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I totally agree!
Each to their own i say we are all different and like different stuff.How can you tell someone what to like and what not too like.
AlanAlan said:
Ok, so if a gal in a porn is having sex the way the OP likes, then he is offended with the name calling? Also, why does the OP make the assumtion that the chick in the porn is enjoying the sex act that she is getting paid to perform?? Granted, just because she is getting paid does not therefore mean she isn't enjoying it, but to assume that because she is getting fucked by two guys she must be enjoying it.
Either way, these gals that we all love so much are whores, sluts, sleezes, etc. Don't get me wrong, I love as much as the next guy, but a chick that fucks for money is a whore. Having said that, in the real world there can be different rules for different sides of the bedroom door. Meaning, a lot of women enjoy the "dirty talk" in the bedroom including calling them a whore or a slut or whatever; just fantasy stuff. But don't evey to be stupid enough to violate her trust and confuse the real world rules with the fantasy rules. In short, don't call her a whore and actually every mean it.
Sounds like somebody is taking their porn a little to personal.
Ok, so if a gal in a porn is having sex the way the OP likes, then he is offended with the name calling? Also, why does the OP make the assumtion that the chick in the porn is enjoying the sex act that she is getting paid to perform?? Granted, just because she is getting paid does not therefore mean she isn't enjoying it, but to assume that because she is getting fucked by two guys she must be enjoying it.
Either way, these gals that we all love so much are whores, sluts, sleezes, etc. Don't get me wrong, I love as much as the next guy, but a chick that fucks for money is a whore. Having said that, in the real world there can be different rules for different sides of the bedroom door. Meaning, a lot of women enjoy the "dirty talk" in the bedroom including calling them a whore or a slut or whatever; just fantasy stuff. But don't evey to be stupid enough to violate her trust and confuse the real world rules with the fantasy rules. In short, don't call her a whore and actually every mean it.
Sounds like somebody is taking their porn a little to personal.
Good post the guy sounds like a virgin does he not realise the girls he sees in porn are prostitutes and do it for a job.They are not sex mad nymphs doing it just for the love of sex without pay.When you have sex with a real woman they love to talk dirty and love it back at them.
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It's a sad reality to todays world that I think highlights gender division.
Is it fair to say that we all enjoy sexual pleasure here on the forum? I think so. Are we whores or sluts? Do we want to be labelled such a word with negative connotations? No. Do we accept that we all come here because we enjoy what site brings, and that it's just a fact of life? Yes. So why is it outside of this site women can be labelled a slut or whore in everyday life and society just goes along with it?
For us guys, it's easy to enjoy sex and have a healthy sex life, perhaps with multiple partners and we carry no negative weight from this. I love sex, I feel it's horrible that a woman in the same situation as me can love sex as much or even more but have to feel like she's branded as a slut because of it.
It's really a dated concept. It has no place in today's world. It stems from times where men couldn't be blamed for sleeping with a girl because it was all her fault for seducing him. In a time of apparent equality, this is one area in which equality doesn't exist.
Is it fair to say that we all enjoy sexual pleasure here on the forum? I think so. Are we whores or sluts? Do we want to be labelled such a word with negative connotations? No. Do we accept that we all come here because we enjoy what site brings, and that it's just a fact of life? Yes. So why is it outside of this site women can be labelled a slut or whore in everyday life and society just goes along with it?
For us guys, it's easy to enjoy sex and have a healthy sex life, perhaps with multiple partners and we carry no negative weight from this. I love sex, I feel it's horrible that a woman in the same situation as me can love sex as much or even more but have to feel like she's branded as a slut because of it.
It's really a dated concept. It has no place in today's world. It stems from times where men couldn't be blamed for sleeping with a girl because it was all her fault for seducing him. In a time of apparent equality, this is one area in which equality doesn't exist.
When my girl has her face pressed to the bed, her ass in the air, with my fingers deep in her pussy, she loves to be told she's a slut. In fact, she'll even admit it if the right reward is forthcoming. In the same scenario, I'll tell her that I'm going to fuck her whether she wants it or not.
At any other time, I would never call her (or any other woman) a slut. Nor would I ever say rape is OK.
At any other time, I would never call her (or any other woman) a slut. Nor would I ever say rape is OK.
thumbper384 said:
Aside from the technical whore=hooker=someone who is paid to have sex, I tend to reserve those terms for women who sleep with a bunch of different guys while under the pretense of being in a monogamous relationship. It has less to do with the number of people they're having sex with, and more to do with lies and cheating. If the relationship is an open one and both parties are careful, comfortable, and in agreement, then I really can't fault a girl for enjoying herself. I can only hope I run into her a to a party somewhere.
I was going to offer my opinion on this topic but you said it perfectly. Great response!Aside from the technical whore=hooker=someone who is paid to have sex, I tend to reserve those terms for women who sleep with a bunch of different guys while under the pretense of being in a monogamous relationship. It has less to do with the number of people they're having sex with, and more to do with lies and cheating. If the relationship is an open one and both parties are careful, comfortable, and in agreement, then I really can't fault a girl for enjoying herself. I can only hope I run into her a to a party somewhere.
Everyone needs a hobby.
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in the proper moment and place, I don't mind being called those names. When I'm being unhibited and wild, the names just flow well during sex.
The rest of time, it just doesn't fly.
The rest of time, it just doesn't fly.
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Candydarling said:
in the proper moment and place, I don't mind being called those names. When I'm being unhibited and wild, the names just flow well during sex.
The rest of time, it just doesn't fly.
in the proper moment and place, I don't mind being called those names. When I'm being unhibited and wild, the names just flow well during sex.
The rest of time, it just doesn't fly.
That's pretty much my take on the manner. Porn is porn, and real life is real life.
There are names I call myself and words I say when I'm in the middle of a lubed-up dripping masturbation marathon that I wouldn't say any other time. During the act, it's a turn-on because my inhibitions are down and I want to cut loose and act dirtier than I do, say, at work. I wouldn't WANT to say them any other time, and I'd probably be weirded out by anybody that did.
There's a time and a place for everything. Just how it works.
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Thank you Jon.
Stop being such a whore, and make me a sandwich bitch
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