Been solosexual for a decade, not by choice. I definitely prefer sex with humans but I never get the chance. Not sure why.

Solosexual for over a decade here.

If I 'came out' at work as , say, transgender then I would get sympathy, understanding and told how brave I was in accepting my sexuality. If I announced that I was a 'wanker and proud of it' then I'd be treated with scorn and derision and considered a weirdo perve.

Until there's equality for us devoted masturbators - it's a lifestyle choice after all which is ALWAYS safe, consensual and legal, then us wankers will always be second class citizens with a secret to hide. It will take a major celeb -male or female - to go public and state they much prefer their own cock/pussy to any type of shared sex before us wankers are openly accepted in the eyes of everyone else.

not solosexual as such - i do occasionally have sex with girls i meet at clubs, but the enjoyment is from the tastes and smells of her body parts (and fluids!) beforehand. i'd take a good wank over the penetration bit any day!

In the words of Woody Allen; "Hey, don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love..."

I've had to rely on masturbation as a major sexual outlet from the age of 12/13 until now ( 38 ). Occasionaly I'll have a girlfriend, but those are few and far between, and sex isn't always guaranteed. However, solo sex is always within arms length.

Most of my wanking takes place while watching porn but sometimes I'll do it in bed, in the dark without any visual stimulation and that works fine too. I also enjoy watching other men masturbate, and have jerked off with a friend from time to time. That is something I'd like to do more often and with others, or even in a group as well.

So if that makes me a solosexual, count me in!

I have been solosexual 95% of my life. You could call it involuntary celibacy. Otherwise normal, I just never get laid.

I've been solo-sexual / wanking gooning since we had our first child...it has become a necessity not a choice...

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As a "soloist" you can do whatever you want, whenever you want and with whomever you want. So how can it get better?

After my wife died I became a solosexual again except for one hand job at a massage joint which was not so good so I'm back to solosexual for keeps.

After being divorced I went to a few porn theatres and experienced the joy of open masturbation in public with men. To me having a stranger cum in my hand was a rush equal to intercourse. And him making me cum was better than I though it could be. Since then masturbating has been all I've needed to keep me sexually happy. I know there must be other who feel like me but I just haven't found them yet but would very much like to.

Wow, think you are my fantasy "cum" true

I always been a masturbator although I also enjoyed sex with women. However for the past several years my only outlet has been with my right hand and, occasionally someone would lend a hand when I was enjoying myself in an adult theater, or out on a beach or in a park. I almost always masturbate naked and do feel that being "caught" in the act adds to the thrill.