In the heat of the moment, my wife has whispered "suck my cock" as in referring that she wants me to suck hers....I have asked her what she means and she clams up.....on another occasion,I asked her to show me her "cock" and nothing.....I suspect she may have a fantasy of strap-on (perhaps wishful on my end) but I wonder how many woman (or men who's wife) have asked/wanted this

The next time she says that say, "Honey....if you had one, I would."
Maybe then she'll tell you what she means.

I asked her to show me her cock.....but again, she went silent

Maddening, isn't it?

There is something she wants bad enough to ask for it when she is wound up, but she has some shame about it after. You HAVE to find out what that is.

Get her back to that hyper-excited state and pursue the matter.

Is this something your wife has asked? have you/would you try?

Tell her that your cock is hers, but that you can't bend that far to suck it yourself, and perhaps would she like to suck it herself?

not sure that is what she is thinking when she say it.....I am thinking she either fantasizes about have a cock or wants to have me suck one even as a fantasy

some women think about having their clit sucked like a cock... try that and see.

Yeah.....I have done that as well as to her nipples and that might where she is at.....makes me fantasize about prospects of strap-on however - any woman out there care to comment?

If she's going silent, yes, probably a fantasy of some sorts she's scared to tell you.

Take a shot in the dark and surprise her. Buy her a strap on and don't stop smiling when you give it to her. You said her having a strap on was wishful thinking on your end, so tell her what you want, and if what you think she really wants is true, I'm willing to bet she tell you right then and there and won't stop grinning.

Then think of the fun you'll have.

I don't disagree with your thought - just trying to get her to open up....Perhaps she will bring it up with our rabbit and I will try it on her

Maybe its her first time 'Talking Dirty', and finding she likes it, maybe unsure of how you would react maybe...

You could ask her what she means, maybe purchase sex toys for both of you, and exploring them in your love making/sex adventures, who knows where it could lead you??.

Col.

thats funny i always ask my gf to suck my clit lol

My, what a big clit you have....

I'm guessing it's her attempt at talking dirty. Step up the dirty talk and see what she adds.