Any tips on how to desensitize your cock before sex to last longer? Want to make the most of it but when it feels too good it goes too fast.

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But wouldn't using a topical cream on your cock also 'desensitize' your lady's genitals?

Topicals work great inside condoms and you get the effect, not her. All topicals aren't the same. Some hit hard and fast and others come on slow but give a deeper numb. Great for extended edging sessions as well. Once the effect starts to hit it can be a race to cum. As sensation fades I get more aggressive to maintain a level of sensation. There is a window beyond which cumming isn't possible. Benzocaine and lidocaine will both do it but the onset is different. It makes for fun play, not just for PE. Awesome with condoms. Lots of ways to vary the onset and the effect.

I tried a cream many years ago out of curiosity and it was very wierd feeling the more sensitive parts of my cock going sort of numb. Like whats the point if the pleasurable sensations leading up to orgasm are deminished. I remember trying to wash the stuff off and I tossed the stuff in the garbage. I just learned to take things slowly.

ELA Max cream is lidocaine topical. Ask at the pharmacy counter. It will make you pretty numb for an hour or so. Great fun! I'd guess that once the cream is absorbed into your formerly sensitive tissue your partner would not be effected.

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So you wear a rubber with the cream

Try wearing a heavier gauge condom. Also, the more you use your cock, the longer lasting you will become. Relax and enjoy.

In all seriousness, how often do you have sex?

I've used densensitizing lube inside a condom when I fuck. If I rub it into my cock and put on the condom as soon as I have a hardon, I can usually start intercourse when I feel it numbing down. This does allow me to go longer.

But these days I mostly play around with desensitizing it for masturbation, especially for prolonged edging. I like to rub in a lot of desensatizing lube (much more than recommended) and then put a condom over it. In a half hour or more, it's almost totally numb. But some hot porn with some vibrator action keeps me hard. And squirting with a numb cock feels strange and exciting.

All the brand name densensitizing lubes I've seen are 7.5% Benzocaine, and are slow to act. If I'm dripping a lot of precum, this sometimes dilutes the numbing action on my cockhead. Anyone have experience with higher strength compounds of Benzocaine or Lidocaine? Which have the fastest effect, and which cause a deeper and longer lasting numbing action?

This may make some sense for young guys who have a problem with premature ejaculation. But for most men this seems unnecessary.

I remember buying a desensitizing cream at a restroom vending machine while buying rubbers when I was about 15. It felt weird. My cock went numb, but I was able to jack a lot longer and that is always good.

Still I would not recommend it. Your results may vary.

This is a lot stronger than the standard desensitizing lubes for men. Does it make it totally numb? I wonder if porn, or a woman's tits and bare pussy, will give you a hardon if it's numb? Might be kinky.

i know its not the same topic at all, but have anyone ever tried a TENS unit on their cock? i've read things about and i'm curious to know if its good. because it has the potential to be horrible

but anyway as for the topic, the more frequently you have sex, the longer you can last. simple solution - jerk off right before you meet your lady.