Send hints on facebook, porn links on email, and mention beating it in person with my friend. No more secrets, let's see what happens...

What friend?

i'm open with friends. guys only but if i'm online and they chat i'll say, sorry mate i'm wanking wanna chat later?
or i'll tell them when i last wanked, i'll be as open as the other guy lets me
but not quite at the level of talking it to strangers tho (unless her anonymously)

no one knows i wank every day, that is what makes it so exciting

Buds & roommates know i'm a chronic masturbator. Buds call or come over, i'll be naked in front of computer beating off. It's not a secret and i'm very open about it.

Women now have more choices -- and I'd say "choosing" to masturbate (not a choice for most guys -- we have to) and "choosing" to declare it and get the praise are two of those choices.

They mostly don't have the issues we have about being "too close" to someone else in a public restroom. Heck, they even ask another women to go with them.

But i still have questions as to whether women who really carry the weight of family -- like single moms or women with disabled or non-functioning husbands -- and stand to lose a lot if they alienate co-workers or social support networks -- really are as flip or open about publicly declaring "I masturbate." That seems like a sort of recreational statement by women who have the freedom to "define themselves" and don't have anything serious to lose by saying so.

I have discussed masturbation with a few friends in person.

Nothing to the in depth extent that I have with online buds though. haha

I admit it to close friends and has led to closer male bonding. Its always great to share with a friend. I have a few buddies that drop their cloths off once inside my home. Movies, dinner and some stroking is the norm sometimes. I like that my friends are very comfortable around me.

I've only admitted it to one friend. Largely because my masturbation involves phone or cam about taboo subjects.

Of course my wife knows and so does her sister. And previous girlfriends.

I find that all my buddies will admit they masturbate, but most are uptight about it or feel uncomfortable with the topic. I'm not sure why. Someone had mentioned on here that talking about it is a form of male bonding, and it really is. It's what guys ALL do. I've met very few guys who don't do it for one reason or another.

So why not chat about it? Maybe most guys just aren't as obsessed as I am. Who knows?

Actually a lot of the guys at work, myself included, openly talk about masturbating. It's nothing to be ashamed of. We actually clown on the guys who try to say they don't do it.