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mattsjackinit Novice Jackinchatter

7 posts since 2010-09-29
41 year old from Ohio
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Hey guys, I want to thank you in advance for reading all of this, and if you answers and thoughts, a special thanks to you.

I've always been curious about other guys edging habits, techniques, duration of sessions, etc. So here are some questions that have always been on my mind about my fellow edgers.

1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?

2) How long is an average edging session?

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?

4) How do you edge your cock? For me, there are two kinds of edging (if there are more, please feel free to share!). The first is where you work your cock up to the point where you are just about to have an orgasm, and then you take your hands off your cock, or just stop stimulating it. You do this over and over and over again, getting so close, then backing off, until you decide to let your body have an orgasm. The second kind of edging is where you get yourself to the point where you are about to nut, and you manipulate your cock in a way that you just hover on the brink of orgasm. You maintain that fine line where the precum is almost steady and your balls are super tight. So anyway, how would you describe the way you edge?

5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?

smooth If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.

Thanks again to everyone for sharing their answers! Oh, and sorry for the verbal diarrhoea in some of those questions, this was my first questionnaire.
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jackerbudchgo Novice Jackinchatter

46 posts since 2010-05-16
bisexual from Los Angeles
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor? -- i almost always edge when i'm masturbating. if i'm in a semi public place (like restroom or lockeroom) i will just bring it up.

2) How long is an average edging session? 2-4 hours.

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load? I have several orgasms throughout the session, and ejaculate at the end of 99% of edge sessions. if i don'y ejaculate it's usually because it's very late, i've been drinking, or it's the 4th or more session of the day.

4) How do you edge your cock? For me, there are two kinds of edging (if there are more, please feel free to share!). The first is where you work your cock up to the point where you are just about to have an orgasm, and then you take your hands off your cock, or just stop stimulating it. You do this over and over and over again, getting so close, then backing off, until you decide to let your body have an orgasm. The second kind of edging is where you get yourself to the point where you are about to nut, and you manipulate your cock in a way that you just hover on the brink of orgasm. You maintain that fine line where the precum is almost steady and your balls are super tight. So anyway, how would you describe the way you edge? I prefer the second variety. once i get to the edge i stay there. the brinksmanship is the point.

5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge? i can hover for hours -- my record is about 11 hours straight. you maintain it by understanding your penis, really wanting the edge, having no inhibitions about masturbation and breathing.

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot? i use all of these. just let your penis tell you what to do.

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction? again, i use all of these. each session is different.

smooth If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable? you can never go back. i prefer to concentrate on how my next session will be better than my last.

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm? lots of things -- nips, with my other hand on my penis, balls, hole, feet....

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load? onto my body, somewhere.

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo? lubed. a must.

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share. fleshlight, aneros, rudeboy, tenga flip-hole..they all add interesting things. don't be shy, experiment. if you're unsure where to start, ask a male employee of a good sex shop. you'll get tons of input.

Thanks again to everyone for sharing their answers! Oh, and sorry for the verbal diarrhoea in some of those questions, this was my first questionnaire.[/quote]
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EverySecondTuesday Amateur Jackinchatter

192 posts since 2007-10-12
44 year old heterosexual
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1) Pretty much all the time. Ever since I learned to take it slow, I rarely ever race to the finish anymore.

2) 30-60 minutes. Sometimes I'll go for two hours, but that's rare. I've never tried to go all day, I've never seen the point.

3) Yes. Once in a while I think that I should try doing the edge and stop thing for a week, just to see what it's like, but I never go through with it.

4) I try to keep it at a fairly steady level of pleasure just below the edge, but not hitting it and having to back off all the time. That seems to work well for me and the pleasure builds as I go.

5) Usually I'll keep it right against the edge for only a minute or two. I think once I managed to hold it for ten minutes of pulsing, twitching ecstacy, but that's rare.

6) Slow strokes, applying pressure around the head, with some assistance from tensing the PC muscles in the right way.

7) I tend to stroke as long as I can, but usually sometime around the first contraction, I'm unable to keep at it. Partially, it's because I become too sensitive, and partially because I'm physically unable to keep stroking.

8 ) The right level of relaxation, the right level of lubrication, the right temperature, the right mindset...

9) It is usually rubbing my nipples, stroking my balls, rubbing my stomach, or caressing my perineum or the lower section of my shaft.

