Hi guys and gals, I'm new here and keen to get the most out of it without my wife finding out. How do you all go about masturbating and chatting to each other without getting caught? My wife doesn't even know I masturbate and I'm a lot more open minded than she is.

My wife knows I jack off and she's sweet with it. She has a good old crack at it too. I wouldn't know how I'd manage if I had to sneak around.

It's such a pity I only discovered this site after I got married. Can't even use chat room because we share a computer

Cant you use the computer when she's out and just cover your tracks (delete history etc)

I'm always worried she'd find some way of getting it back?

It helps to have a wife who is not computer savvy.

Unless she is suspicious, why would she bother even looking.
I'm sure there would be some software that will completely delete your history.
That's all I could suggest or perhaps you get to work on your misses to broaden her mind a little.
Good Luck.

I really don't know what I'd do if my wife wasn't OK with my masturbation and need for porn. I always assume that women know that virtually all men masturbate, and some women just choose not to acknowledge it. But I could be wrong about that. My wife just knows that if I didn't masturbate, she'd have to be flat on her her back with me on top of her twice a day. She wouldn't like that.

I have no idea how effectively simple things like clearing the cache and web browsing history covers up your computer porn tracks.

I use Firefox for my browser instead internet explorer. Firefox has an option for private browsing and doesn't track history,cookies, etc.

My wife doesn't know everything I look at and chat about but she does know that I go online and j/o and I think that is a good thing.

I fessed up to the wife this morning that I have been sent some nude photo's of a blokes wife. (that I met through this site). She was cool with it but didn't want to see them. I'll be taking some photos of her tonight to fulfill this other guys fantasy.
It got me hard telling her.
She already knows I have a huge porn collection and recomends to her friends "If you want porn, Just see my husband"
However, she only knows about my straight porn collection, not the huge collection of shemales I have accumulated.

Its not easy. Like others have mentioned, I do my "secret" browsing on firefox or chrome's incognito setting. I work mostly on the comp and often from home so I can get online often during the weekdays to see porn and/or jerk. But I really wish I could include her more, she suspects I watch porn but we've defaulted to a sort of don't ask don't tell.

I also have a google voice number I use to text or phone with other buds.

My wife is not tolerant of me chatting or posting on forums like this, but she knows I jerk off. In fact, she is usually going about her day while I'm in the bedroom jacking off. She masturbates too (not as often) so she really can't fault me. She loves her vibrators.

If you're somewhat computer saavy, take a look at a program called SandboxIE. It's free and very useful.

http://www.sandboxie.com/

We have reached a stage in our lives where she like me to use my mouth on her and then finger fuck her and then she plays with my balls and nipples while I jack off - We both find it more fun and mutually rewarding for a variety of reasons.