When I was a teenager,I thought I would not need to JO once I got married. That lasted for about 5 years. I can't recall jerking off during that period. I started keeping stats after that and I started to masturbate It started with about once a month then increased to about once a week after we were married 10 years. I was still having sex with my wife more than that. It wasn't until we were married 25 years that I started to jerk off more times than I had sex with my wife.(74 vs 61) The largest difference was in 2003 when it was 157 vs 35 ( I was home alot that year) Last year it was 72 vs 48. What about you? Has your masturbating increased after a few years of being married?

it has steadily goe up as well

Sex vs Masturbation during this marriage has been about even,the fact that she's cool with it probably has alot to do with it.

Very interesting that you keep stats. I'm not currently keeping marriage stats, but by the time I was 13, I was keeping masturbation stats. I kept stats through my early marriage.

I've certainly masturbated more as time has passed. I continued to masturbate from the first of my marriage. By the time we were in our 40's I was certainly masturbating more than we were fucking. We still fuck some, and I masturbate as much as I did in my 40's.

As much as we've had sex (at least 3 or 4 a week at the start), I've always masturbated more than we've fucked. She knew that I would continue to masturbate after we were married, and is OK with it.

With my first wife there was more Jo than sex, with second wife it is about even. However in her defense I get off work early on Friday and she likes it when I call her and jo while on the phone with her at work.

I masturbate about twice as much as I have sex with my wife. It was good to find this site and discover that it's not unusual to masturbate as much as I do, even though I'm married.

Life has been one long jo journey ever since i fi8rst masturbated at around age eight or so. With me using the hands off rubbing on the bed method for most of my life from early teen onwards, sleeping and masturbating have been synonymous.
I was relieved when i saw my wife masturbate one afternoon early on in our marriage when we really were hardly out of each others arms, fucking and fore playing. On a few occasions she did a very efficient handjob on me when it was her menstrual time.
My wife had a longstanding lesbian affair with her own sis and often would wank off to her, especially on lazy holiday afternoons. one afternoon i asked her and she did confirm it was her elder sis she was wanking to. I was sure anyway because i had seen her furtively finger her skirt through the nightie which she usually wears at home.
A few years later she had an affair with one of her colleagues, who often brazenly called her up at home. She would rush to the phone and settle herself comfortably and finger her cunt through her nightie all through the long lovey dovey conversations she had with her boyfriend.
When it was over she would nonchalantly go to bed and start masturbating under the blankets. When asked about it she first told me it was her sis she was wanking to and when i persisted she told me it was her lover she was wanking to these days.
It was a tremendous cock-stander and i would wank off to the thought of my own wife and her lover. However, she does not know this. She and her lover broke off and she still remains my faithful wife and my sis-in-laws submissive lesbian mistress. I've never wanked to the thought of her getting it off with her sis but even today she and her once upon a time lover are a great turn on for me to jack off. I imagine the lovers in all sorts of situations and go and getoff really hard. The only other jackoff inspiration i use is of the times i would get off with my own sister, and only once, my mother, whom i've fucked thrice.

Baburao

Prolific shagger

Its feels good and well you don't have to convince her

All I do is masturbate: my wife has zero libido and has never once even touched my cock in all the time I have been with her. She "let" me fuck and suck her for a few months until after we married, then refused all advances until i gave up trying. I now spend a lot of time trying to be alone with my computer so I can cream off C2C with a horny guy--bi, gay or str8--or a girl, but they are rare to find online and camming.

My habits have stayed pretty steady, with the exception that my wife watches me from time to time and I watch her. We married fairly late in life and neither of saw a need to masturbate any less frequently than we were. Now we just add sex on top of it. Guess I'm pretty lucky.

I masturbate almost everyday and get fucked about once every six months, unfortunately.

Masturbation gradually goes up until it well exceeds intercourse in my experience.

My wife just isn't into it much anymore. It's not my choice, but it's the way it is. I haven't given up on sex with her, but 99% of my sex life is now masturbating, but I've been beating off a minimum of 300 times a year for 40 years. But now I spend a LOT more time on it since I've gotten so good at it. I still love my wife, and man, do I love my dick. Learning to edge has really helped me get past the lack of fucking.

I had a similar experience, in that I rarely masturbated once I was married, but the longer I was married, the less frequently we had sex and the more frequently I masturbated. Until I got divorced and then it was masturbation all the way.
I haven't remarried, but I have a long term gf, but we don't live together. We're both open with each other about sex and masturbation; and we both masturbate about twice as often as we have sex. But I have to say that both are important in a well balanced sex-life, and I love both equally.