10) Into a Fleshlight, for easy cleanup.

11) Lubed, definitely. Doesn't really work for me any other way.

12) I use a Fleshlight almost every time I masturbate. I occasionally use a strong vibrating cock ring or an Aneros.
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imark Amateur Jackinchatter

203 posts since 2010-11-18
54 year old heterosexual
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1) almost always edge and enjoy....

2)30 minutes to hours.

3)90% of the time I cum, sometimes I fall asleep while doing it.

4)Slow consistant strokes then rest, sometimes i let my cock go flacid and then start again.

5)For hours I can maintain that edge.

6)Both, sometimes it is slow light strokes and other times it is hard strokes.

7)Yes I pause then finish.

smoothRelaxed, nude, comfortable, cock freshly shaved smooth.

9) feeling my smooth balls.

10) onto my stomach and all over my hand.

11) dry and smooth.

12) 10% of the time I use a cockring. Have used a jelly butt plug.
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Alex_TO Amateur Jackinchatter

270 posts since 2009-12-31
36 year old heterosexual from Toronto, ON
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1) If time permits, I'll definitely edge. It's way more satisfying than a quick cum. However, if I just need to unload, then a quick session will do nicely. I'd say out of five sessions a week, four would be edging to some degree.

2) 1-2 hours. After that I find that the orgasm isn't any more or less satisfying, so I tend to cum around then.

3) The only time I won't cum is if I'm trying for an all-day kind of thing, where I jerk off periodically throughout the day, but deny orgasm until the evening. That can be fun on days when I've got nothing else to do, but as I said above, the final orgasm won't be much better than if I'd cum after the second hour.

4) I edge by taking myself to the point of orgasm, then backing off, stroking just enough to keep my cock hard, but not so much that I want to cum. After a bit, I'll work it up again to the point of orgasm, then back off. I repeat until I allow myself to actually cum.

5) I can usually string it out for a long time, like an hour or more, depending on how much other stimulation I have around me (porn, hot chats, etc.). I maintain the edge by knowing where to touch myself so that it feels good, but not so good that it'll make me cum.

6) When it's time to cum I usually do it one of two ways: hard, fast strokes, or by spitting in my hand and rubbing it around my cockhead. I don't jack off with lube usually, so the added stimulation of slick saliva around my super-sensitive head makes me blow a big load.

7) If I'm doing the hard strokes, I'll continue it until I'm spent. If I'm doing the spit thing, I usually pause while I ejaculate so the cum doesn't spray everywhere, haha.

smooth The best edged orgasm I ever had was one where I voice chatted with a girl for ages, like the whole time I was edging. It was such a turn on to hear her moaning and talking dirty that by the end, when I did cum, I ejaculated so much I was literally blown away.

9) It's usually off to one side. I'm not sure exactly, I don't pay too much attention to my other hand.

10) When I edge I'm always in front of my computer, so when I cum I do it onto my stomach. That way I can see how much I ejaculated and also it's easier to clean up.

11) I guess I kind of already answered this. Dry for edging, lube sometimes for orgasm.

12) Haven't used toys yet, but I may one day if I have money to blow on a Fleshlight grin
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Mr_Bator Novice Jackinchatter

42 posts since 2008-10-24
73 year old curious from Australia
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I think I posted this some time ago but I'll do it again here. It's a commentary of one of my edging sessions

I’m sitting here at my computer watching a video of a guy with a large cock masturbate on my regular porn site. I’m quite aroused but not fully erect. I slip my jeans and undies down and begin squeezing and slowly massaging my cock. I notice that my pre-cum has started so I rub it around the head of my penis for stimulation. After some time of watching and fondling my semi erect cock, my video man begins to moan and starts ejaculating all over his chest. “This is awesome” I think to myself. There’s nothing quite as arousing as watching another man masturbating to orgasm. “Whew... I am so aroused; will I go for it now or take my time?” I ask myself. I decide to have an extended session so I close the site and head for the bedroom.

Moments later I’ve stripped completely and I lie down on the bed. My first task is to get out my soft rubber cock ring and slip it on. It stretches the skin over my balls and pulls them forward under my cock and feels terrific. I lie on my back and gently squeeze my balls and slowly rub and stroke my cock until I get pre-cum oozing again. I continue stimulation of my cock and balls and rub the pre-cum lightly around the glans of my cock head. I turn my attention to the underside of my cock, tickling my frenulum with a single finger in a circular motion. Occasionally I pick up a fresh supply of pre-cum for lubrication whilst enjoying the sensation of my hand brushing my balls held tight by my rubber cock ring.

