i jerk once a day, maybe 4 or 5 times in one week. problem is i usually take 2 or more hours to jerk, sometimes as much as 5. i am a busy man with a lot of responsibilities. it slows me down, and sometimes i dont have energy for the rest of the day. i need porn or else i can't get hard. but the porn just makes me want to watch more, so i edge and edge, trying to delay cumming. i think i need to lay off and do it just once or twice a week on days i don't work.

The less you jerk, the bigger your load will be on the days you do jerk off.

I feel the same way man! The thing is I love it! i usually cant wait to get home and pull my cock out. I am addicted i know that for sure. I dont know what to do, i just sleep less and jerk more haha

i love wanking.............

LOL ... That should be the new motto here.

Fact is, most of us are addicts. Usually addictions carry consequences, big ones. Masturbation to the extreme is no different. I am seriously addicted to the point of losing clients because I'm having trouble meeting deadlines. It started out casually about 7 years ago. Now, I jump on here and Yahoo and edge for hours in the nude. I cunt get enough.

No one like porn and wanking more than I do but seriously, does it have to take over one's life? It did mine.

FWIW

I think you should spend even MORE time masturbating, and it it every day. Masturbating is more important.

It's good unless it detracts from making love to your wife. That has happened a few times for me and I need to back off from masturbation. She deserves the best. She's well worth it. Besides when I'm inside her and she has an orgasm---nothing can cum close to that feeling.

Ah, yes, I remember all too well how I used to rub my little wiener until it was red and raw, when I was a teen-ager. I later discovered that, paradoxically, part of the secret to supreme satisfaction is that you have to sincerely try not to masturbate. If your sincere efforts don't always succeed--as they predictably won't--then your remaining masturbation episodes are likely to be much more exciting than if you always jerked until you dropped. (They shoot horses, don't they? What about jackers who have jacked until they can't jack any more? Can jerking off until you die really be all there is to life? I think not.)

actually, i do have sex with others now and then...mostly guys...and i need to jerk b4 i have sex with guys otherwise i may come too quickly. same if i get too busy and dont jerk for 2 or 3 days....i get too close to orgasm too quickly when i jerk the next time. jerking daily delays cumming, but i use up so much of my productive hours! hard to be a gooner and be such a workaholic at the same time.

Well I know for sure I'm addicted I jerk off everyday and I like to edge I do it every morning and night. I love seeing all the porn out there. Hearing a guy cum never gets old to me

There is too much reality to this post and the responses. Yes, whacking off has sucked off many hours of my days over the years. I am guilty of whacking for hours at night, a few hours in the a.m., locking the door to my office and whacking a bit at work too.

Try and make commitments to yourself beyond the important part of self loving, i.e. getting out to exercise a bit harder so you feel sexier, you'll build testosterone... run off to a vitamin store and experiment on building your up jizz with some selenium, zinc, horny goat weed, ylang ylang, ginkgo biloba or something else. You can take all sorts of stuff to enhance your jizz, flavor it differently, increase it, etc. Get on a dating website and go out there and get hooked up with man or woman to enjoy yourself too man, we're not here forever. That should motivate you to join the world of the living. Rather than feel guilty about indulging yourself. Being good to yourself is good. Stop knocking yourself... go spray on yourself, like I am aiming to do and do it with the idea that tomorrow you'll be back in the world actively participating in it!

personally i love to jerk off, there's very few things i'd rather do than tug on my stiff cock...honestly, if i could jerk off 24/7 i would!

yeah, a few times a year, i catch myself spending nearly an entire weekend jerking off half a dozen times, so intent on another nut, either edging or in a hurry, ugh ! it makes my penis so swollen and sore by Monday morning. I'm beginning to think that it isn't worth it. I probably average five times a week, for good jackin sessions. Thanks

There seems to be a common theme about j/o too much. I usually get in a session once or twice a week only because of my demand in life (work, family, etc...)

I think jacking off is like any other thing, do it in moderation and you should be ok. The fact that you had to post about doing it too much on this site, probably means there is a bigger issue at hand.

Jacking off should be fun and relaxing and not controlling and demanding of your life.