I've met a few girls in person from online. Some pretty hot experiences!

Thanks for all the feed back, You all think like I do, what if what if what if. All boils down to how much I want to get together and jerk with a guy I guess. Stand by for the latest update....

Why think that the other person will be weird or dangerous? Its always smart to be alert and cautious when entering an unknown situation. But paranoia can cause one to misinterpret the true circumstance. I generally figure (and hope) that if i'm there, then someone like me could also be there, whatever the situation, be it sexual, social, business, whatever.

It is sensible to first meet in a public area. But i'm sure some of the world's worst serial killers, seeming very normal, met their victims in public. It might be a good idea to leave contact information where it can be found in the event that you disappear. and to let the person you're meeting know that you always take that precaution.

The prospect of meeting with a serial killer just enhances the excitement.

I have a similar anxiety. It's a big fantasy of mine to meet up with someone online and have a sexual encounter. I've read a couple of postings on places like craigslist that appealed to me (one older guy wanted to find a guy and just watch him get naked and jerk off while talking dirty, and just the suggestion of it gave me a hard-on).

Other postings appear to be normal guys looking for other guys to have no strings attached fun with. But every once in a while you see those really creepy postings from people who say things like, "I'll be waiting in my bedroom with ball bearings up my ass. Sneak through my window, rape me, and leave." (I just made that up, but I've read stranger.)

The question: What if the supposedly normal guy you're hooking up with is one of those kinky crazies? Meeting in a public place is a smart move, making sure someone knows where you are is a smart move, but I don't know anyone who I'm comfortable enough to tell, "I'm meeting up with someone for an anonymous sex hookup. I'll call you in a couple of hours if I haven't been murdered."

I suppose the ideal encounter, if you're interested enough to put in the time, would be to get to know someone online for a week, maybe more, so you have some idea of the person you're getting involved with. That way when you meet up, you're not exactly friends, but familiar enough to be reasonably certain the other isn't a serial killer.

I have met a guy over coffe that i had chatted to for a while. he had promsied to be discrete and we had a good chat and will met again. Taking it carefully.

Okay, so it's not a specific number like 11 or something. :-) But I've had a few experiences and all relatively different. Have I "slowed my roll" - um, yea. You could even say I've increased my standards (like requiring Identification and at least 3 photographs).
>Pete lived about 2 hours away and was in town. I agreed to meet this man after talking for about 6 months or more. We had talked on the phone too. I was young umm...19...and when we finally met at a local fast food place - i learned he was well into his 60s, huge head, and solid white hair. I freaked, especially after he walked me to his car and handed me porn! (my first clue i needed to ask more questions, like age, etc)
>My first j/o bud came from JackinChat. He lived an hour away we did the coffee thing first, we clicked and well, the next..ooohh 4 meetings got better and better. (mmmm what luck - thank you jackinchat!)
>I was horny one night and randomly hooked up with this guy that, come to find out, lived all but 3 blocks away. I drove over to his place and when he opened the door I discovered at +300lb, short black man watchin porn. I had blue balls by that time and tried to wiggle my way out after realizing what I was in. I tried and it hurt, so he nuts on me and i take off out the house. Vomiting on the way home. (again, ask questions, get pictures - hence the standards)
>Met through a yahoo group, this..what I thought was a really tanned stud, arrived at my house one night after a summer of talking. He walks in and well.. tanned = black. He was soo hott. I pulled his pants down and sucked him dry in the doorway. Mmmmm - We dated for 7 months.
>Mikey, this stud from campus was much like our original poster - curious and willing to try. I offered and well, as i signalled him to enter my driveway, he pulled in...then immediately pulled out, screeched tires and all. He at least had the courtesy to call and apologize for chickening out. (if you do this ANYONE, please have the courtesy to do the same)
>Craigslist j/o bud who's house i went to was a lil gayer than i had intended but had a nice bod and cock. It was all good jerkin and shit, until he tried to hump....fuck me...without lube. ouch. tsk tsk tsk (anal sex = lube)

Damn. I'm done. Hope that uh, totaly clouds things! haha Happy jerkin and jillin

never met a guy but met girls, quite a few an have shagged most tho now older not somethin i am proud of or do much of. I never went out to meet for sex jus went that way.

as for meetin with a guy i chat to one on another chat an it is hot but never meet. I am straight and it not somethin im really that interested in doin, rather meet a girl online.

Kinda like Tabasco, I've done this a few times. Always chat for a while, exchange pics, ask the questions you need to ask before you're in person and potentially doing "stuff".

The worst experience I had was when I chatted with a guy online for a while, and he just wanted to meet up and stroke to some porn, sent me a pic of his body, and everything looked fine. I get to his house, the guy has deformed hands and feet, and may or may not have had some sort of mental disability. I didn't know how to talk my way out of it, so I jerked off and excused myself quickly.

Overall, as long as you talk to people long enough that there's some trust involved, and meet them in a safe place, it can be pretty good.

Everyone should be very careful; however, the thrill is half of the pleasure.

I did, lets say it wasn't that fun

Met a few guys on line, after a while met them in public
and we talked and see if we still wanted to get together.
Talked about what I was looking for and what he was
looking for, if we both wanted the same thing we set up a
get together. My wife is cool with me being bi, and most of
the guys the wives don't know so they come to my place. (she
does not join in btw) We watch a porn and chat and get
relaxed, then take our pants off and start stroking while
watching the porn. Then we do each other and after a while
we take turns giving each other head. I love jerking off
and sucking so I been lucky, can't remember a bad experience
yet. Every guy I met has been nice and we both leave
enjoying the experience.
As someone else said just take your time and be careful.

Had two similar situation as you. I chatted with each of the guys on line, then we met at a fast food location and decided to get together later that day. One guy (2004) was a former cop and with him I rented a hotel room and he came by. That was a hot jerking session that I still jerk off thinking about. The other experience (2005) was one wherein I went to the guy's apartment. That experience wasn't as hot and the guy's dog chewed up my sandals. It's been over a year since I've made a connection. Not sure if/when I would do it again. Oh, I was chatting with a third dude, but my instincts alerted me to avoid him. He hounded me for a while trying to get me to invite him to my house. His agressive behavior was a turn off.

What I'd recommend is not to rush it. Build a relationship of sorts before working ur self up to meeting. Chat...call and chat on the phone and then meet.

Try somewhere public for the initial meeting, coffee house, mall, bar...Public places makes it easier to backout if you want to. Also, if you are very scared, be honest and tell the person that you are not sure and would meet for coffee first and if u are still in the mood u would move from there.

We would all be nervous about meeting an axe murderer but as someone earlier said the risk is the exactly the same meeting someone at a bar/party and taking them home...which thousands do people do everyday by the way...

The thing is to be safe and have a good time. It would be good if everyone was honest, but we don't live in such a world. Don't do anthing that you are uncomfortable doing and don't be pressured into doing anything u don't want to.In all that you do, it's important to take precautions and be safe.

Happy jerking

There's usually something suspicious about anyone who hounds you for it. I try to avoid these kinds of people for sure.

I've had a few experiences meeting guys and some of them have been lots of fun. In fact one guy ended up living in MY building! We see each other lots just cause it's so conveinent and we've known each other a while now.