I read the posts about married guys jerking off. I know i'll never stop like the rest, but how do you guys find time to sit at the computer, uninterrupted, and continue the same habits. I'm not married yet, but it is the plan. Right now i like a good hour jerk off, usually on cam. I dont see how i can continue to pull that off once im living with GF/wife, and how can you guys sit at the computer on jackinchat or wherever and not have her find out?
I know its long just been thinking bout it recently. LOL
Thanks

I'm lucky in that I work a second shift job and have all morning to myself. I usually spend about 2 hours each morning masturbating.

During the summer, I have to spend my jerf-off time in the bathroom "soaking my legs" in the tub.

That's the problem. Not enough private time. So you learn to sneak jack sessions. I mostly do it in the shower first thing in the morning. On the extremely rare chance that the whole family is out of the house, I'll enjoy a nice long edging session. I'll also jack on the way to work during my long commute. I also had a jackin bud who wasn't married yet and I'd go to his house during the day and rub one out. But basically, you give up the long daily edging sessions!!

Talking to married friends, the consensus seems to be that when you get married, those long masturbation sessions (at the computer....watching videos...etc) are a thing of the past. Unless you can schedule a time when the wife is not at home, you will be limited to quickies in the bathroom......while showering seems to be popular. An old thread on here was revealing. One post after another seemed to describe wives as accepting only occasional, unobtrusive masturbation by their husbands. And almost everyone who posted said that their wives did not know about Jackinchat.

It can be worse. I know a married graduate student here who told me that his wife considers masturbation to be sexual infidelity.....and a violation of their marriage vows. So he no longer masturbates at all (he says).

I'm a retired Disabled Veteran and am at home alone all day. My wife knows full well that I get on-line and chat, watch porn, and jack off. Sometimes she joins me and we have a great time watching porn & each other masturbate! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones.

With my first wife we used to watch porn together as well but I also got up an hour earlier than necessary to get in an extra hour of some solo strokin'. She worked on Saturdays quite often and I would sometimes literally spend the whole day watching porn and strokin, edging all day. When she got home I would blow a huge load on her face & tits! They say you just remember the good times..lol!

Not to get political here, but THANK YOU for what you did and gave up to help keep my freedom.

I don't see the point in a relationship where I have to hide things from my partner. It's not a "deal-breaker" for me, but I would be really suspicious of a partner who felt insecure about me masturbating. I really would like one who was okay with it, or hopefully aroused by it. (I know *I* would like to watch my partner frig herself to a delicious all-body orgasm, yummmmm.)

And if she's okay with it, I'm guessing she doesn't mind if I indulge in an hour-long edging session, if that's what gives me pleasure.

PS If she insists that I can only jerk off while she watches, then I am eager and willing to comply. Oh my.

I'm like most of you - sneak in a quick one when I can, usually in the shower. Occasionally I'll get up a bit early in the morning and sit at the computer and have a quick stroke with some porn. I have an unmarried buddy that I get together with every couple of months and we'll have a good long edge session.

To be honest though, I kinda prefer it this way. For some reason, I want to keep masturbating to myself - I'd rather my wife not know about it. It's something I don't really want to share - not out of embarrassment but becuase I just like having it for myself...if that makes any sense.

Don't sneak. Be honest with your spouse - guys jerk off. Period. My husband can jerk off as much as he wants, I don't care. I actually caught him last night and he asked me to stroke him and I was HAPPY to do it!

Oh yea dude....I know what you mean. Having my gf watch me while I masturbate is a fantastic turnon and always produces a mind blowing orgasm!!!! Then it's her turn, while I watch....mmmmmm.

I have been married for 39 years. My wife and I have a very good sex life but I have always enjoyed masturbation. I started to use the chat rooms a few years ago to chat and jack with guys who enjoy the same. My wife knows I do it and dosen't mind. She has a very hard time climaxing when she tries to do it herself so I usualy do it for her. I found out about the middle of our married life that she didn't mind that I did it without her sometimes, but I was surprised to find out she would enjoy watching me and helping me. Now masturbation has become a big part of our sex life. we do each other often and we both really enjoy it. I think you might be surprised if you talked with your wife/gf about it to find she is just as intrested in it as you are.

I usually have a long wanking session if I have a day off and my wife is at work or if she goes out. Otherwise it's a fairly speedy session while she's in the shower in the morning or while I'm in the shower depending on who's in there first.

I wish my wife was as understanding as you Anna. I'd love to tell her how much I wank but she doesn't approve of solo masturbation so I don't tell her.

I'm sorry to hear that because, first off, I think Anna's opinions on masturbation are well-informed ones. (Thank you, Anna!!) Masturbation is so incredibly normal for guys that I think I might be more concerned about a man who didn't, or didn't at least want to. I happen to be in a committed relationship with another man; but I don't think that the concept is really any different. It just so happens that both of us masturbate solo; I don't see it as any threat to our partnership; and, truthfully, I find it kind of erotic knowing that my partner does do it. Please don't think I'm saying this to mean any disrespect at all to your wife, 'cause I'm not. If she feels better if the subject isn't brought up, then clearly that's the way you have to handle it.

i jo 1-2 times everyday for at least an hour each session (usually 2 hours), wife knows about it, accepts it. she sees me jackin at the computer to pix and clips, using my jo sleeve. no big deal.