I'm amazed (and envious) when I read posts from guys on here who say they sometimes just continue fucking (or stroking their boner) after they cum.

So about how long (on the average) do you retain the rigidity and size of your hardon after you shoot your load?

When I shoot, I really deflate fast. I'm seriously floppy and one-half my full hardon size within 15 to 30 seconds. And well within a minute, I've got my total softie back.

I don't stay quite as firm, but I do stay hard for up to 4-5 mins afterwards sometimes. Not much longer than that though--even if I try occasionally.

Kent, haven't you ever heard that you shouldn't believe everything that you read?

Oh yea JS? Why I thought that you could believe every single word you read on the internet.

I did read the other day about a guy who just continues fucking his wife after he cums....just continues stroking in her pussy.....until he shoots another load into her. I'd love to be able to do that with my girlfriend....LOL.

I would get soft too until I started taking cialis for daily use. Now after I cum I can keep fucking my wife as long as she wants afterward.

I enjoy stroking for about a minute after I cum, but it does get softer (still as large, however)
When I was young, it stayed quite hard (enough for penetration) for several minutes after cumming and could be quickly brought back to nearly full "strength" with some appropriate attention.
My question to men of all ages is: "How long after the first shot do you keep stroking? and at what pace?"

Depends, sometimes I lose it quickly, other times it lasts a bit. If I do lose it though I can be hard again pretty so and start jacking again.

For those that think men can only cum once a sitting, and only last a few minutes, I got news for you, it's attitude.

My mother was a very strict and abusive woman. She refused to let my Dad teach me or my brothers about sex. The subject was forbiden in her house. I was told by her that I would go to Hell just for thinking about it. I was not allowed to date, or go near a girl during high school. I did not know what a woman's body really looked like. Getting an erection and letting her know it got me a sever beating. I was totally uninformed, and nieve, about sex when I finally was able to get out of her house. I joined the Air Force in 1968, but let her think I was being drafted.

I was in my early 20s when I fucked my first woman, my bosses 31yr old wife. When I cum after the first few seconds, she started yelling "Don't stop, don't stop".I was so excited, I stayed hard, and kept pumping like she wanted. That first time we fucked for over 45 minutes and I shot three loads. I thought that was normal, she was a very exciting woman. I fucked this woman everyday for the next two years, never for less than an hour, with three loads shot into her. She refused to turn me loose till after my third climax. Again I thought this was normal. She often loaned me out to her friends, with instructions to get at least two loads from me. Again I thought that was normal. I had never had any other kind of experience.

After I was reassigned and left that gorgeous blond behind, I met other women to fuck. I soon learned they were not expecting me to shoot more than one load, and to only last for a few minutes. They seemed to be in shock when I never stopped pounding them in less than 30 minutes. And the fact I stayed hard as long as they were naked, or we were in bed. Even after we finisheed fucking. To me it seemed normal, she was naked, I should be hard.

Years later when my wife and I started swinging, I learned that most men only shot one load, and was usually finished after five to ten minutes. Once they shot they went soft. We decided to go to a party, that turned out to be an orgy. Many of the men got upset with me after I had fucked every woman there, one right after another. Many of the women told me their husbands could only fuck one or two during the course of the night. Talk about my ego going through the roof. After all those years finding out what I thought was normal, was not. And I was really impressing a lot of woman. Needless to say we were not invited to the next party. But I got to fuck many of those women when they came to my place looking for a hard member.

Today when I go back to Tennessee to visit my folks I fuck two of my sister-in-laws regulerly. They tell me I am nothing like my younger brothers. My brothers will want sex maybe once a month, and after three to five minutes if they don't climax they loose interest and quite. Both use Viagra. I often visit both on the same night, and try to visit every chance I get while there. I'm 62 and have never needed anything more than a woman for a stimulious, and if given the oppertunity will still fuck three women a day. When i go to spend the winter with my girlfriend in Florida each year, we go to a swingers club every two weeks. I'l load one or two mouths with a load of cum. Then fuck two to three women during the night.

OK, so now what makes me differant than the so-called normal man? Maybe it has something to do with genes, but I personally think it is attitude. When I get to the swingers party, I am so excited I am trembling every night as we arrive. I can't wait to get my clothes off and display my erection, to get the women's attention. I want them to want that hard thing. Someguys say I am perveted, others say I am a sex addict. I don't think so, I have never forced anyone to have sex, or had sex with anyone man or woman, under the age of 19. I just enjoy sex, and want it almost all the time.

Hell, Kent, when I was your age, I'd do that a half-dozen times a night.

At my age, over 60,I deflate within a couple of minutes after shooting. When I was in my 20's i could cum in the girl and keep on fucking her til i shot another load, but havn't don that in many years. It was a terrific turn on to do that though.

Well JS, now I KNOW that I should be careful about believing everything that I read on the internet.

I usually go soft fairly quickly after cumming, but every so often it will stay hard for a few minutes afterward. And a few of those times, I went for round 2 with her!

Interesting responses guys! I'd read that young dudes (often young teenagers) can sometimes stay rock hard after an orgasm. It would be cool to stay hard like that while I get another load ready to shoot. Or even be able to stay plugged into my girlfriend and continue stroking until I could shoot her again. But for me it's always instant softie.....like a deflating balloon as soon as the squirting is over.

OMG! If I was this flasher and lost my boner that fast after showing it, I would be totally embarrassed.



And I agree with roggieh, that it is all about attitude and what you expect. I know that many times I have fucked my wife and after cumming, if I keep fucking, I will blow another load about 15 to twenty minutes later and if I keep fucking after that I will often shoot another load about 30 minutes later.

You know as soon as I cum I'm done so I never really thought about it. I mean as soon I ejaculate I clean up, get dressed and go about my day or fall asleep. I think you're on to something. Next time I cum I'll just keep jacking off til I'm flaccid again just to see how long it takes. This post gave me something to strive for during my next jack off session