when my penis is flaccid, its embarrassingly small. like 3-4" inches but when it's hard its a nice meaty (almost) 7". my wife says one of her favorite things is to watch my cock stiffen in her hands because its like a balloon inflating. i told her one of my favorite things is to feel it stiffen in her mouth...because its like inflating a balloon. so ya i'm defiantly a grower.

I'm also a grower, my girl loves sucking it after i've cum in her, till it's small again.

if cold im only 2", but erect 7". WIfe says shes still sore after our wednesday session!

After a hot fuck or masturbation session, my seven inch hardon shrinks to a little less than 2 inches. I love it when my girlfrind continues to suck and lick my little softie after a blow job.

So a super grower. Inflates and deflates like a 7 inch balloon.

I'm both. As a shower, my cock is around 5 inches soft, and as a grower, my cock is 7.5 inches hard.

Definite grower. About 4" soft (on a nice warm day) 7" hard.

I'd have to say that I'm a grower. My cock is about 3 1/2" soft and when fully erect I'm about 7 1/2".

Grower, about 3" soft and 6.5" hard.

Definitely a grower. Short little softie that grows to a nice 7".

Guys should always rate themselves according to their own standards. But anybody have ideas about objective standards about "shower and "grower"?

Seems to me that a shower's softie should be 4 inches long or more. And a "growers" softie should at least double in length when it erects.

So you could be both, for example, if you have a 4 inch softie that grows to 8 inches when it gets hard.

I've always called mine a super grower, since it's barely 2 inches long when it's soft, and it more than triples to 7 inches when aroused.

I'd say that 'at least doubles=grower' is a decent benchmark and certainly makes me a grower.

3.5" to 4" soft and 7" hard.

Maybe a combination of shower and grower?

same here, small when soft but just over 7" when hard.

Definitely a shower. I have six inches when soft. But only slightly over eight inches when hard.

When I get a hardon, it elevates to almost vertical and gets rock hard, but it doesn't get much bigger.

Grower here...