Hello fellow stroker lovers! Just found this forum - awesome! Seems like I am in good company.

Anyways, I guess this question applies to guys in a relationship too, not just married.

I've been marred for over 22 years, and masturbation has been a huge part of our married life. Lots of mutual, lots of watching each other masturbate and just solo masturbating while the other watches. Sometimes we go for weeks just masturbating and not having intercourse. Uh, I mean "making love"

I am just wondering how many of you (in a relationship) masturbate when she is not in your presence. I pretty much do myself in the shower no matter what. And any other opportunity. I guess that our sexual drives are not matching. Not to say we don't enjoy our interludes, it's just that I "need it" a lot more than she does.

There have been occasions where I think wifey is occupied downstairs and I will strip naked and lube up for a quick one. Then she walks into the bedroom. She is totally cool with that, she should be, after all these years she knows my jack off habits. Pretty much. haha. She still doesn't know that I watch porn on the computer and cum like a madman.

Would love to hear from you and even trade pics, movies and wife stories via e-mail. Hit me up!

I just wish my wife of 30 years could understand male masturbation. If she caught me jacking off, she would probably want me to go into counseling while she started filing for divorce. It's strictly taboo at our house.

That said, I am a proud and addicted masturbator who now has regular meetups with sperm loving men because my wife the prude, has no interest in sex anymore.

I love my buds, especially when they are naked with me!

I like making love where possible. For me masturbation fills a totally different need. Sometimes just the relief needed to get focused and back to work.

My wife is OK with it--perhaps I should say "tolerant." She masturbates occasionally herself, but not regularly. She sees it as unessential and somehow suspect. She worries that I will lust when I masturbate. But she encourages me to "if you really want to."

i wish my wife was ok with masturbation but she has very little intersest in sex so i take every opportunity to get myself off. sometimes its not conventient to cum so i just stroke, enjoying the feeling in the time i have. other times i stroke in the shower or cam with someone if i get some alone time. wish i could find a lady friend to just masturbate with, watch each other and enjoy the view, or find a guy with the same needs. not really bi but would like to watch and be watched, trade pics, cam or whatever

I'm much the same as mark01256. Wife doesn't even know. Im not sure what percentage of wives dislike us JO but feel safe to say it's probably high.

In the same boat here. Whenever my wife says she going out shopping I start getting a hard-on in anticipation of 1-2 hours of quality jack off time. If she caught me she would be pissed and say "what's wrong with me that you have to do that" and on the other hand she shows no interest in sex......go figger. Whenever she is not shopping I usually wait for her to leave the room and have a good jerk. Thank god for porn

Wife doesn't know, she's not interested anyways and would questions why I do it.

Mine doesn't want to fuck much so she knows I jackoff all the time and she's OK with that. One in a while she'll jack me off too. And in a very great while she'll give me a blow job.

Apparently I'm a very lucky guy. My wife and I have sex on a regular basis and I get head just about anytime I want it. That said I still JO nearly every night.

Well I gave up masturbation when I got married 34 years ago. That is until our first child. Had my second "wet dream" and decided it was time to start masturbating again. I restricted it to only during her period. Then the internet came along. It wasn't long till I got curious as to what all was out here.

Well, I must say, the internet has made masturbation a whole lot more fun. I have never seen my wife masturbate and not sure she does. I think she knows I do, but never says anything. I try to keep it a secret. But I to like it when she goes shopping and I have the house to myself or a little longer shower in the AM!

That pretty much sums it up for me too. We do have sex but it seems like it is now a weekend only activity now. It's not enough for me and I do jack at night, either downstairs with laptop or in the bathroom.

At 22 you will have that need as I did. Sometimes just the sight of your own cock will trigger it (or someone else's!). Also at that age you will get the ever exciting 'thoughts that lift it' and before you know it you have your cock in your hand. Those were the days - things do tend to cool down by the time you reach my age - but there is always the switch to turn up the heat.

I was encouraged to do it by my wife and she regularly masturbated with a vibrator when I was there. She used to have a good orgasm and then ask me to fuck her for seconds.

We both masturbate together and on our own. Mutual masturbation is a great but when my wife's not around then I masturbate as often as possible. Sometimes she has come home and caught me and joined in or just watched and encouraged me on.

Ive been married for 16yrs. I always knew my hubby JO and at first it bothered me that he would look at porn and jack. Then I started to look at porn etc and got myself off. We both know we masturbate sometimes together sometimes solo sometimes watching each other. It feels good any which way.