I place my thumb on the upper side of my cock and three fingers on the underside. Lightly, ever so lightly, I begin a stroking motion by moving the loose skin on my shaft up and down with a steady rhythm. As my arousal builds more blood is forced into my cock and it is now approaching full erection. I keep my excitement building with light stroking and fondling and as it builds, I find that my cock is hard and tight with blue veins standing out and winding their way around my shaft like a cylindrical roadmap.

Soon a very pleasant sensation spreads into my pelvic region and I feel my seminal fluid flow into my urethral bulb; it only takes a few seconds but the sensation is quite distinctive and is the first sign of an impending orgasm. I stop stroking for a second or two and cup my balls, tightly stretched and held up against the underside of my shaft by my cock ring. The feeling is sensational and I wipe a huge bead of pre-cum from the eye of my penis with the index finger of my left hand; I then slip it into my mouth. I adore the sensation and the taste of mild saltiness of my pre-cum. I release my balls and return to stroking. The sexual tension within my body is palpable, and I have to fight to control the urge to speed up and finish myself off.

By this stage around three minutes have passed and the build up towards orgasm intensifies. I move my hand up the shaft so that my thumb is placed over the corona where the swollen head of my cock stands proud from my shaft. Momentarily I return to tickling my frenulum with a single finger using my pre-cum as lubricant. Then, with two fingers on the underside and thumb on top I increase the pressure on my cock and start stroking at a more constant pace. As the feeling of impending orgasm spreads throughout my groin I thrust up and down with my pelvis in time with my stroking while fantasising about my cock being buried in some tight little pussy. My hand easily slides up and down the shaft now; it’s done it so many times before its almost second nature. Pre-cum flows out of my slit and using my index finger I smooth it around the glans making it shiny and spread it over my bulging head.

“God I’m getting closer now,” I think to myself. I’ll have to be careful not to take myself beyond the point of no return and into ejaculation; I want this to last a while yet. More stroking and I really feel my body now on the verge of orgasm. The familiar sensation of early stages of orgasm engulfs my body like slipping into a deep bath of hot pleasure. Soon my breathing becomes deeper and in shorter gasps and I’m totally focused on the exquisite sensations.... “Oh God, this is bliss” I think to myself. Then it starts; the pure pleasure of the emission phase and impending orgasm begins. I sense the tickling of the fluids moving towards my prostate. I feel my pelvic muscle (the so-called 'pee muscle') contract during the emission phase and I realise I’m almost there, ready to go. My head is swimming with euphoria as the orgasm begins and the intense pleasure seems to climb the shaft of my cock. I’m only a millisecond away from ejaculation, head spinning with pleasure.

“Fuck... stop!” I think to myself and remove my hand from my cock. I press down internally with my pelvic muscle to stop my ejaculation beginning. As I hold muscle tension, the pleasure associated with orgasm hangs for a few seconds before it slowly starts to subside. I look down and see my erect cock pulsing vigorously with contractions that would normally be expelling my semen. I lie here for a few moments basking in the euphoria and heightened state of arousal as my cock slowly stops twitching. About thirty seconds have gone by and I’m still in what I’d describe as a semi orgasmic plateau but my ejaculation has fully subsided.

A wonderful sense of anticipation engulfs me as I take hold of my cock once more. Slowly I begin stroking again, totally focused on my feelings and sensations. With just a few strokes this time I again sense the movement of the seminal fluids in my body and enter the emission phase once again. My pelvic muscle begins to contract and my body begins its second orgasm. “Oh yes... Here it is again... That feeling” I think to myself as my head swims with euphoria. My pleasure climbs quickly and just as my ejaculatory response is about to kick in, I stop all stimulation once again. Timing is critical at this point; one stroke too many and I’ll take myself over the edge and ejaculate.

I repeat this process a dozen times or more before allowing myself the reward of climax and ejaculation. During the session I remain suspended in a heightened state of arousal and sexual tension. It’s wonderful. During each emission phase, more and more fluid accumulates inside my prostate so that when I do decide to ejaculate, the force and the amount of semen can be enormous.

