It happened the other night. Wife and I were messing around, I was hard as usual. We start doing the deed and I feel my erection softening. I roll off and asked her to blow me hoping it would help. It worked a little, not as hard as normal. I get back to missionary and my little buddy starts going away again. We stop, I feel horrible and wife thinks its her. The next morning, no morning wood. Also, the whole day I notice I haven't had any erections. Normally at least three random hard ons, maybe more. I stopped masturbating and been avoiding wife. Had a big fight and I told her my issues. She says see a doc. It's been a week now, I can count my erections on one hand. Whats your take fellow jackers? Please help. Thanks.

It's ok man! it happens. my wife was a bitch about it too. sometimes we have an off time. now the big joke is how she was a bitch to me when I had problems and now she doesn't wanna have sex and I don't make her feel bad when I could.

Um. Thanks?

I know this is tough man - however, relax and stop worrying too much. We do have "off" times, lil man doesn't always wanna work. It's possible now that your stress and concern and her freaking out about it could actually lead to more issues. She needs to be understanding and helpful - not giving you shit about it, you can do that enough on your own. Go get it - and think about how much you love her and want her....NOT about "oh shit, last time it didn't work" because that could increase the chances that it won't. Our two heads are very connected.... what you think and feel (fear, concern, anxiety - it can play a role in erections) Keep us posted!

sucks to be u lol

I'm sure he's gonna appreciate that reply... guess you've never had problems getting up? Sux man, bad.... one day you'll have to deal with it, happens to all of us.

Do you get hard when watching porn?

Chances are it's just were your heads at But really don't
feel embarrassed an see a doc. It could also be be more
critical issues like clogged arteries. but there are so many
different reason u need to be sure.

It can happen to any man at any age. Can you get hard jacking off? If you are having problems there, go see a doctor. It could be a symptom of something else.
But if you are your normal hard self jackin, don't worry about it unless it really persists.

You suck.

do you smoke cigarette? they can damage the veins of the penis

I agree with most of the comments so far.... of course except for scottfarro. Asshole. Well anyway, don't worry about a little down time. Try not to dwell on it. It doesn't help when your bedmate gives you shit about it. I would continue to do the normal before sex stuff as you would, kiss, hug, lick whatever and I bet you will find yourself up and ready when you are not thinking about it. It happened to me at your age too and the wife at the time was a bitch about it. I hatted her reaction at the time. Hope it all works out.
Ben

Thanks for trusting enough to post this.
When I was having erection problems and I was looking into it, by the time I'd finished with the list of things that could go wrong resulting in soft, or no, erections...I was amazed that it EVER works!
Blood pressure, alchohol, testosterone levels, diet, how much you jack off (desensitizing your cock to less stringent sensations from your wife's body), etc. Mine turned out to be low testosterone "normal" for me, and when it dipped even further, no hardons, exhaustion, even some depression. My body just didn't make enough. It turns out, the old man had the same thing, but never told me.
And as others have said, the emotional WORRY about it will scuttle everything else!
See a urologist. They have "the list" and can help because this happens a lot!
Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

di u still get hard thinking about other women?? i know ive lost erestions being with the same woman over and over.. but yes 28 is awfully young to have this problem.. def u need to see a doc