Whenever I get horned up I want to meet up with a guy to rub one out but never do. But really want to. What have your experiences been. The good and bad.

I met a guy on jackinchat several years ago--and we met in real life after a while. The interesting thing is, while we jacked on-line, we didn't do it in person. He was a nice guy and we spent a little time together, but never sexually. Something about the fantasy and being horny and alone that makes the on-line stuff appealing but not so important or appealing in real life... Anyone know what I mean?

Did once. Damn near chickened out several times on the way to meet him, and even after I got there. Met him at a porn book/video store. We went into the theater and stroked a bit, then headed someplace a little more private and jerked together.

My nerves were a wreck the whole time, thinking, "This guy could be an ax murderer for all I know." LOL

I have.. and I married him! We fooled around a bit on our first meeting. Some heavy making out, fingering, oral. No sex until a few months later but it was hot as hell. He got me SO fucking wet. It was very hot.

i met a guy in person that i met online. not from jackin chat. from talking to this guy, he was the coolest guy i could ever want to meet. we kept it online for months, then one day, we decided to carry it into person. Big fucking mistake. He was obnoxious as hell and his personality sucked. i did not stick around long enough for him to let me down sexually. i would not have fucked him with my worst enemys pussy.

I met up with a woman about 10 years ago. Great sex! (Well at least from my standpoint anyway). I stopped seeing her, because It finally sank in that I was having sex with a woman who had sons a few years younger than me. I was 25 she was 42.

I've had some hot times hooking up for no strings action from online. Just be careful.

Met some cool people online and met a couple. Some don't stick around for awhile. Just looking to get off real quick and thats all.
Always meet in a public place. You can always run like hell if they turn out to be weird.

Hahahaha.. so true, Electroboy909.

I almost always chicken out. But once I placed a personal ad and got 2 replies, and the 2 guys came over separately. The first guy was even more nervous than me and couldn't get hard, he didn't stay long. That was disappointing, I really wanted to get him off. The 2nd guy was better, we jacked and sucked each other to orgasm, but he was looking for a 'boyfriend', I was just looking for a cock to service, so we didn't meet again.

I've thought about it, but haven't mustered the courage yet. I'm afraid of three things:

1. The person could mug me, rape me, kill me or God only knows.

2. The person could be nothing like the description (could be older, gayer, or whatever).

3. I might feel really good going into it and feel horribly weird afterwards.

I think these are the fears that everyone has. Am I wrong?

you're not wrong.

OMG Anna,....does Ben know about any of this? He probably reads these posts!

Actually, I would never be able to get past the personal security issues.

I more or less assume that anyone I would actually meet from online is likely to be a serial axe murderer.

Or that anyone I would actually meet from online would have every sexually transmitted disease known to man including some that can be transmitted by non-contact mutual masturbation.

Or that my online contact would be Stone Phillips with his camera crew from "Dateline NBC" doing an in depth report about online masturbation.

Or that my online contact would be.......(well, you get the idea.)

There are risks, but aren't there risks associated with meeting someone - anyone - in a cafe, bar, at work, wherever also? It just adds to the adventure of living, but do be careful. I've found that most of the people with whom I've met following online meetings are no weirder than I am. Of course that can be pretty weird! LOL! But you know what I mean. I find most of them are at least as nervous as I am at first, particularly when they're letting me into their homes and it's the first time meeting (something I would not advise anyone to do - and yes, I dispense decent advice, just dont follow it.)

Yes- 11 times- always fun , some really good- Once met a "friend" Oops- a little awkward but now we play on regualr basis and since he is married it was very discrete for a year then we shared his wife, fun 3 some.....
Meet them about every 9-10 weeks and with him every other week when she travels....