Stroking again now; “this time I’m going to let myself go” I decide; I desperately need release now, I feel the tension of my built up sperm seeking release. Then, for one last time, I feel my semen travelling from my prostate up the shaft. My free hand cradles my balls now as the pleasure takes off. “Nearly there. Oh yes.... And then....” I'm there, the world stops, time stops and all sensation is centred on my cock head. “Oh God I'm cumming. Oh yes. Mmmmmh. Oh yes. I'm cumming, I'M CUMMING, I'M CUMMING.......”

My breathing stops momentarily as my body tenses. All sensation is based in my cock and my engorged cockhead glistens with pre-cum. Sensation of touch is magnified to extreme proportions. I exhale and indescribable pleasure overcomes me as I ejaculate a small release of cum four inches or so onto my lower abdomen. But a quick flick of my wrist releases a second, more potent stream; this time a rope of cum shoots out and lands about eight inches up my belly. I raise my hips to aid the next release of cum. The sensation is fantastic as I watch my cock exploding and releasing its creamy white lava.

My breathing stops again and my next shot, the third, is the greatest. The explosive force spurts the load of this discharge the furthest. It has landed on my upper chest travelling almost two feet. Still stroking and with another contraction deep inside another huge rope of cum explodes out of the tiny slit in my cock flying through the air before it lands leaving a cum trail from its head. At this moment my cock is the centre of the universe.

Another spasm and another burst of cum, this time without as much force landing about six inches up my belly. My next squirt is much weaker and joins the pools of warm cum lying on my lower belly. My hand is still stroking up and down my shaft rolling over the ridge of my cock head. Fifteen to twenty seconds have passed but time seems to have stood still. Two or three more contractions as more semen seeps like lava from the head of a volcano.

Just as I think it’s all over another seizure hits me; my body tenses and the world freezes for a second or two. The next spasm is smaller and cum oozes out this time and runs down my cock head and over my fingers and thumb. Down the shaft it streams and starts a large cum pool at the base of my shaft. Oh so incredible. Another emission and another; no power now just warm viscous lava flowing down my cock and adding to the pool of creamy cum. All contractions are gone, my orgasm is over and I’m left with a wonderful sensation of contentment and satisfaction washing over my body. As I lie there recovering my senses, my erection begins to quickly subside and my cock lowers itself into the pool of cum at the base of my cock; almost as if by invitation. I look at the time and realise fourty minutes have passed since I began, and it seems like ten.

I love edging. Its taken practice and discipline to learn to take myself to the point of no return time and again. To back off just as my pleasure is at its maximum; when every fibre in my body is telling me to keep going and let my ejaculatory trigger kick in. To constantly stop all stimulation and allow my orgasm to subside isn’t easy. If I get it right though, the rewards are well worth it. I can experience the pleasure of multiple orgasms, the pleasure of heightened arousal and the wonderful tension inside my abdomen as my sperm builds up, ready to be released. I enjoy the large amounts of fluid that runs out of my penis. Early on it’s clear and sticky, the result of seminal fluid produced by my Cowper's glands. Later on, it can appear like egg white, as it pushes out accumulated sperm. I love the notion that I can experience extended pleasure and keep my erection for quite long periods. I love the fact that I don’t enter the usual refractory period until after I ejaculate.

Whilst the actual intensity of pleasure I experience at the moment of ejaculation is hard to describe. I still enjoy the journey, the teasing, the tension and time it takes to arrive. Then, when I finally allow myself to ejaculate, I feel as though I’ve somehow earned it; a true reward for discipline and patience.

16,000 + orgasms and still counting
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6 posts since 2010-12-11
40 year old heterosexual
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?

I always edge when I masturbate. How long depends on my time and if I want to do something else too.

2) How long is an average edging session?

Average would be 2 hours.

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?

I always ejaculate. Some time ago I held it for some days. But it is not that great of a feeling overall.

4) How do you edge your cock? For me, there are two kinds of edging (if there are more, please feel free to share!). The first is where you work your cock up to the point where you are just about to have an orgasm, and then you take your hands off your cock, or just stop stimulating it. You do this over and over and over again, getting so close, then backing off, until you decide to let your body have an orgasm. The second kind of edging is where you get yourself to the point where you are about to nut, and you manipulate your cock in a way that you just hover on the brink of orgasm. You maintain that fine line where the precum is almost steady and your balls are super tight. So anyway, how would you describe the way you edge?

