Sex has come to a crawl after 28 years of marriage. I love my wife, but the lack of sex really sucks. When we do have sex, I eat her pussy and ass, but it's just a fuck after that, rarely even a pre-fuck handjob, let alone oral. I love MFC. When the wife is asleep upstairs on Friday or Saturday nights, I'm bare-assed and stroking downstairs. I have adult children too, so I really have to be sure the house is still. I love to cam with the girls as well, but that involves lights on, and that has become even more risky. Lately, I've also started to strip down and jack off next to her while she sleeps before my morning shower. Had fun last night, and looking to repeat tonight, I know that her pussy won't be part of the action.

Wow! It's not hard to see some common threads in these posts. Men who are lonely, alone, frustrated. Wives who are indifferent or insensitive to men's sexual needs.

Seems like communication is the thing. 1) A good book 2) A good weekend retreat, marriage refresher 3) Counseling

I'm not suggesting this to replace masturbation, but to tune up sex with your wife. I've done all 3 and highly recommend it.

Better than pictures of your wife would be her wearing something sexy and performing and encouraging while you jack.

yeah. 22 years old, and a sexpert? I don't think so.

Sureshoot - You are right - It is even better when she presents her body to be viewed rather than her photos - These ladies ertainly know how to get a guy turned on!

Age thing isn't right. Sorry. I'm 50. Not an expert, but have a little experience.

Let the information stand on its own merit, aye?

My wife knows how much I love to masturbate, and I love jacking off in front of her - she digs it. We have a great marriage but my sex drive is just stronger. She knows that, and encourages me to jack off in front of her if I need to. Many times I just cum all over her.

I don't want to deprive my wife, so usually I try not to ejaculate when I'm not having sex with her. (My main reason for frequenting JackinChat is not to ejaculate without her, but to help keep myself "young and sexy" for her by reading, writing, and viewing exciting things.)

Occasionally I make an exception when I'm taking a shower after having sex with her, so there's no question of depriving her. I like to imagine a nude man is watching me in the shower, and I'm acting effeminate for him, squeezing my breasts and rubbing my nipples, and this gives me an erection and it excites me to imagine the man is seeing me quickly get excited, and then he starts touching me . . . ooh!! I must say the urge to have a second orgasm does tend to overwhelm me! Sometimes I even pretend the man is fucking me between my thighs, either from behind or in front, and I pretend a shampoo bottle is the man's penis, and I squeeze it between my thighs and buck my hips until the man ejaculates in fantasy, and I do in reality.

My wife knows I jerkoff also but she would never encourage me to do it in front of her. You are very lucky.

This may not be right on target but after the birth on my first child my wifes sex drive took a big dip the second even worse i didnt understand it at all untill we went for number three i thought hey its sex but yeh i know
So all i was left with was my masturbation she hated if i stayed in the bathroom for more than like 5 minutes
She used to call me disgusting it was aweful so to you guys who have wives who enjoy for you to cum for them wow fantastic i wish id have had that

we all been there when in a relationship. but now that I am single and don't care to date, I don't want to date now or have a GF now because I am enjoying all the time I have to jack off. I am jacking off first thing in the morning before work for an hour or so, after work too, whenever.

As it sounds like for some other guys, my wife has no interest in sex, and as far as masturbation -


The last time I tried to have sex with my wife it was no-go as usual, it's been years without sex and counting, so I said I wanted to masturbate for her.

She said she was grossed out by the term "masturbate", and I'm pretty sure "jerk off" or "blow my load" would have been frowned on too. If I said I was going to "fuck my fist and cum all over your face", I imagine she would have left the room. Saying "pleasure myself discretely" might have been ok, but even it it would have, we're just not on the same page.


After that, undeterred I pulled out my cock and started stroking it. She was mildly interested and at least watched me cum when I told her I wanted her to. The end.


I've long gotten over being upset, angry, or disappointed about any of this, I accept that's the way she is and that it's a mismatch. Leaving her is not an option for the time being, and I understand I have to lay in the bed I made, so to speak.


My sex life is 100% jacking off with porn and webcams. There's no way I can spend enough time with my cock in my hand. As soon as I know she's going out for a while I feel that glow, good to know it's the same for some other guys. Usually as I see her car going down the driveway I already have the porn up, the pants down, and my cock out. When she goes to visit her family for a couple of days - total masturbation nirvana.


I've thought about leaving the porn on when she returns home and letting her see exactly how I masturbate and just what I love to jerk off to, but I know for certain she wouldn't like it and it wouldn't turn her on. The only benefit I can think of doing that would be that I'd be able to crank up the porn and masturbate as much as I wanted even while she's home.


So, for this married guy and his masturbation habits, jacking off gives me the gratification I need and I want, so much so that I prefer it to anything else.

My wife and I have fought about sex most of our marriage of 44 years. Only reason we are still together is stubborness on both our parts and the fact that we do love each other. we have a sort of truce now. she gives me vaginal sex every week or two weeks and a hand job in between to the tune of sex twice a week. She likes me to finger her and about every two weeks lick her pussy. She knows I jo but doesn't want to be around when I do it and doesn't want to talk about it. Still the deal I've got now is not bad considering how religious and prudish she is. I jo 4 times a week on average.

Like a lot of guys here, sex with the wife is quite rare. My only relief is jerking off. I have to be careful not to get caught or leave signs of my actions.

Yeah, similar situation here. Married almost 25 years, sex is rare due to family/work schedules. Thankfully I have a nice collection of videos and pics of us from the early years and she knows I put those to good use. We've talked about it and know it'll get better, just a rough patch now with other life issues in the way. Would love to cam more, but finding safe time isn't easy.