I'm a str8/cur, married, late 20s guy who is sort of addicted to porn and loves to masturbate. In the past, I've had a few really cool buds who I'd watch porn and JO with, but never anything long term. In an ideal world, I'd have a long term bud who I'd chat with, JO with, and maybe even hang out from time to time with.

So here is my dilemma. Other than craigs, I'm not very sure where to find a bud like this. I'm not 'from' the city where I live, so I have no childhood buds, and most people I know I also work with.

The thing is, today I realized that whenever I post on craigs the post that I write is exactly the post that I would want to respond to. After doing this for years and not having any real luck, I wonder whether I'm just going about the whole posting thing all wrong. So I have a couple of questions for y'all out there:

What posting strategies have worked for you?

If you, like me, are married/str8 but want to have a good porn/JO bud, who are they? That is, who should I be looking for?

Is there somewhere else (other than craigs and jackinchat) that I should be looking? Have you had any luck, for example, at xxx shops, public pools, the mall, some other web site, etc.?

Help, please! Would really like to find a bud soon

I never have jacked with any buds in person, just online or phone, and I've pretty much met off of them in JC or some other chat room or something.

I love chattin and jackin with buds. Never had tried CL, but thought I'd give it a whirl and see how it went just yesterday actually. I posted on there just looking for some bate buds to chat online and stuff. Have had several responses.

I tried to kinda make it pretty clear what I like and am looking for, and I've had some responses from some pretty cool guys. Some that didn't amount to anything, others that I've chatted with today and had a pretty good time, decent convos. And a few that were just totally not even responding with anything like I stated in the ad....lol

I'd say just try to be clear the kind of thing that you're lookin' for and see how it goes. *shrug*

Craigslist responses vary depending on where you are. I'm in sydney and they're shit here, but I've heard good things about other places.

ive tried on cl a few times for a jo bud and a strapon chick but no serious prospects

I've had great fun on CL. If you know what you want (I love panty cock) you can find it, be patient and be clear in the wording of your ad. I travel and have had some incredible blowjobs whereever I went thanks to CL.

I'd like to hear from others and their advice/experience with Craigs List. I too have posted on CL before and have tried to be very clear about what I want (a jack bud, nothing more) but all the replies I get are ready to suck and f*ck! Havent had any luck finding another married or single curious bud who just wants to stroke together.

I am with you on that Steve. Several times I have tried contacting someone, only to have them go weird on me. I now do not even try and just go ahead and jack off in my hotel rooms alone.

Yeah, the hotels are full of lonely spunk, huh? Why can't I find any of you guys locally??

I was in Norcross about a month ago, but I had not seen your messages before that. I'll be sure to let you know if I make it back to the area.

Andy, sent you a PM. Let's chat!

Good luck man.. married here.. great sex life but still love to jack.. Was lucky and had several jack buds all thru school. None in person since I was 19. Really miss those days. Would love to find a cool jack bud again. Someone to hang out with, watch the ballgame.. then some porn and help each other out every now and then... Good times!

Know how you feel dude.
I've tried to post and respond to dozens on Craigslist (UK) and most haven't actually got the balls to meet.

Sick of email tennis with people who can't even compose a sentence.

Some people just need to drink a can of 'man the fuck up' and act on their desires.

Join www.manhunt.net they are great for world wide male contacts. You can im a guy see his profile and hook up. Also go to a couple of gay bars - you might be lucky and find someone with the same intent as you. good luck.

I do not even like selling/buying merchandise on craigslist.. nevertheless try to meet a jack bud

I know what you mean I listed a chair on craigslist once and got ancy about some of the people who emailed me