I rub it very hard, and then stop but leave the hand at my cock, and I do it over and over again. Sometimes I chance the method I rub it.

5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?

I can do it forever. I once did it over 24 hours.

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?

Hard strokes.

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?

I just continue.

smooth If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?

the best I ever had was when my parents went for vacation the first time without me. I was looking forward for that day for some weeks. So when they left I was looking at playboy magazines (that was my porn then grin the whole day. I edged and hung up the best pages on the wall and get hornier with every hour. The final orgasm in the evening was incredible. It can't happen again I think. That was like 16 years ago.

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?

Holding a mouse.

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?

I just blow it, don't care about that in that moment.

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?

dry.

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.

sometimes I use a cock ring, which helps to maintain the cock very hard.
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If you can read MrBator's post above...and not get hard...you might be dead. WOW! I want to learn to do it like he does.
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389 posts since 2010-05-30
38 year old from the EU - serious addict
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?
I try to edge whenever I have enough time, which is not a common option for me. I think that only about 10% of my sessions consist of edging.

2) How long is an average edging session?
3 to 5 hours, usually.

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?
I try to cum only once, at the very end of the session, so that the orgasm might feel a lot better.

4) How do you edge your cock? For me, there are two kinds of edging (if there are more, please feel free to share!). The first is where you work your cock up to the point where you are just about to have an orgasm, and then you take your hands off your cock, or just stop stimulating it. You do this over and over and over again, getting so close, then backing off, until you decide to let your body have an orgasm. The second kind of edging is where you get yourself to the point where you are about to nut, and you manipulate your cock in a way that you just hover on the brink of orgasm. You maintain that fine line where the precum is almost steady and your balls are super tight. So anyway, how would you describe the way you edge?
I do it both ways.

5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?
The secret lies in focusing your mind and senses on different things. It's like in sex - when oyu don't wanna cum too soon, you just try to distract your thoughts, not focus on the act so much, you try not to get too much into it... Same with edging.

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?
Hard and fast strokes, usually.

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?
I continue with the same method or slow down a bit.

smooth If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?
You get better orgasm through abstaining from cumming for a few days (you can masturbate and edge, but not cum for at least 3 days before the release day), and a longer edging session, of course.

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?
It's idle smile

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?
Belly and chest.

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?
I lube it up with my saliva. Sometimes I use a sex jelly.

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.
I have an 8-inch, very thick dildo with a huge cock head. I put it up my ass before starting my session. Sometimes I masturbate with the dildo up my butt.
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371 posts since 2006-03-11
38 year old bisexual from Ohio
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?

When I was younger edging wasn't something I did very often, but now that I live alone I'd say that 98% of my masturbation is edging. Occasionally I just really need to get off and I'll rub one out quickly in the shower.

2) How long is an average edging session?

I masturbate every day and I would say that the average session for me is about 3 hours.

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?

I always cum at the end. I've never seen a need to hold onto it. It's not like I won't be able to cum next time if I get off this time.

4) How do you edge your cock?

I try and jack to the point where I can stroke the entire time until I'm ready to cum. Sometimes I speed up, sometimes I slow down, but I try and keep myself just shy of the edge.

5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?

It depends on the session. Lots of factors go into it. What I've been watching/looking at, how long I've been stroking, how many times I've been near the edge that session, how long since I last came, etc.

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?

Usually (but not always) hard, tight, rapid strokes.

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?

I usually pause then pick back up.

8 ) If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?

I've had so many good ones it's hard to remember the best or what made the really good ones really good. I don't really think it's had anything to do with what I've done during those sessions, but rather how horny I was.

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?

Usually typing, clicking on links/vids/pics, or doing something else on the computer.

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?

When I edge I always do it naked sitting at my computer so I usually shoot onto my stomach, chest, and face.

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?

Lubed. Always lubed.

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.

Just porn, pics, and chat. No toys.
Turn on. Tune in. Drop out.
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19 posts since 2009-05-05
39 year old bisexual from Fort Collins, CO
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?

--It depends on my mood, if I'm wicked horny and down for a good long session I'll edge for a long time. But if I've gotta blow a load before I fall asleep, it'll be fast.

2) How long is an average edging session?

--On average when I edge it's for at least an hour or so.

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?

--Again it depends on my mood, but sometimes after edging for a while, I'll elect to save my load so that the next one is mind-blowing. And yeah, I can have an orgasm without ejaculating- do it all the time.

