and boundaries, but I'm wondering if there are others. I'd be interested in reactions from jackinchatters and, of course, any offers to masturbate together will be strongly considered.

You're certainly not a bit wierd as far as I'm concerned although there's no doubt that those of us who prefer just masturbation activites are only a small minority.
I also love openly masturbating with others and the one sexual activity that I've regularly craved thru my life is jacking off with other guys.

I too am 63 yrs old and I could have written this. Most people can't believe it is simply masturbation that I prefer. They think I have to fantisize about something else or have some sort of fetish. No, I could easily give up all other forms of sex, and indeed, if it wasn't for wife, would be totally one deminsional. Thankfully she doesn't require much. For me there is only one form of sex... Masturbation.

Masterbation to me is having self sex any time I want it as to release sexual tension and pent up stress. I don't worry in how to give self pleasure or hear from another that I am performing wrong. No, my cock is very happy and indicates so, by the feelings it gives to me. Solosex has become very acceptable in our society, since AIDS is still very prevelent and relationships very sparse. It is more easy to find a j/o buddy or, taking off the pants and go at it. My screwing days are nil and void,and my cock is still the best friend I have and never argues with me when I want to let loose.

Hey bud. I am at heart. i'm married but if I ever get free of the old ball and chain I'd never fuck again. I much prefer the feeling of my own hand and I luv to see and be with other mastrbators male or female. Solosexual for sure and I jack fsr more than I fuck anyway.

Well, it's great to hear I'm not the only older married guy who feels this way. Thanks to all of you for responding. Needless to say, I would love to masturbate on cam and mic with any and all of you and if we ever ended up in the same town, I would love to get together and share the experience. Check my profile for contact info.

As I now think back, A peak sexual experience in high school and college was watching other guys getting off while they watched me shoot a load helped along by viewing them. I was lucky to have attended a temporary campus whose washro oms had been constructed quickly with easy-to-work materials (plywood) with knotholes and screw holes which allowed anonymous viewing both directions of anonymous jacking. While in high school, watching another boy jack required taking the risk of expressing a desire to be naked with the other person, the perforation of the toilet stall walls permitted anonymous viewing and the ability to jack knowing the person in the next stall could see me jack and shoot without knowing who I was, unless I wanted him to know.

I am definitely a solosexual. All the women that I've been with have been more trouble than they were worth. My own hand can satisfy me better with no complications after. I really don't care if I ever get laid again.

hey all i am 34 male gay and i definately enjoy masturbating all the time and prefer it to sex..... i want to chat to others and find out if we are similar. i sometimes jerk till it is mildly sore i love jerkin it off.

I dont connect with people in person for the same reason. I just want to jerk off and be watched and watch the other person. So if a guy wants to meet up to masturbate, I normally request that his wife/Girlfriend join us. This is to make sure he is all about the bate and not wanting me to jack him off with my mouth.

Solobatorsexual here. Masturbation is an art and a gift that never stops giving: I pursue, cultivate, celebrate it--always have. Adding edging to the mix only heightens the rich experience. I give myself the best, deepest orgasms!

Seems there are a number of us. I'm a gay male and love to masturbate. Don't care if I ever do anything else. I was chatting with a buddy who feels the same way and we agreed that sucking is foreplay, and fucking is a waste of cum. Even if I can't actively masturbate I enjoy touching myself, playing and gently fondling my cock. Soft or hard is fine, I get pleasure both ways. Have a buddy I occasionally get together with to watch gay porn while we jack together, talk about what we like, hot experiences, and hot fantasies. Anyone in the Toronto area?

this is me, as well . . . . I LOVE masturbation and don't really see the need to pursue any other form of sex anymore when I'm perfectly happy playing with my own cock!!! I have found that I DO enjoy mutual masturbation with another guy in person but it's still just masturbation - I'm not into anything beyond just jerking off. If he wants me to stroke his cock, I'm fine with doing that; if he wants to stroke my cock, that's all right, too. But it's not required and I can get myself off just fine while we watch each other.

I still enjoy women very much but don't actively pursue them anymore - I would love to play with or play for a lady! But what I DO pursue is the next chance to masturbate, either with someone else or alone!!! hehe LOL

Hey guys. I was very glad to see all the others who think and act the way I do. Good to know I'm not alone. Some of you have even messaged me. Thanks! I should add a few things. I luv to jack off alone or with others. I also like phone and cam but I'm married so it's hard to get alone time. I also like to jack other guys off and I will let someone else jack me sometimes though it's not my favorite. I really enjoyed your profile pics. Got me real hard. Jsut thought I'd share that with you. Happy jacking

Heyy awesome to see this thread! Solosexual...EXACTLY! I love masturbating and sharing it with people.