I masturbate about once every two or three days. That's pretty common among my girlfriends. I think a lot of women just don't talk about it because they think it's wrong or dirty or are embarrassed. There's nothing wrong with self love!

It's also fairly common among men. Not every guy lives with his hand on his cock.

I tried to rub my wife clitoris with my glans penis, but she complains of irritation. Will someone please suggest good solution?

because it makes them feel unwanted

Depends on the woman. I know some that wank more than men and others that dont

If I may ask Grainne why would you feel empty and sad after coming I would have thought the release would be relaxing and pleasant.

We do, when the mood takes us. But we're not always in the mood

I woke up this morning to the sound of my lovely wife gasping in orgasm, and I loved it. It got me revved up, and so I jacked off at her side while she helped me come. I know she masturbates daily, or nearly every day, because she tells me when she does. I don't ask; we just talk about sex a lot.

She could rival the men I know in her frequency, and most of her female friends are just as horny as we are ... they'll discuss the issue with their female friends, but they won't talk about it with men for fear they'll lead us on somehow.

Maybe they do but just don't brag about it like most of us guys do.

That's pretty accurate. If it somehow comes up in conversation between women then I talk about it freely, but rarely with guys... unless i've had a few drinks or it's anonymous like this site.