4) How do you edge your cock? For me, there are two kinds of edging (if there are more, please feel free to share!). The first is where you work your cock up to the point where you are just about to have an orgasm, and then you take your hands off your cock, or just stop stimulating it. You do this over and over and over again, getting so close, then backing off, until you decide to let your body have an orgasm. The second kind of edging is where you get yourself to the point where you are about to nut, and you manipulate your cock in a way that you just hover on the brink of orgasm. You maintain that fine line where the precum is almost steady and your balls are super tight. So anyway, how would you describe the way you edge?

--I tend to go with the latter method, but sometimes instead of physically manipulating my cock, I'll just focus on some hot imager to get my mind to hold me in that awesome euphoric orgasm state.

5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?

--It all depends on a myriad of things.

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?

--Hard, tight, fast strokes

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?

--Yeah, I usually pause. But sometimes I'll just hardcore fist my shaft all the way through the cum. Constant stimulation.

If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?

--The best edged out load I had was after I got back from several weeks of Basic Military Training. It was awesome since I was pretty much about ready to blow without needing to touch my shaft so it was extra sensitive.

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?

--It's on my shaft, double-fisting!

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?

--Chest, Face, Wall, Ceiling, Etc...

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?

--All depends on my mood.

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.

--Only toy I'll use is a Fleshlight... love that thing!

Thanks again to everyone for sharing their answers! Oh, and sorry for the verbal diarrhoea in some of those questions, this was my first questionnaire.
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40 posts since 2006-06-03
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I just found a post I did back in 2008 regarding my edging wank sesh's

Here it is and nothing's changed...made me horny reading it too. Remember, Disciples of the edge say there are 4 stages of pleasure: Excitement or Foreplay - the lead up to, the teasing and general getting the smell, the feel, the greasiness just right for the long stretch ahead, Enjoyment - hours are what you have and you're naked, sweaty and just enjoying letting that cock know you're onto the edge. You're kicked back legs spread and it's been hours. The room smells so horned and you smell just as good. You're there dude! You're starting to really surf those pleasure waves. Trance - You're pretty much drunk on cock and all that matters is that swollen cock and the fingers that work it. Your penis root (remember your penis begins internally!) and urethral bulb are primed causing the waves of tightness and warm tingles in your pelvic area to really kick in and Orgasm - most edgers will hit this a while before they blow - about 20 mins or more during which their cock starts to release large amounts of fluid such as backed up pre cum, prostatic fluid and sometimes piss. Basically you just start to let all that fluid out after hours of edging and eventually the actual ejaculation is a continuation just, you have the pressure to get off. As below, you'll see how my sesh goes with all these stages ticked off well and truly.


I've hit all stages over a day or so. It's like this: wake up about 9 or 10 am on a Saturday, have some breakfast, then fire up the mac about 10.30 and begin to surf porn, chat, trawl for a willing jo bud. This may be a definate idea, or just a bit of play to get me wetter, but I glance up and it's about 12pm. I start to play with my semi cock through my jeans and sometimes let my hand go down into my jox and feel the wetness getting my jox and foreskin sodden. I flick my juicy foreskin and as i pull my hand out I also stretch a generous bead of pre which I taste. My fingers smell of cock.

I'm at that point where I'm ready to hit the bate, but I want to surf some more and get my hornyness up a bit. I'm starting to smell myself, with each movement of my legs or when I recline back and have one leg up and one down, that warm, musty, pissy, sweet, pre smell wafts it's way up to my nose and breathe it in. Sweet, this is going to be a horny smelling wank.

About 3, I kick back on my bed with my phone and call a chat line, lube at the ready. I listen to a few dudes, and by now I'm in my jocks and the smell makes me want to eat my own cock. I'm ready to wank, to edge and build this load.

A dude catches my attention. He sounds gruff, sexy, dirty and his breathing indicates he's probably kicking back bating his cock too. Sweet, he's uncut too.

I pull my jox off and the smell is hot, sexy, dirty, wet, piss, pre, cum, balls, sweat, cock, wank. It's primal.

I message him telling him I'm wanking my big wet uncut cock, paying attention to my foreskin, which is loose and juicy and tingling with pleasure. I'm not stroking anywhere near the shaft as I'm a foreskin jockey and can easily get myself squirting by working my frenulum, ultimately allowing for the shaft to engorge and bask in the moment when the cum thats been boiling in my nuts for hours and the seminal fluid from my swollen and pulsing prostate fires up my urethra and gushes forth into my waiting face.

He digs it and tells me thats how he wanks too.

We start to breathe and moan and for the next two hours we get super fucking wet and can hear each other's cock squelching, clicking away in the background sodden with precum and lube. We're both hitting stage 2, approaching 3 about to lose ourselves in the wank.

He suddenly gets rapid and tells me hes close and he can't hold off, so I tell him to shoot, to unload, to fucking knock the top right off his cock.

He does and his moans and surprised gasping "fucks" and "shit yeahs" indicate he's unloaded well. He tells me he hit his face and his cum shot out and fired his face like a cannon.

He hangs up with a "thanks dude"

I continue....listening to dudes. it's now about 5.30pm and I'm counting the hours of being in the zone. I got a good few hours yet.

I chat to another dude, and he cums. Another hour passes...and another dude who is horny as me and has been edging his load. He cums before i do and hangs up...I hang up for a while too.

It's about 8.30pm and I've been working on my cock for a good 5 hours. I've skinned right back and I'm still only doing head work. I'm bottle topping my corona. Bottle topping you say?

Get your thumb and first finger and make an O and then you use those two fingers or the O to gently bump your corona or ridge. I wank with lube only moving my O shape ever so slightly but with increasing speed, attempting to get that p that perineum pulse that will allow me to feel that seminal fluid pumping and emptying into my prostate.

I do. I feel that tingling sensation, increasing with pleasure, and I moan out loud. I fucking love this bit from here on in. I'm drunk on my cock and at stage 3, the smell is wet, my cock is pissing precum in a steady juicy flow and the tingling sensation lasts a good 40 seconds. I keep my stroke steady, still leaving the shaft alone.

I'm totally buzzed out on my cock, my legs pulled as far back as I can get them, mt body arched getting as close to my cock as I can. If only I could get closer...I stare at my wet cock, the foreskin, loose, bunched just below my corona. A bead of pre oozes out of my cock and it slowly dribbles down the head onto my slow working thumb and it begins to hang, then drops down onto my pubes. This flow repeats and repeats and it is so sexy to watch this cock just have a life of it's own.

Oh yeah, this is the trance stage of the wank. I'm dizzy, I'm smelly, I don't give a fuck anymore. I need to piss. Fuck it, I'll just piss right here, right now and keep wanking this load on. I piss and the water is clear and warm, splattering my bed, the wall and my chest. Still I keep wanking...

I turn my head and look. It's 11.30pm. I call the chat line and decide I'm ready to unload. I've built my load and over the last 8 hours, I've felt that sensation in my perineum area at least 6 times, I've been semi, I've drunk alot of pre and still I drool.

Some guy messages me. he sounds hot, sexy dirty and gaspy. He's been wanking for a while and dudes keep hanging up on him. They've all cum but he hasn't.

We connect and all he wants to do is listen to the wet cock. He talks foreskin and frenulum and tells me he's so wet he's sure he's going to self tonight. He loves to self he says, telling me he always aims for his face and that he sprays a good load. I tell him how I'm wanking and he tries it agreeing that it feels hot.

We listen to each other and then he tells me he thinks he's starting to orgasm. I tell him I usually start to orgasm about 20 minutes before I blow after a good bate sesh and he tells me he does the same. I start to feel the orgasm too.

We're both beyond the trance, the zone...gasping "fuck" "shit yeah" ing into the phone. "let me hear your cock and you moan in the background" so I put the phone next to my sodden cock and moan. He loves it then does it for me.

I think I'm about 10 mins away from a massive load I tell him. He agrees. "we have to cum together" he says

"fuck yeah"

We gasp, moan and I feel that last tingling of seminal fluid releasing into my swollen prostate. My penis root is totally buzzed now radiating that feeling between my legs and perineum.

"Man, I'm getting super close...fuck I'm so wet"

My cock is dripping and I can feel the load, fuck I can smell it.

My legs begin to tremble and my moans become gutteral groans and I manage to drawl "Ah dude, I'm about to let it go, fuck I'm gonna knock the top off this big fuckin wet cock"

"yeah man me too" he gasps...

Within seconds we both agree it's time with a "dude I'm ready...lets kick off"

There is silence amid our gasps and moans, my cock twitches. Thebase of my cock tightens and pulls back deep into my pelvis, my nuts rise and the air is thick with piss and precum and sweat. Time freezes for a millisecond while deep in my nuts and deep in the machinery of my cock, all the parts are beginning to whir into motion to discharge a mother load of cum, a load that has built over 8 hours.

I gasp as I feel the snap and my nuts twitch, my mouth moans and I feel the warm rush up my shaft, my shaft that thought it was forgotten, but now it is tingling with this sensation. My head is swollen and red and i gently squeeze the nib of my cock to apply pressure to get a good squirt. It works...

I squirt my face, hitting my mouth and I quickly let my tongue lick....another squirt....fuck....into my cheek....another, my forehead, then out it all cums, spraying left, right and finally the mother load, the major squirt that delivers a white stripe from just below my chin up my face and through my hair.

I lay there, wet, messy and spent. The other dude is gasping and then tells me he shot his load in his mouth then his eye, then over his head.

We agree that edging is th shit.
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94 posts since 2008-10-05
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?
I rarely "bust a nut" and when I do, is just after a really long session

2) How long is an average edging session?
Id say 3 hours

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?
Im learning to deny cumming, because that way you can keep feeling that nice feeling in your body even when not edging. Im at an average of 3 days denying cumming

4) How do you edge your cock?
I almost always do it the same way, sitting on the floor with my legs crossed, with one hand on my nipples and the other teasing the head of my cock. I tend to be continually arousing myself until I feel those amazing edging waves. My body gets very sensitive at that time and I go more slowly, controlling the pleasure and the urge to cum


5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?
I control it by touching more slowly and less frequently when Im at that state. The most I have maintained after getting there was about 4 hours.

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?
As I try to deny it the most, when Im up to it I like to do it with hard quick strokes

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?
While one of my hands stroke my penis, I have the other rubbing all over my body

If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?
The most memorable was after an incredible 12 hours session (which has only ocurred once) My body was so sensitive, I felt like such a sexual being

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?
Caressing an pinching my nipples

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?
In my chest most of the time

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?
I get lots of precum, so it serves very well as lub

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.
Sometimes I like to use butt plugs, but they are too intense to edge. Because of that I rarely use them now
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35 posts since 2010-08-18
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1) Do your masturbation sessions always consist of edging? If not, how often do you just "bust a nut " vs edge? Is time the only factor?
"I rarely "bust a nut" and when I do, is just after a really long session"

2) How long is an average edging session?
"often the whole evening, or half a day in week-ends"

3) Do you always have an orgasm and/or ejaculate at the end of your session? If not, what makes you decide to hold on to your load?
"I usually deny cumming till the end of the day, because that way I can keep that nice feeling in my body even when not edging. I decide to ejaculate when it's time to go to bed"

4) How do you edge your cock?
"Now, it's mainly by watching the Internet or chatting like here. Before, it was in my bed most of the time. I have discovered edging since the Internet era. I control for hours the feelings in my penis and the urge to cum"


5) How long can you maintain or hover on that line of orgasm inevitability before it becomes too intense)? How do you maintain that fine edge?
"that may be for a whole day. I control by stopping my masturbation for 2-3 min, then continuing."

6) How do you prefer to trigger your orgasm? Hard, tight strokes? Slow strokes? Gentle, barely there motions? Rubbing a certain spot?
"As I try to deny it the most, when Im up to it I like to do it with hard quick strokes"

7) Once orgasm becomes inevitable and you can feel your load building up, do you continue the same stroking method you used to tip your over? Do you pause for that quick second of the first contraction?
"yes, i pause during the first contractions, letting my semen flow, then I start again to jerk slowly till I feel I'm empty"

If you wanted to recreate the best edged out nut you can remember, how would you do it? What made that orgasm better or more memorable?
"after a week-end day edging, having a good intimate chat with a bud, or watching a sexy guy on a video. My body get so sensitive, my brain is immersed in lust..."

9) What is your other hand doing while you are having an orgasm?
"nothing, or typing the keyboard"

10) I'm sure this has been asked before, but where do you like to blow your load?
"in a paper towel, usually"

11) Do you prefer to edge your cock dry, lubed, a combo?
"dry, coz I'm uncut and I get lots of precum"

12) If you use toys or anything and they add to the experience/orgasm, please share.
"no, i prefer to be absolutely natural in my nudity"
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